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Where do you do your cold approaches

frivolousz21

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I haven't gotten a date of myspace yet..but all of a sudden the conversations are heating up and moving along well....I cant remember how to close on there...its been so long.


anyways..where do you guys do most of your cold approaches...
 

speed dawg

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This is just me talking here, but I don't do cold approaches. Well, I do per se, it's just that I don't go out with the intention of cold approaching girls. I just try to put on a positive vibe and let things happen. I had taken a new approach to going out to bars/clubs too - not to pick up, just to have a good time and enjoy myself. Simply put, getting women isn't my main focus. It's a nice addition, but not the focus.

Maybe that approach would help, given your current situation? Because another thing I found out, is that crazy women will be found in Barnes and Noble just like they will at the Level Three club downtown.
 

The Bat

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Anywhere where there is a hot woman and if I feel like cold approaching.

Funeral is one of the few places where I have yet to cold approach a woman.

You need to get out there yesterday and start talking to hot women in person, friv. Stop trying to pick up women over myspace.
 

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frivolousz21 said:
I haven't gotten a date of myspace yet..but all of a sudden the conversations are heating up and moving along well....I cant remember how to close on there...its been so long.


anyways..where do you guys do most of your cold approaches...
Clubs and bars. But they shouldn't be limitted to just those places.
 

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Grocery ("healthy" ones usually are abundant with women) Stores, Book Stores, Downtown (if you have one), bars and clubs.

Finding these institutions near college campuses is a sure fire way to be able to meet tons of people.

The internet pick up is fail.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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