Where do you guys approach ?

[curiouscat]

Hello,

This place is great and the information I have found here really motivated me to take action about my approach anxiety and lately I have approached much more But not enough !

The problem is that I really don’t have enough opportunities besides approaching on the street which is extremely hard for me. When I make eye contact with women I’m often hit with temporary stupidity, I find myself braindead, unable to act only to regret it later. I usually need time to think about what I will do and in the street, things happen too fast for my little brain.

Clubs and bars aren’t an option since I have no friends to go with and I just feel too awkward and bored being alone in a bar.

Where do you usually approach ?

 

[J Roc]

Try approaching women and getting their number without saying a word

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4ZEaKS6-ixk

 

[curiouscat]

doesn't seem to be quite realistic, plus I think you have to be good looking to pull that off

 

[J Roc]

doesn't seem to be quite realistic, plus I think you have to be good looking to pull that off

try it out and find out

 

[curiouscat]

Ok I didn’t try that but I tried something else with a smoking hot babe, from her body language, I had the feeling she wanted me to talk to her so I told myself f”ck it ! I just said something so simple I can’t believe I didn’t try it before, I just said hi and I was shocked to see that she was totally receptive, she even invited me to a fashion show she is organizing tomorrow.

The problem is that I didn’t make my intentions clear during the whole interaction even if at one point I wanted to tell her I was lost in her eyes (that is how pretty she is) but I didn’t do it, I thought it would sound cheesy. So she probably just see me as a friend but at least I’m trying to approach again, that’s something

now I don't know if I should go there alone or with another girl that I met (just a friend).

 

[Plutoman]

I do my work in coffee shops and talk to the cute girls that stop by it all day. Have to be in a popular spot that a lot of people travel to, and you better have something to occupy you - I work on my coding while I'm here.

 

[synergy1]

I usually only do the bars or nightlife. Obviously when amongst social groups If I don't know someone as well. most of my approaches are the bars.

Living in a smaller area means less approach opportunities. Been doing a combination of online, approaching, and a new phone app called tinder. Tinder is proving to be interesting!

 

[escaleraroyal]

i do my business online

 

[Consistent]

I'M LOOKING FOR A WINGMAN FOR DAYGAME. I LIVE IN NY. I WANT TO BECOME AN UNSTOPPABLE FORCE IN THE PICK UP COMMUNITY. THE PROBLEM IS THAT SINCE I'M ALONE THERE ARE TIMES WHERE I GET STUCK IN MY HEAD AND MY WILL POWER GETS DEPLETED AND I CAN'T APPROACH. I'M VERY SERIOUS ABOUT THIS AND I'M DOWN TO WORK WITH SOMEONE. EMAIL ME @ shvili35@gmail.com