If you are interested in someone, not just in banging them, but you really like them in a deeper way. (yeah..oneitis) when and how should you express it to them without being a real loser about it? This is the situation I am in, and things are moving very slowly with this person due to conservatism and all.
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When It's More Than Just Banging
- Thread starter Ian19
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conservatism meanin you didn't fvck?
how long have u been going out for?
how old are both of you?
did she give you any presents? attention? offered to cook? other IOI?
does she call you?
give us more info
It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.
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Express through what you do, not what you say. Don't give them anymore than they would ever give you and give it in rations. Don't go rent a float and ride it down Broadway proclaiming your love for her. It is NEVER okay to do that.
Thanks Ice Cold. My feelings exactly.
Anyway, I wasn't talking about proclaiming love for her or throwing flowers at her feet or anything like that.
It's been a couple of weeks and while there seems to be much interest on both sides, we are both somewhat shy and don't really communicate feelings or anything like that.
I just want to subtly let her know that I am very intersted in her
Anyway, I wasn't talking about proclaiming love for her or throwing flowers at her feet or anything like that.
It's been a couple of weeks and while there seems to be much interest on both sides, we are both somewhat shy and don't really communicate feelings or anything like that.
I just want to subtly let her know that I am very intersted in her
You still didn't answer.
Did you ****? y/n
Did you kiss? y/n
Did u touch her?
What setting did you meet in?
How did you spend time together?
It seems like you didn't even kiss yet. If you're both shy, then make the first move:
1) Look in her eyes
2) Come closer to her
3) Put your hands on her waist
4) Put your lips to her lips.
See how she reacts.
Sorry about that..
no effing as she's pretty conservative from what I can deduce
kissing..no to that one as well
touching..nothing sexual at all, just like hand to arm and from sitting close..nothing to really consider touching though
met at school
We've spent alot of time together just sitting and talking mostly and getting to know each other.
no effing as she's pretty conservative from what I can deduce
kissing..no to that one as well
touching..nothing sexual at all, just like hand to arm and from sitting close..nothing to really consider touching though
met at school
We've spent alot of time together just sitting and talking mostly and getting to know each other.
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I hear the friend zone coming up on you my friend.
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Ok... so at this point, you're an AFC and is really confused.
1) You don't know if you like her yet. You didn't fukk her. You "really like her" only because you imagine a relationship with her would be nice. You don't know that yet.
2) You talk. That's nice. It doesn't mean one fn thing... except you're "friendship compatible" Doesn't mean she sees you as a potential bf.
You see her a potential gf. Don't flatter her with proclamations. Just kiss her... or try to kiss her. Her reaction will tell you a lot.
1) look into her eyes
2) put your arms around her
3) kiss
She can either reject you or say nothing. If she says nothing - you're in. If she turns her head away... you're a friend.
Don't put it off. Kiss her next time you see her.
and I guess the "really like her" part of it is just that I see in her something I like on a personal level beyond just wanting to hit it and quit it. I guess it's that she just seems like more potential than just sex. I just hope that I have not entered and become destined to remain in the dreaded Friend Zone.
Couple of weeks won't change her mindset significantly. If you placed in the friendzone, it would've been at the beginning... if boyfriend potential... then you're still there...
If she sees "Tom Cruize/Brad Pitt" talking to her for a few weeks and not kissing her... she wouldn't mind being kissed after having a connection.
Just do it and face the consequences.
If she sees "Tom Cruize/Brad Pitt" talking to her for a few weeks and not kissing her... she wouldn't mind being kissed after having a connection.
Just do it and face the consequences.
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