When a girl asks u "Are u a virgin?"

[DonJuanInTrainin]

Yeah well this girl i went out with asked me if i was a virgin and i said i am. Do u guys think its a big deal the girl knows this, will this make her less attracted to me.

Did i mess up by sayin the truth?

 

[wavejams007]

Depends on the girl's and your moral beleifs.

 

[eggnawgkid]

I think it has a lot to do with how old you are.

 

[DonJuanInTrainin]

i turned 17 a month ago and its not tat i dont want to lose my virginity its just i didnt have much game in previous years and was too low key in HS and now all tats changin

 

[eggnawgkid]

On these boards it sounds like lots of the high schoolers have lost their virginity, but to be honestly I know of very few people in my school that have. I'm planning on waiting until I'm married, but of course that's just me. Is the girl a virgin?

 

[DonJuanInTrainin]

no she had serious relationship for 3 years tho

 

[eggnawgkid]

Well then it depends on how you told her you were a virgin. If you said it like you were embarrased then it may have been a bad thing. If you said it confidently like it didn't matter or you were proud or something then you should be fine.

 

[assassin]

she's probably not worried about you actually being a virgin. she's probably worried that you won't be as experienced as her last bf.

 

[Bigsnake]

Don't worry about it. A lot of guy's in high school are still virgins even though most don't want to admit to it. I didn't get much of anything in high school.

I'm also encountering a lot of girls in college saying they're waiting too.

 

[Narciss]

Well there are a lot worse things you could be talking about. You certainly must be doing something right, if shes asking you that question in the first place. Just be confident, always remain positive man, challenge her a little bit. Even if she knows that you are a virgin, the pressure would be on her, cause that means your not supposed to know what your doing. SHE IS.
Go for the gold. If your gonna tell her your a virgin, than at least show that it doesnt mean shyt to you, show her you are the man.
Most importantly if you over think this, you will end up convincing yourself that you arent "good enough" and you wont make a move.

 

[Levex]

advice: lie lie lie and lie some more when a chick asks you that. there's no need for her to know it in the first place, but if she does find out that means you already got some from her.

i am so going to hell.

 

[Mr. Debonaire]

Originally posted by Levex
i am so going to hell.

i think its a safe bet that we all are

 

[bud_2005]

Someone on this board asked this question earlier and another person gave a golden response.

Tell her "With you I am" and leave it at that.

 

[Climax]

Depends...

Originally posted by DonJuanInTrainin
Yeah well this girl i went out with asked me if i was a virgin and i said i am. Do u guys think its a big deal the girl knows this, will this make her less attracted to me.

Did i mess up by sayin the truth?

If you are only 17 and are still a Virgin, then you have nothing to be ashamed of, so I think that you did the right thing by telling her that u WERE a virgin, as apose to lying to her. Now the WAY that you said it is whats important... were u confident? or were u shy etc?


Laterz...

 

[Kidd]

Originally posted by DonJuanInTrainin
Yeah well this girl i went out with asked me if i was a virgin and i said i am. Do u guys think its a big deal the girl knows this, will this make her less attracted to me.

Did i mess up by sayin the truth?

If you act like it is a big deal, it will become a big deal.

 

[DonJuanInTrainin]

arite thanks for the advice

 

[box]

Sex is just friction and imagination.

 

[white cloud 8]

Originally posted by bud_2005
Someone on this board asked this question earlier and another person gave a golden response.

Tell her "With you I am" and leave it at that.

Would she think this response to be *VERY* ****y and get turned off by it??? Although, I have to agree it is an awesome response to the question .

 

[Climax]

hmm...

Originally posted by white cloud 8
Would she think this response to be *VERY* ****y and get turned off by it??? Although, I have to agree it is an awesome response to the question .

She wont think its too ****y, buy if she is clever enough, she will think to herself that u probably ARE a virgin by answering her like that, and then if she follows through and insists that u answer her, then if u tell her that u are a virgin, then it will make u look kinda stupid for giving that answer ("With you I am"), so I personally wouldn’t recommend that you use it, I believe that just telling the truth wont cause any harm, in fact, some girl would be proud to take a guys virginity. If you are really old and still a virgin, and u are asked this, then maybe if u are REALLY uncomfortable with still being a virgin, then u can just say "no, I’m not a virgin", its not a big deal. And if she thinks that u aren’t good in bed, then who cares? U got what u wanted from her, that’s all that matters, and the more u sleep around, the better u will get, so if 1 or 2 women think that u suck in bed, WHO CARES? Anyways....
DonJuanInTrainin: ur only 17 years old, there's NOTHING wrong with still being a virgin at the age of 17, so no need to lie or make excuses.

white cloud 8: U are 19, its not the end of the world to still be a virgin, but it is getting a liitle late to loose ur virginity in the days of today, so go out there, seduce some ladies, and start having sex. If they ask u if u are still a virgin, then just tell them that u are, IN A CONFIDENT way, and there shouldnt be ANY problem.

Good Luck...


Laterz....

Laterz...

 

[Reach]

I saw a documentry about IBiza holidays and a guy who was 19 was a virgin and he went out and his freinds were just bluntly saying, "He's a virgin and looking to lose it." Some girls enjoyed that and I think he lost it soon aftewards. I only lost my virginity in January and I'm 19, so don't worry too much. I know a bar tender who's 24 and still a virgin... and there's a 23 year old woman who I'm going to break in sometime.