When a man grows old with a woman

[bigneil]

Neil sorry that happened. It's a crappy feeling to lose someone you love.

If you're noticing a pattern as you said, starting off strong and fizzling, what do you think the common tread is? If any?

I'm glad this happened because it cauterized what had been something special. It toughened me up. I proved I could take whatever pain she wanted to dish out. The relationship was entombed in Amber. 9 months was long enough that she won't forget me. I never had a relationship that long end forever. At some point they always seem to go back to being romantic again. This was more or less put on pause.

Regarding why things end early, I'm getting better and younger women, so you find yourself in the same boat. Shot down by a 7, then an 8, then a 9, then a 9.9. I think this is what happens with women 20-25 years younger. They get obsessed with you and then they drop you like an old toy and get obsessed with someone new.

I was so lucky to get to pair bond with a few young beauties. I knew the last one hadn't been with that many people for that reason (plus by her incredible natural scent). Do you know how much she healed me with her love? Young women can do that like no other.

Anyhow, tonight I have my second date with the new 20 year old model.

 

[BetterCallSaul]

I can only relate to what 12 years of marriage has been like for me. Personally, when I look at middle aged/older women, one thing I notice a lot of is a freaking gut that would put a lot of guys with beer gut to shame. And dont think this is something recent, no, I can remember seeing this in women when I was a kid. Hell right as I'm typing this in my office I glanced outside and saw a couple of women out for a walk and yep, one of them with a gut that sticks out so much her shirt can hang freely off it.

How do women let themselves get to that point? It's simple: laziness. All people, both men and women, can get comfortable and thus lazy and it doesn't necessarily mean physically. It can mean getting complacent in a relationship too.

My own wife knows of my distaste of this in women and I've communicated it more than once. It took a lot of time and effort to communicate on some level of effectiveness that resulted in her actually putting in the effort to work out on a regular basis. At the beginning it was mainly my own fault because I had not taken the lead in setting the example. So slowly over time I began working out more, lifting again, and now several years later I'm in good shape....still need to put on some more weight and I know I can lift heavier than I am now but I take it slow. The wife has previously got into a nice routine where she was jogging a LOT with a friend. During that time her ass looked better than an 18 year old tennis player. Today, not so much because she didn't stick with it.

But the point is I know she can do it, I know it's possible for her to get motivated. The key was finding what worked for her and I think I've had some success at last because I bought her a trial membership to a specific aerobics workout place that she really likes. She told me last night she wants to buy a regular membership to the place now. So with any luck by the end of the year that 18 year old tennis player ass will be back in action ready for me to pound it on the regular.

I'm happy that she likes this new place and that she's enthusiastic about going. It took a while but I think the effort was worth it.

 

[bigneil]

 

[zekko]

Good video, Neil. What's with the douchey sunglasses indoors though?

What interested me is I posted the other day that guys didn't change their looks much from their 30s to their 40s. And I said I thought the upper age for that period was probably 52. And this guy in the video also mentioned 52 as the upper age range for this "prime" SMV period for men.

 

[bigneil]

Good video, Neil. What's with the douchey sunglasses indoors though?

What interested me is I posted the other day that guys didn't change their looks much from their 30s to their 40s. And I said I thought the upper age for that period was probably 52. And this guy in the video also mentioned 52 as the upper age range for this "prime" SMV period for men.

When you speak truth to power like he does, can you blame him for the disguise?

Anyhow, at 47, the good news is, my checkout girl is 18.5, not 17.5, so I won't need her parents to sign a permission slip to photograph her. The bad news is, she has a wrist tattoo. Women are corrupted so early these days.