When they are done right, what are a man's peak years (30s) like?

[Good Gao]

I think in some chart posted, it said women peak in their early to mid 20s and we're all familiar with how life is like for a cute girl during those years. We see it on social media, we see it with college girls that are hot and party hard, and we see the kind of life a lot of these girls live outside of just the sexual market place alone. A lot of these girls have a ton of "friends" or just people in general around them that they can get anything from. These girls get called to the most exclusive parties as well as what is in their age higher status social events.

We do talk a lot about how it can be easier for a man in his 30s to get laid but to me, it isn't just about the sex itself.

People in their 30s in general are in a different place in life than some college kid (college is also around the time girls peak). So many people around your age are married with kids or getting there slowly.

From what some say, it is tougher to make new friends in your 30s and social gatherings are hardly the same. College parties that led to hookups and easy sex are now cheesy BBQs.

Now some guys can cheat this life such as celebs but I am talking more about the guy who did it right. The guy who didn't get married, stayed in shape, and had a nice salary by his 30s (but wasn't exactly a millionaire either).

But when they are done right, in regards to the sexual market place and life in general, what are a man's peak years like?

Calling some of the big dogs on here to comment

@bigneil

@Urbanyst

@Solomon

 

[beforeimgone]

I think in some chart posted, it said women peak in their early to mid 20s and we're all familiar with how life is like for a cute girl during those years. We see it on social media, we see it with college girls that are hot and party hard, and we see the kind of life a lot of these girls live outside of just the sexual market place alone. A lot of these girls have a ton of "friends" or just people in general around them that they can get anything from. These girls get called to the most exclusive parties as well as what is in their age higher status social events.

We do talk a lot about how it can be easier for a man in his 30s to get laid but to me, it isn't just about the sex itself.

People in their 30s in general are in a different place in life than some college kid (college is also around the time girls peak). So many people around your age are married with kids or getting there slowly.

From what some say, it is tougher to make new friends in your 30s and social gatherings are hardly the same. College parties that led to hookups and easy sex are now cheesy BBQs.

Now some guys can cheat this life such as celebs but I am talking more about the guy who did it right. The guy who didn't get married, stayed in shape, and had a nice salary by his 30s (but wasn't exactly a millionaire either).

But when they are done right, in regards to the sexual market place and life in general, what are a man's peak years like?

Calling some of the big dogs on here to comment

@bigneil

@Urbanyst

@Solomon

Sucking dvck too hard makes you look soft. A males sexual peak is whenever he has money to flaunt. Other than that its just game

 

[Urbanyst]

You have more women to choose from since you can date much younger women as well as women your own age and slightly older.

The perceived maturity and status makes it easier to attract younger women fresh out of college since men their age are usually broke and offer little VALUE outside of sperm.

Younger women (21-25) are experiencing a lot of things for the first time and you are in a unique position to show them new experiences and take them places they have never been. This gives you good EMOTIONAL appeal.

You are more of a challenge because you have seen it all. The stupid games she plays on younger men don't work.

Your stability is attractive because most younger women are in a very unstable period in their life around 22-25.

For women your own age you have the benefit of less competition since their market value is significantly lower than yours.

I have never experienced more QUANTITY in my life. The challenge I face is finding QUALITY since my standards are much higher today then when I was 22. That is actually the main downside. Your standards naturally get higher with more experience and higher value.. making the high QUANTITY of options less meaningful.

 

[dynamically]

Your experience with women would only suck if you thought women could have completed you somehow.

 

[bigneil]

Done right, a man's 30's will be as good as his 40's will be.

 

[sazc]

Your experience with women would only suck if you thought women could have completed you somehow.

lol, you going to post under both your screen names now @da dynamically ?

 

[Fruitbat]

Well all I can say is my 20s were years of rejection with the odd lay.

30s are immensely better. I even felt a difference from like 31, now at 35, it seems I have more options.

The MAIN thing for me, isn't the poon. It's the self control and assurance years of disappointment and failure bring. The world chips awayat your wooden block until there is something quite good sculpted at the end.

Plus, facially, I am 100% better looking at 35 than 25. Pictures confirm this, I just looked weird in 20s. In 30s, my face just looks more attractive, even with extra weight.

I thought the game was over at 30 - mwhahahahaha!

It BEGINS at 30!

 

[bigneil]

I thought the game was over at 30 - mwhahahahaha!
It BEGINS at 30!

For me, life began at 26, and I was reborn again at 41. My 30's were my least favorite. My 40's were the best so far.

Age 1-19: 0 women (=0 per year).
Age 20-40: 19 women (<1 per year).
Age 41-46: 17 women (>3 per year).

 

[Fruitbat]

For me, life began at 26, and I was reborn again at 41. My 30's were my least favorite. My 40's were the best so far.

Age 1-19: 0 women (=0 per year).
Age 20-40: 19 women (<1 per year).
Age 41-46: 17 women (>3 per year).

Jesus. I can't remember how many but I was fvcking at 18 with quite a few sexual experiences at 15+ (this is Europe though, I think we get going quicker here).

20-30 for me was mainly married bu still probably 10+ lays, plus a shedload of hookers (which don't count, obviously)

30-35 had a 2 year bout of depression but I am averaging 1-2 a month if I put effort in. I would have never,ever,have had that before.

