when does a girl become too much of a slvt?

[devilkingx2]

far as I'm concerned as long as she doesn't cheat, find the new guy 3 months before she dumps the old guy, actively look to replace her current boyfriend, etc. it doesn't matter what she does.

I don't care if she always has sex on the first date (yay for me) and has banged 100 random guys (hope that experience translates into skill), as long as she ain't gonna cheat on me or be disloyal she can do whatever she wants.

but I'm not looking for some gay disney fantasy crap, I want a girl who will actually be interesting in bed, being too strict about how much experience your girl has is just asking to be stuck with chicks who make you wait til date 10 and only do misssionary and other such boring nonsense that'll put you to sleep (kind of like how most virgins over a certain age in their 20s tend to be tightly wound turbo prudes)

imo there's obviously a huge spectrum of slvttiness that goes from nun who pledges to remain an unmarried virgin for life to gangbang queen porn star who has banged 3000+ guys, but I think people need to consider that both extremes are pretty bad (but not equally bad) so you should be careful in your zeal to avoid one end that you're not running straight to the other end

 

[devilkingx2]

this makes no sense. of COURSE the girl who banged 100 random guys will cheat, lol. She is addicted to sex with random guys!

I think even a woman knows how to separate how you behave when single from how you behave in a relationship, and if she doesn't, then that's her most pertinent character flaw, not the stranger fetish

 

[soulforge]

I think even a woman knows how to separate how you behave when single from how you behave in a relationship, and if she doesn't, then that's her most pertinent character flaw, not the stranger fetish

I am sure i read or heard somewhere a study stating, woman who have had many sexual partners, find it much harder to bond in a relationship, and often fail in relationships..

The percentage of failure is much higher

 

[devilkingx2]

Those are things you cant control or know. What you can do is look at someone's past to predict the likely future.

I mean, I think we've all known girls who weren't particularly promiscuous who certainly weren't loyal or strangers to cheating (I've known several my friends dated them), so there's waaaay more factors involved that are just as important as promiscuity in the equation

I won't deny that a girl who has banged 100 guys probably has something wrong psychologically and is probably going to ruin your life at some point if you two get married, but I think that people forget that there are many other factors (and that there are plenty of girls who were crazy even while they were virgins, and the craziness made them promiscuous instead of the other way around)

my main point is that being disloyal and cheating happen often even with girls who aren't slvts, and that not every slvt cheats on all her boyfriends all the time. don't forget the other factors at play.

and also that being too puritanical about this stuff will screw you over (see the people who think that if a girl ever has a 3-way she's irreparably damaged goods, that mindset will get you girls that make you wait 10 dates for mediocre sex, that only suck **** on your birthday and never swallow, lol.), gotta find a balance between gangbang queens and nuns, going to far in either direction would be awful.

I am sure i read or heard somewhere a study stating, woman who have had many sexual partners, find it much harder to bond in a relationship, and often fail in relationships..

The percentage of failure is much higher

I've seen that study and I don't disagree, however I think that the age of the girl has roughly the same effect

I have noticed that regardless of promiscuity or sexual partners, the older the girl is, the more you have to do to get her to actually care about you, which is why on the forum many guys are told that they've gotta have sex with a girl a few times before she cares at all, I'm sure that you didn't have to bang a girl several times in high school before she cared about you at all lol.

 

[devilkingx2]

see this, I've been dating this 22 years old chick for almost a year now but I have broken up with her today because eventhough I have a lot of fun with her, she's pretty smart, responsible, loving etc SHE IS JUST TOO MUCH OF A SLVT.

I mean, she has fvcked like 15-20 guys, has had a few ONS, has been fvcking more than one guy during the same summer, did a threesome before she met me, did two threesome with me, has told me that she'd like to have a MMF threesome but not at the moment because she's with me, has also told me that she'd like to have a bukake sometime ETC.
She sent me nudes when I was dating her for two months, she let me film her svcking my **** when we were dating for six months, and she wanted to go to a swingers club just to watch and maybe find a girl, which we did...

Yes, I have lots of sex with her, yes, I've had done some of my fantasies just with her, and yes, she likes to svck my **** all the time but I dont really trust her because she's just too much addicted to sex and because she told me once while she was drunk that if she ever cheated on her boyfriend, she would not tell him.

She's very sweet and doesnt look like a slvt at all though.

WTF???

she sounds absolutely fantastic, enjoy it while it lasts but don't be blinded, if you ever suspect the slightest hint of any infidelity or disloyalty on her part downgrade her to plate/FWB status, always have a backup plan ready as well