When is a married woman NOT off limits?

[Upstanding Young Man]

Hi, I'm new here. I've trolled the boards before but this is my first post. Here's my deal.

I had a girlfriend a few years ago, we went out for about 2 years. I hadn't heard anything from her since 2000.

then out of the blue she calls me on the phone the other day and we talk a couple hours. She got married in January to a guy she's dated about a year and a half.

We're exchanged phone calls the last couple days and we've made plans to hang out Sunday, go to the mall and dinner. To me it sounds like two old friends catching up.

But in her last phone call she keeps seriously hinting about being unhappy and not happy with her husband as a lover. Says he ignores her too much and just doesn't have the time for her. And talks a lot about how much fun we had together.

The way she's talking I'm seriously thinking something could happen this weekend between us...but I don't know if I'd want it to.

I still have strong feelings for her. But I'd hate to be one of those people who break up a relationship...I hate those kinds of guy. So what should I do? Go about Sunday and whatever happens happens? And if something happens should I let it be known that I wouldn't be interested till she's out of the marriage?

I don't know if she wants me back, or if I'm just an easy out for her to get out of her relationship.

I'm open to each and every opinion.

Upstanding Young Man

 

[MrBond007]

Well, my mother die the same thing.She is married for 20 years now(shell be divorced soon) and I knew she cheated on my father with people she meet online.So, I made a keylogger and recorded what was written on the cpu and printed the logs to show them to my father.

Well,its been 2 weeks now and its her last week my father allowed her to stay so she could get an appartment.I do not agree with what hes doing because I hate people way more easely.

Anyway, one of her internet buddy came home while I was there yesterday.My father isnt home beause hes a trucker and I wasnt supposed to be home at that moment either.Well, my father warned my mother that he told me not to let any guy in HIS house.The fagget got inside and I got upstairs.I asked who he was and what he was doing here.He told me something like:" Youre the little prick your mother spoke of.You would deserve to receive a beating.".

I was like WTF!!!So then I proceded to put him off his ego-trip:

"Fool.You come into MY house and insult ME.I am way better than you in any way you fag.You even told me I would deserve to be beaten.I am not amused.Now, you got 3 seconds to leave my property before I kick your ****ing ass."

My mother:"Shut up idiot!"

Me:"No you".

Him:*touches my arm* "You better ask your mother to forgive your rudeness".

Me:*Punch him in the face andn grab him by the hair to pull him out*+*kick his ass and down the stairs he goes*

He left.

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Anyway.I had no personnal fealings toward the guy untill he came to my house( mostly because I could find myself into his position someday because I like older women -age 25.30-). The problem are:

1- That he came into my house while I was instructed not to let him in.I would have let him off if he woudnt have insisted.Im a fairly reasonable guy.

2-He insulted me.That was his number 1 REAL mistake.Noone insults me, not even my friends.I accept nothing but respect.

3-He touched me.That was ****ING REAL mistake number 2.I find unwanted pawning/touching from other people(and especially guys) to be an EXTREMELLY angering experience.I just hate being touched.Theres only one of my guy friends that can put his hand on my shoulder and its because I know he does this to everyone he meets/talks to and its uncouscious.



Now for your problem.If you want to go out and have sex with her, fine.Just be sure that:

-Her husband knows what she`s doing behind his back.That ***** cant have the cake and eat it all.

-Dont go to her house ever.

-Dont think that she will ever be commited to you.She cheated on him and will on you.

 

[Frosty]

Mrbond, I wish I was there to help you whoop he azz the moment he called you a prick. The nerve of some people.

 

[studmuffin15]

stay away. theres enough women in the world that you don't have to go and mack to some married chick. u still have feelings for her? great. let it be known. let her make the first move, get divorced, then shack up with you. (unless you're one of the "cool" dudes who thinks he's getting "one up" on the other guy by tapping his married wife. in this case, then go for it!)

 

[MrBond007]

Originally posted by Frosty
Mrbond, I wish I was there to help you whoop he azz the moment he called you a prick. The nerve of some people.

No but thanks.I like to indulge pain on people.I think Ill just post a new thread in discussion forum in about 10 minutes about how I see the world cause I feel like it.

 

[( . )( . )]

her relationship with this guys over already, so i wouldnt be to worried about that, be more worried you were her emotional tampon on the phone for hours.

she wants to be phucked, so give it to her (and properly) and you might just get a FB out of it, no more "talking" with her, put it all out on the line , or phuck her off.

 

[Kuen1]

I guess I'll throw my opinion in on this. I was going to write out a long post but decided to keep it short instead. I'm just curious as to how you would feel, and what you would do if you found out that your WIFE was messing around on you. What would be one of the first things that came into your head as to how to deal with this guy? I'm sure it's not a pretty picture. So...are you really prepared to deal with the consequences of your actions? Would it really be worth it? Oh well, it's on you brother. Maybe the husband is chump, and won't do anything if he finds out. Or maybe he is the type that will get a few of his friends together, put on some dark clothes and ski masks, and place you in the hospital (or worse) in what appears to have been a "robbery" or "random act of violence."

As my old Martial Arts teacher used to tell me: "It always comes back around."

 

[Upstanding Young Man]

Believe me. I've thought over worst case issues in case this goes down. And I've said before I'd hate to be one of those bastards that helps break up a marriage...I know I shouldn't do it...but I have no idea if I will or won't.

