SlappaDaBayyys
Don Juan
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Hey guys,
This is my first post on the forum, so I thought I'd make it useful and to ask where I could have gone wrong in my previous relationship. I'm not looking for ways to win her back, as we all know that's dangerous territory, but I'm looking for advice in discovering where I went wrong so I can implement the change in the next relationship I have. I'm no stranger to seduction or having sex with women, but one area my game is lacking in is in relationships.
I'd known the girl in question for years (through mutual friends), but we never got to know each other until December last year when she started messaging me on Facebook. Needless to say I asked her out. First date went great, I played it cool, kept it ****y/funny, and then by the third date I was back at her place.
Fast forward to two months in and she asks to be my girlfriend. Fast forward to three months in and she's telling me she loves me. I told her I did too. All the while she was doing 80% of the contacting, 80% of "I love you", and generally telling me how into me she was constantly.
After a week of being a little distant she cancelled our weekend plans last week because she had college work to do. Then I get broken up with through TEXT message on Saturday morning. I haven't responded to her since then because she doesn't deserve it.
Have you guys any thoughts on why this could have happened? Considering I didn't show wussy behaviour at all in the relationship I'm having a hard time figuring it out. There was a holiday that she talked about going on with me a lot, and in retrospect I didn't even bother saving for it and just put it out of my head. Also, I put on a lot of weight from the time we went out first to when she dumped me. I fell into a lot of patterns too, such as always going to her place at the same time every weekend, staying Friday, Saturday and Sunday and leaving at the same time.
Thoughts?
This is my first post on the forum, so I thought I'd make it useful and to ask where I could have gone wrong in my previous relationship. I'm not looking for ways to win her back, as we all know that's dangerous territory, but I'm looking for advice in discovering where I went wrong so I can implement the change in the next relationship I have. I'm no stranger to seduction or having sex with women, but one area my game is lacking in is in relationships.
I'd known the girl in question for years (through mutual friends), but we never got to know each other until December last year when she started messaging me on Facebook. Needless to say I asked her out. First date went great, I played it cool, kept it ****y/funny, and then by the third date I was back at her place.
Fast forward to two months in and she asks to be my girlfriend. Fast forward to three months in and she's telling me she loves me. I told her I did too. All the while she was doing 80% of the contacting, 80% of "I love you", and generally telling me how into me she was constantly.
After a week of being a little distant she cancelled our weekend plans last week because she had college work to do. Then I get broken up with through TEXT message on Saturday morning. I haven't responded to her since then because she doesn't deserve it.
Have you guys any thoughts on why this could have happened? Considering I didn't show wussy behaviour at all in the relationship I'm having a hard time figuring it out. There was a holiday that she talked about going on with me a lot, and in retrospect I didn't even bother saving for it and just put it out of my head. Also, I put on a lot of weight from the time we went out first to when she dumped me. I fell into a lot of patterns too, such as always going to her place at the same time every weekend, staying Friday, Saturday and Sunday and leaving at the same time.
Thoughts?
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