Where Are the Young Adults???

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Translation: where the hotties at?

I don't live in a huge metro area, but in 2020 and before, it wasn't difficult to find parties/networking events/meetups etc. for younger adults.

Now, in late 2021, almost everything has dried up. Young adult groups in churches? Non-existent. Nightlife bars and clubs? Everything closes by 9, maybe 11 in a best case scenario. Meetups? A huge decline in participation, even in nearby metro areas.

There was a noticeable spike this weekend as significantly more hotties were out randomly so I know there are still young adults and even hotties locally but it's like they're f-cking meerkats just out for a peek.

Have all younger adults fled to the cities? This seems like a sudden reversel as everyone was fleeing big cities because of all of the restrictions.

Everything is so f0cking confusing right now!
Blame the restrictions against flying and tourism. I use to get an influx of young euro hotties, but due to this whole stupid business with virtue signalling, it has halted a lot of traveling. We are about to hit Thanksgiving and Christmas and even then that is going to be hard for a lot of people who are use to flying or bussing.
 

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Yea, I met several females at Meetups and laid them prior to the pandemic. Since March 2020, the average or attractive females, I am told, are gone. Mostly just old people and dudes; not cool dudes either, the rejected dudes of society. Even my pool meetup has just these types. No attractive females whatsoever. I am in a relationship, but I like to see what options I have in case it fails.
 

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Yea, I met several females at Meetups and laid them prior to the pandemic. Since March 2020, the average or attractive females, I am told, are gone. Mostly just old people and dudes; not cool dudes either, the rejected dudes of society. Even my pool meetup has just these types. No attractive females whatsoever. I am in a relationship, but I like to see what options I have in case it fails.
Meetup was like that well before the pandemic. It's not a cool thing for young adults to do. It has never been cool.
 

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Yea, I met several females at Meetups and laid them prior to the pandemic. Since March 2020, the average or attractive females, I am told, are gone. Mostly just old people and dudes; not cool dudes either, the rejected dudes of society. Even my pool meetup has just these types. No attractive females whatsoever. I am in a relationship, but I like to see what options I have in case it fails.
Where are the girls at then? Same with OLD. Wasn't very good before Covid, but now it's mostly trash. When I'm out and about I see less young women as well. It seems hot women in general have dried up. I looked at meetup before Covid and all it was was mostly old ladies I saw on the profile pics.
 

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Meetup was like that well before the pandemic. It's not a cool thing for young adults to do. It has never been cool.
Never had an issue picking up the females at the 20 something groups.

Where are the girls at then? Same with OLD. Wasn't very good before Covid, but now it's mostly trash. When I'm out and about I see less young women as well. It seems hot women in general have dried up. I looked at meetup before Covid and all it was was mostly old ladies I saw on the profile pics.
I think people are just keeping their distance due to the masks and such. As the winter approaches, not sure how many people will be venturing out with strangers.
 

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Never had an issue picking up the females at the 20 something groups.



I think people are just keeping their distance due to the masks and such. As the winter approaches, not sure how many people will be venturing out with strangers.
Here in Florida I've noticed old people like 65 and over wearing the mask a lot more as well as women in general. Women even make their 3 year olds wear masks down here when they're out shopping and that and have seen women even wearing medical gloves when shopping lol.

Women of all ages seem more paranoid of the virus in general though just from talking to them. I work a part time job two days a week at a grocery store and my female coworkers of all ages seem to wear masks constantly and such and wanting to wash their hands more.
 

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1. lots of popular clubs and bars have shut down or limited hours since early 2020.

2. colleges have turned into soft prisons with severe restrictions on student's ability to travel and associate freely and/or constant tracking of their movements discouraging freedom of travel.

3. lots of young people becoming shut-ins using food delivery, online videos for home workouts, addicted to internet in general, netflix, video games, etc.

4. fake virus testing and fake vaccinations, combined with free rent, endless unemployment and stimulus checks discouraging young people from working, keeping them at home.

5. all public spaces "requiring" masks, proof of fake vaccinations making it a hassle to enter any and all businesses.

6. increasingly severe restrictions on all forms of travel: bus, uber, plane, train.

7. "stranger danger" propaganda 24/7 in media means those who do go out are staying close to their school/work/hometown social circles.

None of these factors in isolation makes a huge difference but in concert, it means social life and public activities are taking a huge hit.

Not to mention when hot young women do venture out, they are often wearing masks so you can't even tell what they look like.
 

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Where I'm at in Georgia, people are out in full force like the pandemic was non-existent. Everywhere I go, I see a small crowd almost as soon as I get there. That can be anywhere like the grocery store, shopping malls, hotels, not to mention that I don't live too far away from UGA where the best CFB team in the country is. Gameday brings a crowd here every weekend almost except for when they are away from town. Hell, y'all saw the World Series last week in Atlanta (or should I say Smyrna). The place was lit... Even after winning the World Series, the streets were literally flooded in ATL. So to answer your question, young adults are not sit-in all days unless they want to.
 

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Where I'm at in Georgia, people are out in full force like the pandemic was non-existent. Everywhere I go, I see a small crowd almost as soon as I get there. That can be anywhere like the grocery store, shopping malls, hotels, not to mention that I don't live too far away from UGA where the best CFB team in the country is. Gameday brings a crowd here every weekend almost except for when they are away from town. Hell, y'all saw the World Series last week in Atlanta (or should I say Smyrna). The place was lit... Even after winning the World Series, the streets were literally flooded in ATL. So to answer your question, young adults are not sit-in all days unless they want to.
What about the masks? here in my part of Floriduh tons of people are still wearing masks, young and old. As another poster said, with the women you can't see half their face with the masks on. meaning you can't tell if their teeth or bad or if they have a lip piercing!