 

[DJZ]

I agree that there are enough single women in this world, that you have no reason to go screwing a married chick. She is not just looking for sex, but she wants someone to be there emotionally.

Don't do it, the bad far outweighs the good!

 

[bp1974]

Can she give you what you really want for as long as she is married to him? The answer is probably no. It's an unequal deal - she gets what she needs from you and him, while you only get half of what you want.

 

[LowPlainsDrifter]

Stay away except...

When the woman is legally, emotionally and physically separated, and divorce papers are pending.

Other than that, stay away from the married women. Period.

 

[elvis aint dead yet]

again, another post about some girl who is taken. And this is worse, she's married.

I dont give a crap about morals, breaking up a relationship or any of that stuff, but face the facts here

As the one guy posted, imagine your married and you find out your wife is cheating on you? And then imagine that ten times over.

Most normal people overreact in these situations.

Overreact so much that we have many murders caused by a married man catching or finding out his wife is shacking up with some other guy.

Again, as i asked on another post, WHY spend so much engergy on a one night or two night stand or even just some overrated FB?

Has everybody become so desperate to get laid that they bang any girl they can get?

Whatever happened to, NEXT.

and a married chic is def a double NEXT.

 

[( . )( . )]

Originally posted by elvis aint dead yet

Has everybody become so desperate to get laid that they bang any girl they can get?

Whatever happened to, NEXT.

and a married chic is def a double NEXT.

poppy c0ck, if he doesnt bang this b!tch someone else will, married or not its nothing to do with him.

so why not phuck her?, being "desperate" has nothing to do with it, men like to phuck, she sounds like a sure bet ( no groundwork needed) sounds more like laziness to me.

 

[Reto]

I went out with a married chick for a while last year.

Her husband's d!ck would not work and refused to get it fixed. She told me she was getting a divorce when she got her sh!t together. She never did either.

She told me she loved me and I was the only one she had been with in a year, even though she went to lunch ALL the time with other male friends. Innocent? Hmm... I'd tell my friends, "My girl friend couldn't make it. She had a date today."

(If a guy pays for her lunch and/or buys her things, does that make her a prostitute?)

Like what was said above;

Can you or will you ever truely trust her ?

THere are too many women out there. Why go for an un-trusting hottie when there are so many hot trust worthy women out there?

There is something to be said for peace of mind. Not wondering if she is or when she will cheat on you...

I wouldn't do it. But, live and learn...

Still bitter,

Reto

 

[Bonhomme]

When she's separated ... or

if they're swingers, i.e., the husband knows of it and approves.

Very simple.

 

[MrBond007]

Originally posted by Reto
I went out with a married chick for a while last year.

Her husband's d!ck would not work and refused to get it fixed. She told me she was getting a divorce when she got her sh!t together. She never did either.

My mother would do the same very thing.I know because I saw the chats logs.She lied an lied.Prolly that poor guy youre talking about was a good naive husband.

 

[BobbDobbs]

Originally posted by ( . )( . )
poppy c0ck, if he doesnt bang this b!tch someone else will, married or not its nothing to do with him.

Exactly right. When a woman (or man) is in the mood to stray, they will find someone who is willing.

Do a little research to find out if she wants to get caught (jealousy attempt.) If it doesn't seem like it, I'd go for it.

 

[Reto]

You're right. If she's gonna cheat, she will with someone.

BUT, are you willing to get caught with her? Some guys blame the guy his wife cheated with. Think about it. You're sitting on your couch watching tv and there's a knock on your door. It's her husband and his friends coming to beat the sh!t out of you... In his eyes, you're the reason they broke up!

Too, she might want to get caught to get back at her husand or try to make him jealous.

A piece of a$$ isn't worth it...

 

[Versace]

Married equals NO. You should never ever think about dating or even having sex with a married woman. Do not go any further with this married chick. There is a passage in the Holy Bible that describes your situation. What it’s basically saying is that if you steal and when you are caught, you can agree to repay for more of the value of that which was stolen. This is done as punishment and to redeem yourself from the stolen item’s debt and act thereof. Forgiveness. Have you ever had anyone steal from you? Yes, you want to punish them and badly. Now, it says that with adultery, there is nothing that you can pay or give to quench the husband’s anger. His forgiveness is out of the question. For your benefit and for others reading with a similar dilemma, I have included this passage:

Book of Proverbs chapter 6 verse 23-35.

23 For the commandment is a lamp and the teaching is light;
And reproofs for discipline are the way of life
24 To keep you from the evil woman,
From the smooth tongue of the adulteress.
25 Do not desire her beauty in your heart,
Nor let her capture you with her eyelids.
26 For on account of a harlot one is reduced to a loaf of bread,
And an adulteress hunts for the precious life.
27 Can a man take fire in his bosom
And his clothes not be burned?
28 Or can a man walk on hot coals
And his feet not be scorched?
29 So is the one who goes in to his neighbor's wife;
Whoever touches her will not go unpunished.
30 Men do not despise a thief if he steals
To satisfy himself when he is hungry;
31 But when he is found, he must repay sevenfold;
He must give all the substance of his house.
32 The one who commits adultery with a woman is lacking sense;
He who would destroy himself does it.
33 Wounds and disgrace he will find,
And his reproach will not be blotted out.
34 For jealousy enrages a man,
And he will not spare in the day of vengeance.
35 He will not accept any ransom,
Nor will he be satisfied though you give many gifts.

 

[Reto]

Please...No religoius quotes on this board...