When Your Girlfriend/Friend Attempts To Make You Jealous...
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Don Juan
I think it really depends on if it's your girlfriend or just a chick who is your friend.
Well when any of my past bf's used to flirt with girls in front of me.. I simply smiled and flirted back with her. I mean not in a lesbian way but in a very confident way... I never let them see I was upset. Why should I? It worked like a charm.
Not sure if you can do the opposite but you could be having a great time, be like hey buddy and simply ignore it. Don't ever let a women know you are jealous..Act like it ain't no big deal. And don't retaliate by picking another women to get back at her. You will look like a big fat AFC and it will be obvious. Just stand solo or talk to a friend. Smile at her big and wide like you are actually getting turned on that she is flirting with some other guy.
Not in a gay way, but trust me.. it will work
Not sure if you can do the opposite but you could be having a great time, be like hey buddy and simply ignore it. Don't ever let a women know you are jealous..Act like it ain't no big deal. And don't retaliate by picking another women to get back at her. You will look like a big fat AFC and it will be obvious. Just stand solo or talk to a friend. Smile at her big and wide like you are actually getting turned on that she is flirting with some other guy.
Not in a gay way, but trust me.. it will work
Shadow Dancer
Senior Don Juan
Recently went through this type of situation one of the girls I'm talking to right now.
She was supposed to call on a certain day to finalize plans. She's currently staying with her grandma about an hour away. She didn't call at the agreed time. I gave her some leeway and went out. Came back home and no message. I figured she was faking on me so I left her a message saying exactly this:
"Hey xxxxxx. Since you didn't call I figured you went crazy and decided not to come over. Just so we're on the same page, I've made other plans so I won't be available saturday night. See ya."
I didn't want her thinking that we were still on for Saturday night...didn't want any misunderstanding. As stupid as it was for her to fake, I didn't want her to drive an hour to my house and then have me tell her to go home, hehe. Better just to leave a message clearly stating what was up.
Anyway, a couple days later she gives me a call and is upset with me. Said she didn't call because her grandma had trouble breathing and had to take her to the hospital. Truth? I dunno, but I decide to give her the benefit of the doubt. But let her know that she owes me. She's upset now cause she thinks I'm mean and not very understanding. I tell her to look at it from my point of view. Can easily see how I would think she was faking. She still got some attitutude and questioned me. I told her that I told her once and I wouldn't explain it again. I had to go so we ended that conversation.
She called two days later talking all sad and said she had a bad day. Said it was with her ex-bf. By her tone it sounded serious so I asked what was up. She then goes on about how he wants anal sex and she said she'd only do it if he went down on her. She starts rambling, yadda yadda yadda. Obvious that she's trying to get me jealous. So I stop her in mid sentence and say,
"That's all very fascinating but I'm not interested in this. Why are you acting like a dork?"
She was a bit shocked, and little peeved. But it didn't faze me. I just busted on her some more for being silly and acting so goofy. Alluded to the fact that she was trying to get me jealous and it wouldn't work. She said, "Why are you all up in my ass?!"
I replied, "Whoa, who said anything about being in your ass. A few minutes ago you were whining about how you didn't want anal-sex from your ex but now you want me in your ass?! You're pretty weird."
She started laughing her ass off and said, "Wow. See? That's why I like you so much. You're not like the other guys I meet. You're great. I mean, you're not easy and you play the same game I do. I really like that."
To which I replied, "A game? Not me. I would never ever play any games with you. Absolutely not."
Now she's determined as ever to get with me once again. But I'm still making her work for it. hahah
My point is this: If a girl tries to make you jealous, roll with it. Don't get upset. Then bust on her ass for being such a dork. Keep it a bit ****y and make it funny. It will actually turn out to be a good time and she'll see she can't manipulate your feelings.
Word.
-Shadow
She was supposed to call on a certain day to finalize plans. She's currently staying with her grandma about an hour away. She didn't call at the agreed time. I gave her some leeway and went out. Came back home and no message. I figured she was faking on me so I left her a message saying exactly this:
"Hey xxxxxx. Since you didn't call I figured you went crazy and decided not to come over. Just so we're on the same page, I've made other plans so I won't be available saturday night. See ya."
I didn't want her thinking that we were still on for Saturday night...didn't want any misunderstanding. As stupid as it was for her to fake, I didn't want her to drive an hour to my house and then have me tell her to go home, hehe. Better just to leave a message clearly stating what was up.
Anyway, a couple days later she gives me a call and is upset with me. Said she didn't call because her grandma had trouble breathing and had to take her to the hospital. Truth? I dunno, but I decide to give her the benefit of the doubt. But let her know that she owes me. She's upset now cause she thinks I'm mean and not very understanding. I tell her to look at it from my point of view. Can easily see how I would think she was faking. She still got some attitutude and questioned me. I told her that I told her once and I wouldn't explain it again. I had to go so we ended that conversation.
She called two days later talking all sad and said she had a bad day. Said it was with her ex-bf. By her tone it sounded serious so I asked what was up. She then goes on about how he wants anal sex and she said she'd only do it if he went down on her. She starts rambling, yadda yadda yadda. Obvious that she's trying to get me jealous. So I stop her in mid sentence and say,
"That's all very fascinating but I'm not interested in this. Why are you acting like a dork?"
She was a bit shocked, and little peeved. But it didn't faze me. I just busted on her some more for being silly and acting so goofy. Alluded to the fact that she was trying to get me jealous and it wouldn't work. She said, "Why are you all up in my ass?!"
I replied, "Whoa, who said anything about being in your ass. A few minutes ago you were whining about how you didn't want anal-sex from your ex but now you want me in your ass?! You're pretty weird."
She started laughing her ass off and said, "Wow. See? That's why I like you so much. You're not like the other guys I meet. You're great. I mean, you're not easy and you play the same game I do. I really like that."
To which I replied, "A game? Not me. I would never ever play any games with you. Absolutely not."
Now she's determined as ever to get with me once again. But I'm still making her work for it. hahah
My point is this: If a girl tries to make you jealous, roll with it. Don't get upset. Then bust on her ass for being such a dork. Keep it a bit ****y and make it funny. It will actually turn out to be a good time and she'll see she can't manipulate your feelings.
Word.
-Shadow
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
Very Good, Shadow
Right on!
Right on!