When someone loses interest

[Ixnys]

What about the flip side? What happens when you start losing interest for her?

The first 2 or 3 months you go through that infatuation period where everything is great. For me I'm now so comfortable around her. Personality wise she is dope and physically she is pretty but I've reached the point where I'm not super sexually aroused anymore. I can still do her but when it comes to jacking off believe me I'm not thinking of her. I feel like it's inevitable no matter what girl you start going out with you soon get comfortable with her looks and then want to **** someone else just for pure physical reasons.

It's like when you jack off. You don't keep wacking to the same porn star every night.

As someone once said, for every hot chick there's a guy tired of ****ing her. I guess that's what it is like to be a guy.

Thoughts?

 

[Roy]

Dude, im in the same situation right now.
Its like the special things you used 2 do/say to each other isnt as interesting as it once was.
What i did once was to tell her i wanted to take a "break" and tell her that your getting the vibe that she isn't into you as much as before.
Make sure u do it around 10pm then she will think about all your special moments and appreciate you before she goes to sleep. Then the next morning ring her and just talk to her and i gurantee she will say she wants you back whether its indirectly or directly.

 

[slaog]

You've pinpointed something here. I kept telling her that she had changed. She just didn't seem the same towards me, but the fact was that I had changed. I was different.

Now that this has been put out on the table. I've got to get back to person I once was. That was a person that didn't need her. That was a person that was completely fine with missing phone calls and emails. That was a guy that hadn't been caught, and because he wasn't yet caught, he was endeared.

Exactly. Keep in mind that you as a masculine man do not need any woman for your happiness. You make them happy just by being around you. Keep that in mind

For the past two months, me and my girl have been talking on the phone every night for anywhere around 1/2 an hour to 1 hr and I'm getting the feeling that she is beginning to lose interest.

She might not be losing interest she might just be getting bored. Theres only so you you can talk about.

 

[T|CK]

Exactly. Keep in mind that you as a masculine man do not need any woman for your happiness. You make them happy just by being around you. Keep that in mind.

This morning I ignored her messages and emails, and the longer it went on the more desperate she became. She was saying I was killing her by not replying.