The LadyKiller
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I'm in a sort-of odd situation, and need some relationship help. I've been dating a girl for over 6 months, and things have been great. She's a lot of fun and we've somehow avoided any drama. But here's where it gets interesting - she says we are in an exclusive relationship, but shies away from the bf/gf labels despite the clear level of high interest she's continued to show. I secretly want her to begin the DTR talk, but that doesn't seem to be happening.
We talk every day and stay over one another's places every weekend unless we both go home to see family, so it's not a matter of infidelity. However, I believe this behavior stems from her previous relationship, which was extremely toxic (he was verbally abusive, she nearly developed an eating disorder and I'm pretty sure he cheated on her).
We went on two dates towards the end of 2019 before the holidays and have been seeing each other regularly since the start of 2020. Despite all the good times, defining what we are is essential for any relationship. My friend asked me today how long our relationship's been, and I honestly have no idea how to answer his simple question. What do you feel I need to do?
We talk every day and stay over one another's places every weekend unless we both go home to see family, so it's not a matter of infidelity. However, I believe this behavior stems from her previous relationship, which was extremely toxic (he was verbally abusive, she nearly developed an eating disorder and I'm pretty sure he cheated on her).
We went on two dates towards the end of 2019 before the holidays and have been seeing each other regularly since the start of 2020. Despite all the good times, defining what we are is essential for any relationship. My friend asked me today how long our relationship's been, and I honestly have no idea how to answer his simple question. What do you feel I need to do?
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