umm no. Doing this stuff won't prevent your woman from cheating. What will? While there are no guarantees, focus on your potential mate's Character and her implied intentions based on this character. Even then you have no guarantee.
Only part of it is about what YOU, her partner, do. But there are plenty of marriages where MEN did not do any of this DJ stuff and the woman didn't cheat, nor does she have intent too. And there are plenty of times where Mr. DJ did his DJ best to make her happy, and she F'd the NEXT DJ that came a calling.
This is about your PICKER folks. How good is your judgment of people, of character? Reduce the odds that you will have a cheater by doing your work up front. By that I mean know your woman. Know her character. But its not about doing every little thing perfectly DJ. No. In fact the DJ mindset (getting her to bed 2nd day) increases the odds that you might pick a woman that is going to cheat on you.
Regards
Only part of it is about what YOU, her partner, do. But there are plenty of marriages where MEN did not do any of this DJ stuff and the woman didn't cheat, nor does she have intent too. And there are plenty of times where Mr. DJ did his DJ best to make her happy, and she F'd the NEXT DJ that came a calling.
This is about your PICKER folks. How good is your judgment of people, of character? Reduce the odds that you will have a cheater by doing your work up front. By that I mean know your woman. Know her character. But its not about doing every little thing perfectly DJ. No. In fact the DJ mindset (getting her to bed 2nd day) increases the odds that you might pick a woman that is going to cheat on you.
Regards
milrenkb said:Great post. Actually I think all of us can use this to nip these problems in the bud.
1. There’s no passion
- Be sponatneous, seduce her in public places, use foreplay, read the Kama Sutra
2. To delay a breakup
- Read the cues, people are pretty easy to read when their hiding something. Learn how to read body language.
3. Because absence doesn’t make the heart grow fonder
- Don't get into a long distance relationship.
4. So she’s not left out in the cold
- Find out if she recently got out of a LTR. Girls usually seek valadation from men after they get dumped.
5. She deserves better
- C&F is mainly designed for the attract phase and is to be used sparringly thoughout the rest of the relationship.
6. She’s looking for a missing piece
- Ok, so maybe this ones a little harder. I guess the moral here is that opposites don't always attract. Just think of it like going out with a girl thats saving herself for marriage.
7. To give him a taste of his own medicine
- If I need to spell it out for you on this one then your beyond help.
8. There’s something lacking in the physical department
- Theres plenty of books out there on how to please a woman. Read them.