jlr12584 said:
The last couple weeks or so, I have been visiting the forums and searched for good reads/advice to help me grow as a person. Sadly, I cannot recall the last time I found anything worth a grain of salt. These boards are being overrun with topics such as "How to get a married woman to cheat" or "How do i win back my ex girlfriend who dumped me and cheated on me countless times." Seriously, i want to shake my head in disgust at the lack of self-respect presented by these don juans. Normally I would not ***** and complain just for the sake of it, but it is time we start sharing worthwhile ideas instead of dealing with perverted questions. being a don juan does not mean being a desperate scum bag who will stick his manhood into anything that has a hole.
I implore the forum moderators to start trashing the lame threads and encourage people to grow up a little.
Last I checked, this forum is primarily aimed towards those who are
aspiring to be "don juans," seeing as how virtually every aspect of this site is focused upon self-help. As such, it will attract both men who have above-average skills with women as well as those with absolutely no social skills whatsoever. To imply that there is no value in the latter group's sincere questions or concerns -- regardless of how misguided they may in fact be -- is laughable.
Ironically, this post is the worst one I've read today. And I make that statement having just read a thread where the original poster was solely complaining about having lost some SoSuave forum rep points.
What makes your thread worse than his? At least his whining was remotely amusing. Your whining doesn't even have
that going for it.
As far as I'm concerned, a post that outright advocates silencing people's voices -- based on your own personal expectations of what constitutes a "grown up" question, or what discussion topics are "lame" -- is both incredibly arrogant, and truly elitist. It seems you have some "growing up" to do yourself. Thank God this post is still open so I can offer my own input in an attempt to help you do so.
Your main problem is that you don’t truly give a sh*t about the quality of the forum’s content. If you actually did, you would not have made this thread. In place of this complaint-ridden drivel, you would have instead created quality content of your own in order to set an example that others could follow. You know,
creating the change you want to see rather than merely groaning that no one is making your desired changes
for you.
But you said it yourself. You’re looking for good reads for YOUR OWN improvement to help YOU grow. It doesn’t matter to you if any of the newer material on this site is helping somebody other than you, does it?
You’re sounding like a taker, plain and simple. And an ungrateful one at that. Your post is not a sincere attempt at actually improving this forum; it is merely your last-ditch effort to get someone else to write something that will help you and you alone.
You can’t recall the last time you found anything here “worth a grain of salt?” That's adorable. I can name you several regular SoSuave posters who routinely provide very accurate and helpful information to people here who need it. A lot of it is quite valuable. Just because I might have known something already doesn’t make the information itself any less valuable to those who may be reading it for the very first time.
So, to spread the wealth, here is some fresh information that you may find useful:
Among the SoSuave posters who make constant positive contributions to this forum, shockingly none of the names that come to mind include “jlr12584.” Do something about that. And while you're at it, take a step off your high horse. Your input in this thread is no more constructive than the very people you’re criticizing. Turn your bullsh*t into fertilizer if you want any growth to ever actually occur here.
