When meeting girls in Lecture. (College)

[Aspiring_DJ]

Hey guys i have a quick question about meeting girls and being a DJ in college. If i meet a girl in a lecture and use DJ techniques on her, how do i maintain the mystery and challenge strategy on her if i see her every class (assuming i sit with her).

 

[Kerpal]

I'm also wondering that.

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

Just don't blab on and on about yourself every time you see her. Make the conversations interesting and engaging.

This idea of being "a mystery" is completely over-rated and foolish. It only works on very immature girls. In the long run, you'll come across as creepy by constantly asking her questions about herself. It is transparent to the somewhat socially skilled woman. They see through it sooner or later.

Work on number closing her and seeing her outside of class privately. Forget about these inane "techniques".

It goes something like this:
confidence --> approach --> engage ---> attraction ---> number close

 

[Incog]

Don't go to every class.

Missing college classes once in a while does no harm if you know when to miss them (not test days, etc.)

 

[Aspiring_DJ]

so your saying i should mess up my education for a girl? I thought don juans weren't supposed to care whether or not the girl wanted them.

 

[The Master Disaster]

Just get her to meet you outside of class (ex. parties, study sessions, date...)

Once you get her to meet you outside of class, the deed is done and she is yours for the taking.

 

[Incog]

so your saying i should mess up my education for a girl? I thought don juans weren't supposed to care whether or not the girl wanted them.

I'm not saying miss class to sit at home.

Pursue other things. You're supposed to be a busy guy.