Where are all the beautiful women?

[Fuglydude]

I think beautiful women are everywhere... it is, however, MUCH harder to find a beautiful woman who's got a really cool/fun personality, who is intelligent/has a great education/career, and also will have great chemistry with you.

 

[StevenR]

about the online stuff, it would be interesting to read other peoples method of how they get chicks from the computer screen to the bedroom. Is that anywhere in the DJ Bible?

One other thing, this is a little off subject, and way past my bedtime, but I have been reading the "bible" and this part of it struck me:

studied so many techniques here that I could give you precise definitions and personal experiences that corrolate with every acronym in the book! From C&F to DHV to SS, I have tried it all. Did it help? To a certain extent, yes....because I had something to fall back on, which is better than nothing. But as time went on, I got tired of doing things this way because they seem so damn mechanical and calculated and just NOT ME. Frustrated with the moderate results I was getting from these techniques, I decided to give them up completely and focus on my strengths.

For example, I happen to be a damn good artist. Sketching has always been a passion of mine but for the last few years I have totally slacked on it. Recently, the passion has been rekindled and I now carry around a small sketchpad in case inspiration strikes. One of my favorite subjects are, you guessed it, beautiful women! Lately I been sketching a lot of them..on the street, on the bus, etc.. and after making one particularly stunning sketch, I decided to share my artwork with the subject. She absolutely LOVED it and begged for my number so I could paint her.

I could go into detail about the nude painting session that ensued, but thats not really necessary. My point is that this has become one of my favorite and most effective approaches because it reflects the very essence of who I am! I attract women doing something that comes naturally to me...go figure.

I also can sketch/draw really well and also paint. I remember reading on another seduction forum recently about an approach called "the crappy sketch artist" or something where you make a joke sketch of a chick, and thinking, well, what if I really can draw like an old master? Would that impress her too?
and what is DHV?

 

[grinder]

Palm reading, crappy sketch artist, opinion openers, online, and cold approach methods get your foot in the door with women. These really do work. But, the deeper part that most miss is improving the “you” that is standing in that door. Tricks don’t work there.

I believe DHV is demonstration of higher value.

For myspace here’s the linked threads for most of it.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=128126&highlight=linked+myspace

 

[StevenR]

I do think I have things that are of value, like my intelligence(inability to find the DJ Bible right away notwithstanding ) and artistic talent, as well as a number of other things I enjoy doing and think are interesting. But do women place the same importance in their mate selection criteria as I place on what I think makes me stand out?

In other words, do they give a rip about things that I think make me stand out, like artistic ability/skill, intellectual ability, sense of adventure, specific skills like knowing how to fly an airplane, all the adventures I have had in my life and all the exotic places I have traveled to, that kind of thing, or do they just care about how tall I am and how much money I make and how outgoing I am? To me those last three things are actually more superficial but it seems that those are the kind of things women value more in our society.

 

[Blackmm]

The average dress size of american women is a size 12-14. If one is looking for lots of Maxim magazine quality HB's, you need to go where industry rewards chicks for looking good (cities with major modeling agencies, hollywood, etc). A chick that can use her looks to get paid WILL use them to get paid, and there just aren't that many modeling studios in Hog Bottom, USA.

Just my .02

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

about the online stuff, it would be interesting to read other peoples method of how they get chicks from the computer screen to the bedroom. Is that anywhere in the DJ Bible?

The concept is exactly the same, you just need communication skills which are better than the typical guy in order to get them to meet with you offline.

 

[iqqi]

But do women place the same importance in their mate selection criteria as I place on what I think makes me stand out?

In other words, do they give a rip about things that I think make me stand out, like artistic ability/skill, intellectual ability, sense of adventure, specific skills like knowing how to fly an airplane, all the adventures I have had in my life and all the exotic places I have traveled to, that kind of thing, or do they just care about how tall I am and how much money I make and how outgoing I am? To me those last three things are actually more superficial but it seems that those are the kind of things women value more in our society.

