timmylivingalie
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Whats the best next move?
exactly, unless you're desperate enough to get with a girl that's taken. Why waste your time when there's plenty of single babes out there?zzirf25 said:next
Well I'm here to tell you there is such a magic wand. Something that will make you almost completely irresistible to any woman you "point it" at. Something guaranteed to fill your life with love, romance, and excitement.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
I can't make sense of this sentence. Could you expand?Rollo Tomassi said:C&F is amazingly effective in defusing a BFD when used to draw attention to it as a tactic.
Crissco said:I usually ask "How does it feel to be in a perfect relashionship" then depending on her response take it from there.
99% of the time when she tells you this it means... She is not sexually attracted to you and does not want you to pursue her anymore..timmylivingalie said:Whats the best next move?
If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.
Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.
This will quickly drive all women away from you.
And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.
Yes! This is why men need to use "Boyfriend Destroyer" lines in most situations. If a man is doing pickup in a place where he's not likely to ever run into the woman again (grocery store, mall, many outdoor settings, and nightlife venues) are good examples of this, then using the "Boyfriend Destroyer" can be a situation where something can be gained and nothing can be lost. It might not be a good idea to use it at the gym, have it fail, and then have the woman report you to gym management for harrassment. You might end up needing to find a new gym. For men that like their gyms, hitting on women at the gym might eventually create a need to switch gyms. It needs to be done with great care. Other threads are better for expanding upon this and I have done that.unless there's a ring on her finger, every woman is single. C&F is amazingly effective in defusing a BFD when used to draw attention to it as a tactic. Don't let a BFD thwart your sarge. Often enough it's a bluff she's not used to being called on, turn that to your advantage, but do so cleverly.
This does happen to a lot of men and I can think of instances over the years where it has happened to me. Sometimes the boyfriend is real, sometimes the boyfriend isn't real. It can prevent an ask out. I'd say that is what it typically does. A good portion of men walk away from the situation with the Boyfriend Disclaimer and it's an easy out for a man who wants a romantic frame in the interaction.What you're describing is the Boyfriend Disclaimer, also known as a Proactive LJBF. The Boyfriend Disclaimer rejection occurs when a woman slips the information of her unavailability (due to the BF) covertly into casual conversation. I've covered this countless times with frustrated guys asking me why a woman would tell him she had a boyfriend in the middle of a sarge. It simply a communication device with the latent purpose of proactively rejecting him (where a LJBF is a reactive rejection) and/or allowing her a convenient OUT while she determines his sexual market value with other sh!t tests.
The idea behind the Boyfriend Disclaimer is that you've telegraphed your interest in her overtly enough that she wants to save herself the potential embarrassment and discomfort of having to needlessly go through the process of you asking her out. As I said, it's proactive - "Hey lets save us both the trouble of you trying to hook up with me and get to the part where we agree to just be friends." This is a very common practice for exceptionally attractive women who, through frequency, more readily read the approach behaviors of guys who are attracted to her.
If she has a boyfriend you can have sex without a condom and not worry about pregnancy scares.Whats the best next move?