When to bring up that I am divorced?

way2smart

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When do you bring up that you are divorced? First date? second date? Way later? or until asked?

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Julian

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why do u feel the need to volunteer that info?
 

El Payaso

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Only tell if she asks if you've been in a relationship.
 

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When do you bring up that you are divorced? First date? second date? Way later? or until asked?

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When it is their business. If you deem it isn't their business then they don't need to know.
 

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When do you bring up that you are divorced? First date? second date? Way later? or until asked?

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Instead of focusing "when to tell her", focus on what you are going to with her. If she has enough fun with you and realizes what she would miss if you weren't around, she won't care.
 

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Only when asked... if she asks details... "it just didn't work out" and change the topic.

I have found that women don't mind men being divorced or having kids nearly as much as guys mind.
 

daddymonsterpoodle

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What's the big deal? Statistically, most people in their late 30s or 40s are divorcees.
It would be more of a worry meeting someone at that age who hasn't been married. Heck, it is just about a red flag.

If women are having a good time they sometimes don't care if you are still married.
 

SgtSplacker

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It's not like you're a shemale or something, keep it to yourself until she asks.
 

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I got married when I was 19 lasted just over a year, i been deviced nearly 9 years, I never need to bring it up.

Do you have kids or something so that you ex wife is going to be around?

If not you never need to bring it up, its your past and can stay there.
 
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