"How can you REALLY have a relationship with someone you only see a couple of times per year max?"
Quite easily. Think about it, if they only see eachother a couple of times a year, but still manage to talk everynight on the phone, there must be a REALLY strong emotional connection.
The only way for this connection between them two to fade is for her to stop talking to him.
This is your only hope. Otherwise as soon as times get tough with you she will leave u for him again. Or as soon as he comes back into town, she will be with him for the weekend or whatever while you are worrying your azz off.
Face facts man, dont try to blind yourself.
Quite easily. Think about it, if they only see eachother a couple of times a year, but still manage to talk everynight on the phone, there must be a REALLY strong emotional connection.
The only way for this connection between them two to fade is for her to stop talking to him.
This is your only hope. Otherwise as soon as times get tough with you she will leave u for him again. Or as soon as he comes back into town, she will be with him for the weekend or whatever while you are worrying your azz off.
Face facts man, dont try to blind yourself.