When a girl you slept with keep contacting you

[chuchu]

I've meet this girl a long ass time ago through a friend. She is super cute, at least a 9.

I took her camping. We had sex. We both had fun. We both don't want a relationship.

I feel weird talking to her now, but she keep emailing me. Sometimes she would tell me her problems and reminding me of the fun times we had camping. wtf?

I don't want to be rude by not replying, so I just reply.

My question is, what would you guys do in this situation when a girl you slept with keep contacting you?

Keep the friend relationship?

Ignore?

You don't give a ****?

 

[jafyk]

Why don't you want to keep the contact? Why isn't she good enough as friends with benefits if she's a 9? Sounds to me like you used the girl. A lot of women use sex as a means to get a relationship or some form of connection. Maybe you should flat out ask her what she wants since it bothers you or maybe you should call her so much that she thinks you are an AFC and wants to have nothing to do with you.

 

[chuchu]

Sup sup!

It was her idea that she doesn't want a relationship first, I went a long with it, we had fun though. So I had no choice but to next her. When you next a girl, you don't want to go back right? I don't really care If she's a 10 or an angel from heaven.

I am going to tell her I am in a relationship already, and stop replying her email. I think thats a nicest way to tell her to fvck off.

I won't put myself in an AFC position for anyone.

Thanks for your input.

 

[AllInADaysWork]

Sup sup!

It was her idea that she doesn't want a relationship first, I went a long with it, we had fun though. So I had no choice but to next her. When you next a girl, you don't want to go back right? I don't really care If she's a 10 or an angel from heaven.

I am going to tell her I am in a relationship already, and stop replying her email. I think thats a nicest way to tell her to fvck off.

I won't put myself in an AFC position for anyone.

Thanks for your input.

Don't play games, they will always bite you in the ass. Tell her honestly what you think of the entire situation and that you want nothing to do with her (obviously in a good way/tone). Making up lies about being in a relationship,etc.. to feel 'good' about it is the wrong way to go about it. Who cares if your straight up with her. If anything, you trying to feel good about it makes it seem like you dig her, in an arrogant way.

Nothing bad will come out from telling her straight up. In the worst case scenerio, you can still fall back to her in times of a drought and so forth, to take things further (if you want to).

 

[shaunuk]

I'm not sure I even understand the problem, if there even is one.

1) you had sex with a girl

2) you both decided you didn't want a relationship

3) she's now contacting you...cause she likes you presumably

ermm... so what, I don't understand what the big dilemma is mate

 

[guywhoneedshelp]

I have a problem...if I have sex with a 9 or above there's like a 30% chance I'll fall for them head over heels.

I guess we all got a little bit of AFC in us...I'm shallow as hell. Any girl 9 or above who doesn't cheat is good enough for me to settle with sometimes. It's a trap I fall into 30% of the time if the girl is hot and successful at trapping me.

The other 70% of the time I plug them into the roster, accept their calls when you can, take it for what it is. Booty call on Thursdays? Okay, that's your spot in the roster.

 

[chuchu]

She blew you off and now misses the feelings you gave her. She is fishing for more attention and to see if she can get you to supplicate for her. And once you do, she'll blow you up with a weird look on her face and "let's just be friends". You claim you nexted her and you won't go AFC? Well then do it. Next her. But not with words, but with action. Simply block her email and move on. If she really wanted to get back with you, she'd make it perfectly clear. She is just pissed because you aren't going AFC like all the other guys and is trying to get you to "tell her how you feel" so she can gain the upper hand and then end it again.

You did great, just finish the job.

Oh yea, great analysis right on mate

 

[Hooligan Harry]

She blew you off and now misses the feelings you gave her. She is fishing for more attention and to see if she can get you to supplicate for her. And once you do, she'll blow you up with a weird look on her face and "let's just be friends". You claim you nexted her and you won't go AFC? Well then do it. Next her. But not with words, but with action. Simply block her email and move on. If she really wanted to get back with you, she'd make it perfectly clear. She is just pissed because you aren't going AFC like all the other guys and is trying to get you to "tell her how you feel" so she can gain the upper hand and then end it again.

You did great, just finish the job.

Ahhhh come on already!!!

This is where theory really starts to lose the plot. This is not a power game. The ***** is horny.

Maybe you ****ed her pretty good and she wants some more. She finds you attractive and you hit the spot without pressuring her for something more which is normally what anything over a 6 gets these days.

Decide if you want to bang this broad or not. Chances are she is just looking for a shag. Its an easy one to approach

1) Do you want to bang her? If its yes then just be honest and say you like her, are attracted to her, but wont commit to anything serious. But you like to have fun with her

OR

2) You dont want to bang her and you tell her that you are not interested.

Holy crap. Women like cawk lads. Stick it to her good and chances are she will want more. This is probably what happened here.

 

[r0cky]

Dont be a chump. F.uck her again.

But if you want to avoid being an afc (I dont think thats being afc at all) and want to stand your ground, and not f.uck a horny chick because you already nexted her. Then mind telling me what the hell is the purpose of this thread if you already know what you want to do?

I actually think this thread is very show-offish.

"I have a hb9 trying to fu.ck me but I'm too alpha to f.uck a girl I already nexted"

 

[chuchu]

Ahhhh come on already!!!

This is where theory really starts to lose the plot. This is not a power game. The ***** is horny.

Maybe you ****ed her pretty good and she wants some more. She finds you attractive and you hit the spot without pressuring her for something more which is normally what anything over a 6 gets these days.

Decide if you want to bang this broad or not. Chances are she is just looking for a shag. Its an easy one to approach

1) Do you want to bang her? If its yes then just be honest and say you like her, are attracted to her, but wont commit to anything serious. But you like to have fun with her

OR

2) You dont want to bang her and you tell her that you are not interested.

Holy crap. Women like cawk lads. Stick it to her good and chances are she will want more. This is probably what happened here.

Even if she is looking for a shags, I don't want to bang her again, unless you got no game and wants a good fvck. I think this is where the funs comes in, seems like the more I ignore her the higher her IL for me.

But its annoying, Dons is right, she just wants attentions. If you attack she will pull back, if you pull back she'll attack.

Its a fvcking trick.

I got other girls to focus on guys.

 

[DonJuan11]

I took her camping. We had sex. We both had fun. We both don't want a relationship.

I feel weird talking to her now, but she keep emailing me. Sometimes she would tell me her problems and reminding me of the fun times we had camping. wtf?

My question is, what would you guys do in this situation when a girl you slept with keep contacting you?

You are obviously doing something that she keeps emailing you. Sounds like you don't mind the emails, otherwise you would put an end to it fast or just not respond.

 

[broken dreams]

I would like to see Str8up ,kontroller x and rollo tomassi 's take on this.
hell i m getting text from someone who rejected me and LJBF, now wants to hang out and hook up.
I practically I have no time to play games well at least after sex.lol.

It definately has to be on your terms dude, **** her use her.
cause she will use you too and this **** is normal for girls to do.

dont get emotional with her. more you act uninterested they want more. get another one as your GF and **** this one. get some plates going for you at least for fun, this will keep you busy and no time to get emotional.

it all up to you. Like a friend here told me dont waste too much energy on one chick.

the guys here would agree. just rememebr as long as you have
SELF RESPECT and she doesnt want to use you as her chump.

that is how I am recovering . I CANT SEEM TO CHANGE MY USER NAME F U C K !!!!!