When & How did you discover how attractive you were?

[Mr. Latte]

The only reason YOU need to think you're good looking is for the purpose of self confidence. Apart from that, girls have different tastes. Take Vin Diesel. I've heard someone say he's the most beautiful man alive, and another say he looks like a gorilla. Not every girl finds Brad Pitt or whoever good looking. I dont care how good you look, some girls will be attracted to you, some won't. In my lifetime, I've had girls falling all over themselves. Sometimes to talk to me, sometimes to run lol Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, thats why you have to take your chances when you think "I'm probably not her type" or whatever.

 

[Oxide]

thats why you have to take your chances

Or you can take their EYE!!

 

[Player_Supreme]

Women have always told me that I was very handsome. I always attributed to my aura and not anything physical. Now after going to hotornot and facethejury thingy and scoring 8.6 and 8.6777 on facethejury (how I don't know), I now believe what I've been hearing.

I had always though I was just nice looking and not exceedingly handsome. I know that I could never be called one of those beautiful type men but I'm happy and content with my own looks.

 

[Mr. Latte]

Oxide, I agree partially, and in theory. But when a woman's not attracted to you, she's not attracted to you, plain and simple. There's next to nothing you can do about that. Challenge and confidence only works when there's something there TO challenge.

 

[Eric Smith]

I don't like to talk about how attractive I am but I started being more conscious about people looking at me to find any attractive prospects. At that point, I started to notice girls stare at me, smile, and then talk to her friends. I've caught many girls looking at me. I've had some friends tell me that this girl or that girl thinks I'm really cute. It was all topped off by a nice looking 21 year old where I worked saying I was the hottest guy in the store. Not only that but after talking to her, she completely lost track of what she was doing.

I don't think I'm that attractive (yet) but once I drop 30-40 lbs, get my ears pierced (I have the ears for it as I have big lobes) and get a well defined body, I may start to believe it.

 

[THA REALNESS]

I'm an 8 and have grown azz women drool over me and do the dumbest things just to get my attention yet i have also been rejected and told off by some fat ,ugly looking girls i was just being nice too.

So I have never really bought into looks ALONE getting guys puzzy . It helps . IT helps me ALOT. It doesn't guarentee me puzzy ,hell it doesn't even guarentee me numbers.I'd defintley say i'm well under .500 when it comes to sexing the girls i've chased and my mack games been stronger than usual. And i'm at least an 8.

When it comes to numbers and dates i'm up there .Maybe an 80%. effectivness .But that's like a new batch of 6 girls a month i date or try to date.

Is this good or bad.

P.S. i've pretty much known since iwas a kid i was good looking,i looked and felt akward when was 13-16,i was really gangly and skinny then i just bulked up over right before i turned sixteen and my confindence (in my looks i was always a liitle bastard) shot up.

 

[jakethasnake]

Originally posted by B9

Here in Asia (currently travelling), they are particular blunt about such things. Several women (mostly younger ones) have actually asked why I was so beautiful and it is easy as hell to have them all giddly with a few words and a smile here.
Went out on the town with this guy (who wasn't ugly, imo, but I have a hard time telling when it comes to guys) in Bangkok, and after a few hours he was complaining that I was the one getting all the attention from the ladies. I wasn't DJing or anything, except for eye contact and generally just using my normal confident smile (which is on most of the time whenever I go out, mostly because I am just having a good time), as I wasn't looking to pick up anything, but that particular night did underline to me how much things have changed from just a year ago.

When you're travelling away from home, you are much more relaxed and adventurous. This shows through, and women respond to this. I would know - I travel a lot and I get more attention from women, especially when I'm in countries where you can't find many East Asians, like say, Denmark! Your getting attention from the Thais is no doubt in part due to your Viking blonde looks. You are unique there b/c no Thai men have blonde hair and blue eyes.


You get it now, chief?

 

[jakethasnake]

And guys, keep in mind what KIND of women hit on you or call you 'hot'. If you have throngs of 3's and 4's hounding you, that ain't sayin much. If you have more 6's and 7's and 8's giddy around you, you might be onto something.

 

[jakethasnake]

Originally posted by Player_Supreme
Women have always told me that I was very handsome. I always attributed to my aura and not anything physical. Now after going to hotornot and facethejury thingy and scoring 8.6 and 8.6777 on facethejury (how I don't know), I now believe what I've been hearing.

I had always though I was just nice looking and not exceedingly handsome. I know that I could never be called one of those beautiful type men but I'm happy and content with my own looks.

I don't know how you might take this Player, but when I saw your pic (you posted one many weeks back, somewhere), I immediately thought that your Barry White-esque physique (read 'ample' and round -- NOT calling you fat, so chill!) would give a woman a sense of security. You're right that you're no supermodel, but I can def see you pull some women. Maybe not the ones that are caught up on their mate's looks, but women who seek security and a fun time.


A lot of larger guys (not necessarily muscular or tall but guys who just 'take up a lot of space') who pull chicks are like this. They are not fat, but also have enough 'cushioning' to give them a large, "teddy bear" look. And they also tend to smile a lot and be outgoing and jovial.


Anyway, that's an objective straight guy's take on your looks.

 

[Dell SkyCat]

Mahon?

 

[jakethasnake]

Originally posted by Dell SkyCat
Mahon?

OMFG!! HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA... LOLOLOL.... HAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!

