when to make a move on a girl

[DJArlington]

i know it sounds pathetic but if there is no dance floor and alchohol involved it's hard for me to make a move on a girl. i'm sure you guys have had the same feeling before. i know kino is essential to the game.

is kino / making out required on date 1 / date 2 ??

thanks..

 

[playinginnocent]

using lines?

I find it hard whens theres no dance floor or drinking involved. I thought about using lines like... hey ru a good kisser? Then most likely she will say shes not sure and ask u the same. That's when I would say nobody has told me... Can you?

Do you think that will work?

 

[brian123]

I find it hard whens theres no dance floor or drinking involved. I thought about using lines like... hey ru a good kisser? Then most likely she will say shes not sure and ask u the same. That's when I would say nobody has told me... Can you?

Do you think that will work?

That sounds kind of creepy to me.

 

[Aenigma]

Isolate her and have some alcohol handy.

(Hey come over to my place for some wine and a movie!)

Alcohol is a CNS depressant- it shuts down portions of the brain responsible for higher thought functions. In women, it shuts down the portion of the brain that keeps their freakish inner whorre under control.

Remember:

Romance is nice, but liquor is quicker

 

[Bible_Belt]

If she will be alone with you, then she wants you to kiss her. The stroke-her-hair 'kiss test' is very simple and easy to use. If she will let you touch her hair and look into her eyes, then she really wants you to kiss her.

I would not go on a date without at least trying to kiss her - that's the point of the date. With my past few girlfriends, we have had sex no later than the second date. My current girlfriend and I did not even have a first date - 'booty call' would be more accurate.

Women want sex just as badly as you. That is something to keep in mind as you go in for the first kiss.

 

[thedeparted]

I know what you're saying. Sometimes the ice builds up. She'll be sitting on your sofa, and you'll be sitting there, and it's AWKWARD, like a crash and burn situation from college days.

What I'll do is just get up and leave for a minute, like go to the bathroom, or go in the other room to get something, or whatever. That breaks the tension. Then take a deep breath and go back in, and without hesitation put your arm around her, play with her hair, do more C&F, and escalate it. It's like the second entrance gives you a second chance to be the man.

However, you do not HAVE to go for it right away. If she is a 7 or higher, not escalating it can increase her interest, confuse her, make her chase you, and increase her investment in you. But if she's not that attractive or confident in her looks she'll feel rejected and won't give you another chance.

 

[SoylentGreen]

Isolate her and have some alcohol handy.

(Hey come over to my place for some wine and a movie!)

Alcohol is a CNS depressant- it shuts down portions of the brain responsible for higher thought functions. In women, it shuts down the portion of the brain that keeps their freakish inner whorre under control.

Remember:

Romance is nice, but liquor is quicker

I wonder how many guys use this "get her drunk" method?

All the AFC's I know are big fans of this one. I'm an AFC myself, I guess, but I don't drink much myself and I am not sure if I like this method...

I have the same problem, by the way, I never know when/how to make that first kiss happen, but I don't like the idea of inebriating someone in order to get them to like me...

 

[Aenigma]

I wonder how many guys use this "get her drunk" method?

All the AFC's I know are big fans of this one. I'm an AFC myself, I guess, but I don't drink much myself and I am not sure if I like this method...

I have the same problem, by the way, I never know when/how to make that first kiss happen, but I don't like the idea of inebriating someone in order to get them to like me...

Jesus- we're not talking about passed out date rape drunk here....

Keep two things in mind!

1. She wouldn't come over if she didn't "like" you (aka want to bone)
2. A drink or two is just making it easier for HER to do what she wants to do anyway..

 

[STR8UP]

Jesus- we're not talking about passed out date rape drunk here....

Keep two things in mind!

1. She wouldn't come over if she didn't "like" you (aka want to bone)
2. A drink or two is just making it easier for HER to do what she wants to do anyway..

A drink or two is the perfect rationalization for her "poor" behavior. An ASD inhibitor, if you will.

I would bet that the majority of hookups and first time sexual encounters involve alcohol to at least some degree.