There is no meaning to my life. I just live to live. The only meaning your life can have is the one you give it or decided to accept.
I hate to bring some doom and gloom into your life, but aren't you just existing? When your all old and frail, will you look back and say "I'm so happy I existed!". How are you gonna make sure you dont have any regrets? I know you can "live for the moment" and stuff, but surely there is something you love to do that you will feel happy giving your life too. Because that's really it.
Torn Victor is a prime example of this. He love's his country, and he wants to use his time in the armed forces. He will explain to you, I'm sure, that this is not just for fun, or survival, but because, at the end of his days, he will be able to look back and say- "I did something I loved, and I have no regrets, and I had a ****ing great time doing it too!"
He will, quite literally, lay down his life for something he loves. But you can lay down your life for other things too- art, drama, traveling even accounting. Because thats what you're doing. If you spend your life doing something (which may or may not be your job) you are using up your life doing it. I can do art all my life, or I can die keeping art alive in a second. Both amount to the same thing. Using my life doing something i love. And at the end, I'll have no regrets in either scenario.
What are you going to do, you "live for the moment"ers? When its all over, will you have devoted your life to parties and sex? In my opinion, the DJ attitude means "living for yourself", not for the moment. And as we all mature to realise, girls and parties aren't the tip of the ice-berg.
I know this is a pretty far off thread for most of you guys (this is the HS forum, lets not forget
) but realise that a lot of you guys might want to devote your life to raising a family. Hey! Lots of people do it! Doesn't make it any less of a worthy cause.
I'm just saying that going to parties, macking with the ladies, and improving yourself should be done because you want to. And we guess you do, thats the reason you're here, reading this post. But really, the stuff here isn't rocket science.
Lol, think about it!--- I'm skinny! Weightlift and eat more. I suck with girls! Read this post you dumb AFC. I'm afraid of cold pick ups! Grab your balls, *****. Its not that hard! This is what I've realised. I've realised this board lets people know they can controll their own lives. We are all born different, some seemingly worse off than others- but we can all achive whatever we set our minds to. We are told this as children (probably...), but in adolescence, some seem to forget.
Some fall behind, accepting that we will never be as good at X as "Joe" is. We will never be as good looking as "dave". Well **** that! You can rule at everything, you might not, but you can! And you can only do that if you realise you can, you have the courage and determination to see it through, you stop judgeing yourself by other people's standards, and you know what you are doing! (And I doubt its an accident that those who succeed have typicaly male (testosteronised) atributes- determination, bravery, agression (in going after something they love) and competitiveness (Is that a word? And by that I mean wanting to be as good as they can be, and through this wanting to be the best- its not a question of beating other people, but fulfilling the expectations you have of yourself. There's a difference in winning to be better than others, and winning to be better.))
Those that are great with women never hear of this site. Those who are so flacid accept their state and "exist" through life- never finding this site. Those that are willing to put in some determination do, and these people become the happiest in the world.
Because they control their life. They live it by their rules, to do what they want. Not by a philosophy, and not by what is easiest, or what someone wants them to do.
So again I ask you, what do you want to do?
Ps. Hugh G. rection, I am begining to dislike you. Before I'd completed the bible I'd understood that the object was not to get girls, but -not to need them-. Grasp this concept sunshine, and unless you are seriously concidering using up your life pleasuring women (as if they deserved it...) then please dont post something so damn AFC, so damn fake-pimp, and so damn un-DJ again.