My mom and I were in Five Below the other day. There was a sorta goth looking chick in another line with a mask on. Maybe about 21, college age, bit too young for my taste. Looked about HB7. Mom comments to me she looks cute then she takes her mask off and has a bunch of nose piercings.

Also around here healthcare is a big career due to the age demographics. many women are in the nursing field so they're all masks up everywhere they go. I see them in the grocery store wearing their scrubs and they're sporting their stupid mask.
 

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1. lots of popular clubs and bars have shut down or limited hours since early 2020.

2. colleges have turned into soft prisons with severe restrictions on student's ability to travel and associate freely and/or constant tracking of their movements discouraging freedom of travel.

5. all public spaces "requiring" masks, proof of fake vaccinations making it a hassle to enter any and all businesses.

7. "stranger danger" propaganda 24/7 in media means those who do go out are staying close to their school/work/hometown social circles.

None of these factors in isolation makes a huge difference but in concert, it means social life and public activities are taking a huge hit.

Not to mention when hot young women do venture out, they are often wearing masks so you can't even tell what they look like.
The 4 remaining here are the bigger day to day factors.

Outdoor approaching is still the most viable cold approach.

It's difficult to do approaches in the grocery stores and malls with too many people masked.
 

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Here in Florida I've noticed old people like 65 and over wearing the mask a lot more as well as women in general. Women even make their 3 year olds wear masks down here when they're out shopping and that and have seen women even wearing medical gloves when shopping lol.

Women of all ages seem more paranoid of the virus in general though just from talking to them. I work a part time job two days a week at a grocery store and my female coworkers of all ages seem to wear masks constantly and such and wanting to wash their hands more.
Even I wear a mask, so I wouldn't be such in a rush to judge.
 

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Women of all ages seem more paranoid of the virus in general though just from talking to them.
Actually, women are on the fence about it. I've seen women celebrate for not wearing a mask, which matched my suspicions that the only reason they are following along is for social proof. In reality, not being able to travel or go out and have fun hurts women more than men. For me, for instance, not a lot of my life changed. I'm very good at conserving money already and most of what I do doesnt require many people to be having fun either. Whether that's buying a book, hiking, running, or whatever. Women on the other hand thrive in mall, bars, and other entertainment settings. To them, they spend frivolously.

As a summary, women are far more likely to throw away their masks right now than men who are adamant about it mostly due to their nature. At the same time, yes, women are also more likely to be fearful, but don't ever forget: women can hold contradicting thoughts in their head with ease! So what seems like a catch-22 to us is simply a normal day for a woman.
 

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Actually, women are on the fence about it. I've seen women celebrate for not wearing a mask, which matched my suspicions that the only reason they are following along is for social proof. In reality, not being able to travel or go out and have fun hurts women more than men. For me, for instance, not a lot of my life changed. I'm very good at conserving money already and most of what I do doesnt require many people to be having fun either. Whether that's buying a book, hiking, running, or whatever. Women on the other hand thrive in mall, bars, and other entertainment settings. To them, they spend frivolously.

As a summary, women are far more likely to throw away their masks right now than men who are adamant about it mostly due to their nature. At the same time, yes, women are also more likely to be fearful, but don't ever forget: women can hold contradicting thoughts in their head with ease! So what seems like a catch-22 to us is simply a normal day for a woman.
I disagree with that partially though. The masks requirements in Florida are very laxed except for companies who require it. Even out in public, most stores are no longer requiring masks. Yet many of all ages still wear them young and old. Other than doctor offices, and employers who require it, it's not required to wear a mask anywhere anymore. Been that way since the early spring. yet, around July people started to wear them more when the numbers went up or fake numbers if you call them.

Men and women in my family also only do the bare mins when require to wear them.
 

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I disagree with that partially though. The masks requirements in Florida are very laxed except for companies who require it. Even out in public, most stores are no longer requiring masks. Yet many of all ages still wear them young and old. Other than doctor offices, and employers who require it, it's not required to wear a mask anywhere anymore. Been that way since the early spring. yet, around July people started to wear them more when the numbers went up or fake numbers if you call them.

Men and women in my family also only do the bare mins when require to wear them.
Yes, that is what I see. When I went to lunch a little bit ago only women were wearing masks,...even riding in the car by themself, but I don't recall a single guy wearing one.. They believe the fearmongering and put on the useless mask without any question or resistance,...fear is their motivation for most things.
 

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Yes, that is what I see. When I went to lunch a little bit ago only women were wearing masks,...even riding in the car by themself, but I don't recall a single guy wearing one.. They believe the fearmongering and put on the useless mask without any question or resistance,...fear is their motivation for most things.
Older people too. I see old people wear them in the car sometimes down here. Old people are also flocking for the boosters too.
 

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Yea, I almost included that on my statement but just left it short.
Just got back from Wal-mart. Saw a Wal-mart employee chick, she's about an HB7 parks at the end of the parking lot and has her mask on in her car and when she gets out of her car lol. Saw others masking up before even walking into the store.

The ones that get me are ones who wear a mask, wear gloves AND also wear those face shields you see surgeons wear so blood doesn't splatter onto their face.
 

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The level of catfishing on meetup is getting way out of hand.

Most are old women who are posting photos which are 15, 20, 30(!) years out of date!

The other women are shooping their photos using cheap online filters and apps but these women are so dumb they'll filter out their face wrinkles but leave all of their neck wrinkles showing. WTF?
 

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The level of catfishing on meetup is getting way out of hand.

Most are old women who are posting photos which are 15, 20, 30(!) years out of date!

The other women are shooping their photos using cheap online filters and apps but these women are so dumb they'll filter out their face wrinkles but leave all of their neck wrinkles showing. WTF?
Wow. Anything online is mostly rubbish though.
 

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