when to freeze a girl out... i want to build more interest thru text

[cguy2004]

so i asked the girl if she wanted to hang out tmr..... and she was like ill let u know tmr..... and she never did lol. freeze out or call her out on it? I have to assume she is somewhat interested since we made out for 2 hrs 2 days ago

 

[ecko280]

follow the 2 strikes rule. This is strike 1, so don't talk to her for a few days then ask her out again.

 

[cguy2004]

thanks man. how many days? is 3 a good #

 

[Johnnyventana]

I would seriously wait until she contacts you. Set the precedent early that you are not up for shyte! You asked her out, she said she'd let you know, and then she didn't.

Let's be honest. How hard would it have been to send you a quick text saying, sorry, can't today. It would have taken her all of 10 seconds.

Don't chase. You should be pissed. She wasted your time. You could have made other plans. There is no excuse.

If you MUST contact her. Wait a few days and say, "Hey, What the heck? You never got back to me. All I want to know now is how are you going to make this up to me? I think making me dinner is a good start."

 

[cguy2004]

so when u want me to set the precedent that i am not up for ****.... should i text her asap that "i dont play games. i can do much better. peace." and ignore her for a week to maximize attraction?

 

[cguy2004]

i mean " i dont play games. you are not cute enough to go thru all this ****e for. peace."

 

[Vice]

so when u want me to set the precedent that i am not up for ****.... should i text her asap that "i dont play games. i can do much better. peace." and ignore her for a week to maximize attraction?

This must be a f*cking joke topic.

What the f*ck?

Build text through attraction? Are you SERIOUS?

You think that the best way to build attraction is through TEXT? By punching little plastic buttons on an overpriced piece of plastic?

What about the other 93% of communication, the nonverbals?

What happened to being a MAN and calling her? What happened to realizing that people have LIVES, and understanding that sh*t happens?

And another thing, you claim that you "don't play games" and "can do much better". If you didn't really "play games", you wouldn't be asking if ignoring her for a week would build attraction. The very subtext of saying "I don't play games" is that you play games!

My advice? Call her. Don't be a little boy and be upset that she didn't call you. No need to play games.