You seem to be doing well into your 40s mate so I need to keep in shape as at 35, it's downhill from here if I don't watch it.

You did mention tanning on another thread but I seem to have benefited from having almost no sunny holidays (not many) as my skin etc is far younger looking than most of my sun-addict friends. Plus, as slightly ginger, I cannot handle it. Might go the spray route as not hitting beach much seems to be keeping me looking young.

 

[bigneil]

Do NOT spray a tan on. It's toxic. We are people of the sun.

 

[Fruitbat]

Do NOT spray a tan on. It's toxic. We are people of the sun.

Hat tip to an immense band but their first album was better...

I am definitely NOT a person of the sun. The sun fries me like radiation. Anglo-saxon to the core.

 

[bigneil]

Yes, their first album was best, then their second, then it went downhill. Still one of the best bands from the '90s.

Hat tip to an immense band but their first album was better...

I am definitely NOT a person of the sun. The sun fries me like radiation. Anglo-saxon to the core.

Sunlight helps us produce Vitamin D (most mammals can produce it on their own, but not humans). Vitamin D cures 70% of ALL cancers. Obviously, our ancestors were exposed to the sun. I burn then tan each year.

 

[Fruitbat]

Yes, their first album was best, then their second, then it went downhill. Still one of the best bands from the '90s.

Sunlight helps us produce Vitamin D (most mammals can produce it on their own, but not humans). Vitamin D cures 70% of ALL cancers. Obviously, our ancestors were exposed to the sun. I burn then tan each year.

You're still alive. With the shyt I've put in my body I doubt sunlight is going to make a difference

 

[bigneil]

You're still alive. With the shyt I've put in my body I doubt sunlight is going to make a difference

I've been high on weed since 1984, and am currently drinking Vodka (organic, mixed with ice and organic strawberries in a Ninja). I do a gram of coke per month. No meds. I am in perfect health. Because I eat organic and make raw salsa and bone-in, grass-fed beef stew.

 

[Fruitbat]

I've been high on weed since 1984, and am currently drinking Vodka (organic, mixed with ice and organic strawberries in a Ninja). I do a gram of coke per month. No meds. I am in perfect health. Because I eat organic and make raw salsa and bone-in, grass-fed beef stew.

Weed stopped 2 months ago for me.

Coke will never, ever end. Not when you can access the stuff I can!

 

[bigneil]

Weed stopped 2 months ago for me.

Coke will never, ever end. Not when you can access the stuff I can!

It's good to quit for a few months. Stick to high quality. The Coca leaf supported men for eons. It's still sold on Amazon.

 

[Good Gao]

I find it to be hilarious how so many of these "experts" are the ones telling the world not to get obsessed with p*ssy and women but I specifically ask a thread about how a man's life is like in his prime outside of dating, not one word, not one person on this thread bothered to answer that question. It really does reflect how actions rarely line up with words and that the very guys making others feel guilty for wanting to get sex are the same guys that are obsessed with just that part of life and nothing else.

 

[bigneil]

I find it to be hilarious how so many of these "experts" are the ones telling the world not to get obsessed with p*ssy and women but I specifically ask a thread about how a man's life is like in his prime outside of dating, not one word, not one person on this thread bothered to answer that question. It really does reflect how actions rarely line up with words and that the very guys making others feel guilty for wanting to get sex are the same guys that are obsessed with just that part of life and nothing else.

So you specifically ask me, personally, a question, and I answer it, and you find it hilarious that an "expert" like me didn't answer it?

What is the actual question?

You are trying to declare a man's peak years his 30's and I disagree. That's his peak ATTRACTIVE years. It's like the poster who confused a woman's peak SEXUAL years in her 30's as her PRIME years (of 19-22).

A man's prime is 35-55, so his average prime is 45, not 35 as OP declares and whines about our not proving.

I told you many times, a man's 30's are often neither here nor there. You're older. Suddenly 18 year old women (who were easy to pull when you were 30) are half your age. Women your age when you are 35 are really old and basically no longer able or willing to have kids. They tell you that you're a pervert for wanting a 25 year old, nevermind the 10 year old you'll date in 11 years. Then suddenly in your 40's you are an expert in your field, you command a high salary, you hopefully didn't sign that away to a now fat girl, and you realize women half your age will do anything for the amount of money you make by 11am.

 

[Good Gao]

So you specifically ask me, personally, a question, and I answer it, and you find it hilarious that an "expert" like me didn't answer it?

What is the actual question?

You are trying to declare a man's peak years his 30's and I disagree. That's his peak ATTRACTIVE years. It's like the poster who confused a woman's peak SEXUAL years in her 30's as her PRIME years (of 19-22).

A man's prime is 35-55, so his average prime is 45, not 35 as OP declares and whines about our not proving.

I told you many times, a man's 30's are often neither here nor there. You're older. Suddenly 18 year old women (who were easy to pull when you were 30) are half your age. Women your age when you are 35 are really old and basically no longer able or willing to have kids. They tell you that you're a pervert for wanting a 25 year old, nevermind the 10 year old you'll date in 11 years. Then suddenly in your 40's you are an expert in your field, you command a high salary, you hopefully didn't sign that away to a now fat girl, and you realize women half your age will do anything for the amount of money you make by 11am.

Read my thread again, I talked about social life outside of dating.