 

[Starman]

"You're right that you're no supermodel, but I can def see you pull some women"

ahahhha how exactly do you "see" this??

and this "ohh you are a fat teddy bear and women see fat cuddly guys as non threatening" is plain ridiculous

PS SOUNDS/READS like he has some game..but as far as reality I dont know and neither do you to be making any assumptions

for all I know (and believe) even Dave Deangelo..a total greasy bag dweeb who claims he is a ladies man..has no proof , but a bunch of theories .. Id actually like sum1 to take him on a field test..Ill bet you his game is making money..not baggin women

the dude looks like a fat italian version of screech

as with all theories of PU women..the proof is in observation of how well theories work..not writing a book..or developing a buinch of elaborate theories that sound logical in print

if you want to believe ANYBODY who has game..listen to bartenders and Bouncers at clubs..or your friends who bag chicks every weekend

 

[Ice Cold]

"If he's a bit more handsome than the devil, he's a stud" - a russian proverb

(keep in mind that the russian devil is a scrawny little bastard who's bald, has tiny shoulders and huge tummy and a piggy nose)


I think I'm about an 8 with no effort and a friggin 10 if I gress up, shave and do a haircut.

 

[Imbrondir]

This topic is sorta interesting for me. I have no realistic rate of myself. But some days I just look in the mirror, and think... GOD DAMN, if I only were a woman . Then some other days I'm like... Uh... what happened? I guess we can never rater ourselves. So how's facethejury and/or hotornot on rating these things? I guess I'm kinda afraid to be shot down, to less than I thought.

Another weird thing I've noticed on looks btw...
95% of the girls who told me in some certain way (like BIIG eye contact, or "I thought you were cute" or a friend telling me she thought I was cute), I did some sort of C&F show in front of first.

 

[B9]

Originally posted by jakethasnake
When you're travelling away from home, you are much more relaxed and adventurous.

This shows through, and women respond to this. I would know - I travel a lot and I get more attention from women, especially when I'm in countries where you can't find many East Asians, like say, Denmark! Your getting attention from the Thais is no doubt in part due to your Viking blonde looks. You are unique there b/c no Thai men have blonde hair and blue eyes.


You get it now, chief?

Explain to me why it doesn't work the other way around then. Now, Thais are lovely creatures, but I do find myself more often attracted to a a nice blonde tha a dark'exotic' Thai.

Btw, ever been to Denmark then? If so, I am sure you will agree that you will find no other place on earth with so many lovely ladies.

PS. I tried hotornot some time ago with a four-year-old picture from back in the day when I wore glasses, had thin curls and the feedback I would generally get from women was "When I first saw you, I thought you were a total geek. But you're actually a pretty cool guy.' (uh... thanks). And I still got an average 9.2! So I think it's fair to say that their ratings are a bit over the top (maybe I would have believed it now.... ). Also, looking at their charts of how many I got of each, I couldn't quite figure out how they arrived at an average of 9.2. looked dodgy to say the least. Just went to facethejury and the ratings look a bit more realistic there. signed up for the fun of it.

 

[jakethasnake]

Originally posted by B9
Explain to me why it doesn't work the other way around then. Now, Thais are lovely creatures, but I do find myself more often attracted to a a nice blonde tha a dark'exotic' Thai.

Btw, ever been to Denmark then? If so, I am sure you will agree that you will find no other place on earth with so many lovely ladies.

PS. I tried hotornot some time ago with a four-year-old picture from back in the day when I wore glasses, had thin curls and the feedback I would generally get from women was "When I first saw you, I thought you were a total geek. But you're actually a pretty cool guy.' (uh... thanks). And I still got an average 9.2! So I think it's fair to say that their ratings are a bit over the top (maybe I would have believed it now.... ). Also, looking at their charts of how many I got of each, I couldn't quite figure out how they arrived at an average of 9.2. looked dodgy to say the least. Just went to facethejury and the ratings look a bit more realistic there. signed up for the fun of it.

Well, Imbrondir, good looking people attract anyone, no matter what race. And some (I'd say the majority) prefer people who look like them (Asians with Asians, Euros with Euros, etc.). So of course a Danish babe would dig you if you were a handsome Danish man! And a Korean gal would be a FOOL to pass up such a hot Korean man like me! So I'm not saying that the "bored with your own kind" applies to EVERYONE. Some people might not get that at all and prefer their own, and some people might be feelin it with people from abroad.


Btw, I have been to Copenhagen. And your'e right! The women are amazing. you're very lucky to be from there, my friend...

 

[B9]

Originally posted by Imbrondir
This topic is sorta interesting for me. I have no realistic rate of myself. But some days I just look in the mirror, and think... GOD DAMN, if I only were a woman .

That is the difference between men and women, isn't it?

women will go 'ah, need to lose a few pounds over the waist. bad makeup' etc., while most guys (I know I do) will be looking at the mirror saying "yeah, baby. You are a freaking god. Krishna would be jealous as hell if he could see you. Adonis is not even in your league."

Have you ever listened to girls getting really chatting about their apperance? My god, it's unbelievable how self-conscious they are. I mean, yeah, I could put on some pounds and sometimes I do get the 'hmm. bit average today, lad' feeling, but they a freaking thinking about it all the time. Even girls with perfectly good 8is bodies will be saying 'oh... I really should lose some mroe weight. bla blabla... I hate my hair, bla blabla blabla..... Wish I had more powerful eyelashes.... bla blabla...."

Uh..... right.

 

[Ares]

Im getting some very big metrosexual vibes here, why dont you guys just get a sexchange and get it over with. Damn what pathetic little egomaniacs


Naw just kidding
Hmmm....I may be the worst here,
one of my friends wont even walk with me in the city,
cause I look at my reflection in everything
and start to hump my own reflection
You can get a lot of fines for doing sh*t like that

Sorry, I just cant take this post seriously......lol