Of course there are women who value those things over money and height. Come on, don't be so naive.

A little about two of guys who really have my attention right now, and why:

1. Nerdy guy I work with - why, because I have a thing for geeky guys, he has a nice smile, and is friggin super intelligent. How refreshing!

2. Guy I used to work with and am currently stalking on myspace - why, because he writes poetry (good poetry too!), was too shy to talk to me (cute!), and his song choices (myspace radio thingy), have me head over heels!

Guys hook me with details like that.

Alot of girls look at cars, height, jobs, and other superficial things, yeah, sure, but you don't want that anyways. Be glad they aren't interested in you. Feel sorry for the lad who gets one of them!

 

[StevenR]

was too shy to talk to me (cute!)

Doesn't sound like he has read the DJ Bible yet, shame on him! What a total AFC!

 

[STR8UP]

Alot of girls look at cars, height, jobs, and other superficial things, yeah, sure, but you don't want that anyways. Be glad they aren't interested in you. Feel sorry for the lad who gets one of them!

ALL women factor those things into the equation when choosing a mate. Any woman who claims other wise is DELUSIONAL.

Doesn't mean she's a gold digger, most women are simply looking out for #1.

 

[iqqi]

ALL women factor those things into the equation when choosing a mate. Any woman who claims other wise is DELUSIONAL.

Doesn't mean she's a gold digger, most women are simply looking out for #1.

You must only hang out with one type of girl!

How do you explain all the broke a$$ fools out there with women? THINK.

 

[ketostix]

You must only hang out with one type of girl!

How do you explain all the broke a$$ fools out there with women? THINK.

I don't deny there's SOME women, mostly younger <21, with broke fools. There's definitely women with fools, but I don't really see that many women getting with broke guys and especially not many women over 22 years of age getting serious with broke guys.

Iqqi you'll latch onto any stereotype or anecdotal story and argue it both ways to portray women in a positive light. So which one does it prove in your example, that women are stupid, or not opportunistic or both. Pick one.

 

[iqqi]

So which one does it prove in your example, that women are stupid, or not opportunistic or both. Pick one.

Are you saying that a woman who dates a broke guy is stupid?

and that all broke guys are fools?

Sounds like it...


Because I am saying that some women are opportunistic, and some are not.

Same with men.

 

[grinder]

You have received several good suggestions for your question.

Now, get off this board and go practice in the field.

20 minutes in the field is worth more than 20 hours on this board.

You will not find any answers here, only suggestions, ideas, and guides.

Only you can answer your questions.

 

[Analytic]

I really don't think you're trying at all. You asked a question and Joekker answers it already. Start with those so you can't complain you don't see good looking woman anymore.

As for places like meetup or any event cater to socializing is damn obvioups there will be more men then woman. Do you really think good looking woman uses Meetup to meet people? and newsflash, the woman who suposedly cancel or even ones that said they'll come for that matter won't, why? because alot of them are fake and being created by the club owner to lure more people in.

You can't complain that clubs has more men either, reality is yes there are more men but most just standing around the bar looking at the girls, they may as well not count. The dance floor is full for good looking woman.

On the street I see the same amount of men and woman walking about. Most of the problems you have is self-created.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Is there some hidden secret island where all the beautiful women go to hang out?

If there is, then on that island are men with status and power. That's the #1 aphrodesiac for women. If you want the top women, status and power make it a lot easier. Now you're thinking that you need to be rich, but there are other ways to status. In the book of Pook, he talks about raising his status through body building. Status and power can be physical rather than material. Career-wise, owning your own business, or at least a side business, raises your status. Being a boss or manager or some type helps as well. College degrees help, especially graduate degrees. I have a law degree, and I can tell you it makes things too easy with girls. I have a couple pretty hot gfs right now - one goes to law school, and the other is shopping for a husband, the law degree helps with both. If they can brag to their friends and family about you, those people talk you up without ever having met you, and it makes everything a lot easier. And btw, if I ever get around to taking the bar and managing to pass, I'll only make a paltry 30-40k/yr. Status and power does not have to mean money, but find it somehow, and you will get the beautiful women. Also notice that all the things I mentioned will improve you as a person, which is the overall conventional wisdom on how to attract women.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Is there some hidden secret island where all the beautiful women go to hang out?

