When the Gina stops tingling

[meathead]

They will ignore your texts, your calls, forget you even exist even if you had given her the time of her life for months or even years. That's how quickly a woman will erase you from her life the moment she loses attraction for you.

For guys it's a different story. They come begging on sosuave for help on how to get over their ex and end up joining the "no contact thread"

I hate you because you speak the truth.

 

[perseverance]

"...act colder, more distant and at times will say some pretty harsh things to you. It's just (their) way of letting you know that (they aren't) interested and (they'll) try and force your hand into ditching (them)"

That's what happens to both men and women when they just aren't interested. It gets annoying if someone you don't care to hear from keeps contacting you.

It's a real problem when men play the victim by finding logical arguments why she SHOULD be interested in him. Sometimes people want to be interested but just aren't.

Yes spineless men and women behave this way. If I am not interested in a woman, I am honest about it. I don't start behaving like a moron and being unnecessarily mean to someone.

I agree, nobody is saying a woman has to be interested in you or should be interested, if a woman is interested she should just be honest instead of being a mean little sh*t. Because she'll soon come to realise that I also have an incredibly nasty streak inside of me too.

 

[metoo]

Why are you LETTING them "have control?" If I divorce my wife before her 5 years here are up, back she goes to the Philippine ghetto that she came from! That is US immigration law, so she treats me very nicely. So will the one I get after this one becomes a US citizen.

 

[timmylivingalie]

If a girl no longer has feelings for you, she will gladly walk over your bruised, broken and dying body lying on the ground without a second glance to get to an alpha she is attracted to.

That's just the way it is.

Well stated! They feel no guilt about it, even enjoy it.

 

[betheman]

Women have many of the traits of a psychopath, Im being serious!
Male psychopaths get all the bad PR and statistically men are more pre disposed to psycopathy than women....but having experienced the extremes of a relationship, as well as observing the dynamics of others, I genuinly believe womens nature is closely aligned to that of the psychopath. charming, sexy, promise the world then dismiss you as one of satans offspring when she decides its time and without warning.
Guys need to resist getting too attached, this is why many many guys get turned over and burnt to hell. never let a woman have so much power over you.

 

[SgtSplacker]

I dunno as soon as I notice a drop in interest, my interest drops too. If she wants to fade away then let her fade man. I stop thinking about her like a friend and more like a sexual object. I start being interested in the other women in my life, going out with my friends more. I don't sweat it, I try and stay busy.

I have a policy in my life where I never quit but always try to make things worth while for me. You never know what it's going to turn into in the end anyways so why quit? For example if I have a ****ty job, rather than just quitting i'll start changing how I work to make it worth while for me. Whatever I can get away with basically. I'll take longer lunches, try less, eat shiz on the internet more. If I have a good job I play straight ball. Same with the ladies if she stops making me happy i'll stop taking her out, i'll stop calling her as much, I won't pay attention to her, start giving my friends more priority, stop going down on her before sex, stop making sure she reaches orgasm, less kissing and romance more straight fvcking.

I start doing this as soon as I notice any drop in IL. Nothing a girl hates more than breaking up with someone who really just doesnt give a dam and is having a great time with their life. Not only that but after she leaves shes not thinking "oh yeah i dumped that poor guy" or "i devastated him" or whatever other BS they talk about while sipping mimosas. Shes won't even be sure who's breaking up with who if your quick enough.

It increases the chances of her coming back, then you can make her earn your affections again.... if you ever really let her that is. This can be alot of fun. You have to make the best of everything in life man...