When women in relationships act out due to anger

[DJDamage]

This was posted on Roissy's blog and it shows the following scene from the movie Philadelphia story:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OpwJrEQY17U&eurl=http://roissy.wordpress.com/&feature=player_embedded (there is no sound to the video but its not really needed)

Now its obvious that in modern times if you are seeing a chick and she does that to you then she will have to pay you back (cash) or sue her for your damaged golf clubs and if you knock her on her ass like Cary Grant did, she can sue you and land your ass in jail.

Now I have been in situations like this before where a woman I was in a relationship with done stupid sh1t like cuss me out or put me on the spot during an argument, what's the best method to comeback that?! take away attention? re-evaluate your relationship and start dating other chicks? dump her ass because the relationship is already showing sufficient deterioration due to her actions?!

Its seems that once you begin to argue, you have already lost. If you agree to her whims then you are definitely losing because she just gained more power.

 

[jophil28]

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Its seems that once you begin to argue, you have already lost. If you agree to her whims then you are definitely losing because she just gained more power.

Her actions in the video were designed (by her ) to provoke him into an emotionally charged 'connection' with her. Her angry action is attention seeking behavior thinly disguised as rage. Look at her facial smirk when she snaps that club ( a chinese nine iron ?)


A man could give her what she really wants. (A quick and savage fukk upstairs ) in which case he would be encouraging more of the same club snapping, or he could ignore her and drive away OR he could dump her for acting out like a brat.
I vote for the upstairs 'treatment' .

But take your own choice.

 

[STR8UP]

I just got through watching the vid over there.

This goes back to the whole "To call her out or not to call her out" argument.

I say it all depends on the context. Is she worth keeping around?

The only REAL leverage you have over a woman is your value. The blog post was about increasing your value when a woman tries to push your boundaries.

If she's not worth keeping around i would turn around and walk out the door and never say another word to her.

If you are still unsure about her, I would do the same thing, except after letting her freak out for at least a few days or a week I would pick up the phone and not utter a word about it. If she says something about it (and she will) calmly tell her that she was acting like a b!tch and you don't have time for that, then change the subject as if nothing happened.

If she's worth keeping around I might chance the semi physical confrontation. Sure, you're taking a risk, but you should only use this on a chick who you know pretty well. If you call it right (and if the woman is worth keeping around that shouldn't be too difficult) you have effectively neutralized her and increased your value in the process.

 

[darkstarrr]

from my experience the acting out doesn't just appear in an explosion out of nowhere. there are msot often little signs ahead of time that she is capable of a little bit more, and a little but more bad behavior etc

it is how we handle the little things that dictate if the really bad **** goes down. if you are willing to cut and run a lot sooner you are less prone to opening yourself up to the serious BS.

i sometimes prefer the quieter, almost-shy types who are on the passive side who were raised with authoritative figures (father) in their lives and do not mouth off and have the more severe anger outburts/tantrums.