If there is, then on that island are men with status and power. That's the #1 aphrodesiac for women. If you want the top women, status and power make it a lot easier. Now you're thinking that you need to be rich, but there are other ways to status. In the book of Pook, he talks about raising his status through body building. Status and power can be physical rather than material. Career-wise, owning your own business, or at least a side business, raises your status. Being a boss or manager or some type helps as well. College degrees help, especially graduate degrees. I have a law degree, and I can tell you it makes things too easy with girls. I have a couple pretty hot gfs right now - one goes to law school, and the other is shopping for a husband, the law degree helps with both. If they can brag to their friends and family about you, those people talk you up without ever having met you, and it makes everything a lot easier. And btw, if I ever get around to taking the bar and managing to pass, I'll only make a paltry 30-40k/yr. Status and power does not have to mean money, but find it somehow, and you will get the beautiful women. Also notice that all the things I mentioned will improve you as a person, which is the overall conventional wisdom on how to attract women.

Good stuff as usual BB. But I've gotta let you know that I've been to the hidden secret island where all the beautiful women go. It's called "Whole Foods Market." This ain't your momma's grocery sto' filled with chunky 9 to 5'vers buying 4 family size bags of Cool Ranch Doritos, nuh-uh... I have not seen so many fit, athletic and genuinely personable women in one spot in I don't know how long. :rockon:

 

[joekerr31]

And btw, if I ever get around to taking the bar and managing to pass, I'll only make a paltry 30-40k/yr.

40k as a lawyer?!! how is that possible? unless you have to article / intern or something.

 

[Bible_Belt]

It's a misconception that lawyers are rich, but I am happy to let women believe it. The average starting salary for my law school is $35K for gov't work and $40k for private firm jobs. There's over a hundred law schools, and mine is mediocre. Unless you go to a top 25 school or have top 10% grades, there is not much money to be made right out of school. I might take a public defender job to get experience without having to move. That will pay only $30K, but in small town America, that is a decent wage. $500-600/mo rents a 3/2 house around here. The nation-wide median for attorneys is only about 75-80k/yr, that sounds like a lot, but the median work week is probably about 60 hours, which is part of why lawyers are mostly miserable people.

 

[Maxtro]

The average dress size of american women is a size 12-14. If one is looking for lots of Maxim magazine quality HB's, you need to go where industry rewards chicks for looking good (cities with major modeling agencies, hollywood, etc). A chick that can use her looks to get paid WILL use them to get paid, and there just aren't that many modeling studios in Hog Bottom, USA.

Just my .02

Thats the same opinion that I have. This is my equation.

There are 50% women and 50% men
Out of the 50% women, 50% of them are attractive. The number might even be less then 50%

That leaves us with 50% men 25% attractive women. In other words there are 50 men going after the 25 attractive women. Out of the 25 attractive women some have kids and then the odds of getting a childless attractive women are much worse. I'm glad that the age group I'm going after generally haven't had kids yet, unless they were really stupid.

The majority of women that are single are fat and or ugly. I hope to be proven wrong soon.

joekerr31 listed some good locations that I'm going to check out.

 

[Stavrogin]

Unfortunately, what Bible Belt says seems to be true. I can't help but notice that women are obsessed with status. A woman who has never been to law school probably thinks all lawyers are making six-figure salaries. She'd probably give a certain guy a second look solely because she found out what he did for a living. In contrast, female law students will ignore a male law student who is not near the top of his class or on law review.