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when a chick says she's fat

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what do you guys do when a chick tells you that she's fat or ugly? is she fising for a compliment?
 

becker

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Most are just insecure, but some are fishing for compliments. I knew a girl who said this and she had the most amazing body ever.
 
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Tell her that its okay, you like chubby girls.

She will probably hit you, and then you can tell her how cute her little girly punches are and laugh at her the whole time.

Just tease them mercilessly. They love it!
 

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Like becker's, i had a girl who had a perfect body... and she'd also come out with the occasional 'im fat' line.

Well, i'd just look at her seriously, reach over, slide my hand under her clothing & slowly rub my hand over her stomach... then i'd look at her & with a serious "hmmmmm....." id continue doing what i was doing prior to her statement.

It drove her mad, in a good way :)

Lot's of girls are insecure, some are just fishing for compliments. Either way, i'd still play it the same - like crotch said, tease them, keep them guessing!
 
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agree with her!!!

N0 seriously...she has low self esteem and is fishing for compliments to make "herself" feel good about "her"...it's all about "her"...

You should try refersing the game to see how she likes it.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I usually say:

-Really? You think so?
-yeah :(
-Well, what are you waiting for, come here, let me see...
-Pinch the layer of fat on the belly and concentrate on it
-so

EeEEEWwwW :p

then I block some flirty punches. When she calms down, I hug her and feigh shock when I "discover" how fat her chest is.
 

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I always say "I don't date fat chicks. You'll know when you're fat because I won't be here"....
 

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"Most guys would probably say you aren't fat."
"oh...but that doesn't say what you think!"
"no, it doesn't."

Had that happen to me. That line worked well (or seemed to).
 

Avsguy01

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I dated this girl last night who weighs 120lbs and she said she had a fat ass!! :eek: I was thinking more like a phat ass.
 

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How about "take off those pants. I'll be the judge of that!"
 

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"do you think im fat?"

"yes, thats why your getting a treadmill for xmas"
 

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If I was up your ass you'd know
how about, "um, im going to need to take a closer look, take off your clothes"

or just stand up and be like "i dunno, but do you think my ass looks wide" turn around and bend over
 

JJMcLure

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She wants you to disagree.

It serves two purposes:
- boosts her self esteem/ego - chicks are insecure and constantly need reinforcement that they are desirable.
- tests to see if you will supplicate and just tell her what she wants to hear.

Recognise this as a game/test and do not give the response she wants. Don't be afraid you will offend her.

If you are not forthcoming in recognising her "beauty" she will work hard to make you do so (i.e. chase).
 

DJ_Dork

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Originally posted by Crotch Sniffer
Tell her that its okay, you like chubby girls.

She will probably hit you, and then you can tell her how cute her little girly punches are and laugh at her the whole time.

Just tease them mercilessly. They love it!
Do what this guy says, it will work if she's not truly chubby. If she is... don't say what they expect (ie. supplementing)
 

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Tell here "Listen Hoe, what the **** would I be doing with a fat or ugly chick???"
 
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