When a chick says she wants loyalty

[BoomToTheMoonAlice]

Tell her your loyalty doesn't come that cheap.

 

[Murk]

Like after sex she was like ..."i just want your loyalty because thats what im bringing"

Ukranian girl I was smashing really tried to put it on me like that in bed. I laughed it off, she got upset, it is what it is. I've learned never to make false promises.

 

[Divorced w 3]

the other 5-10 dudes who she deliberately let blow her back out without repentance mercy.

See this is where i personally see the shoe on both sides of the foot. Women have sex lives, they always have, nothing is going to change human behavior. General consensus around here seems to be that men shouldn’t commit to women who had a moderate amount of sex before they met them.

 

[_sideways_]

Dang....
Hella negative thoughts out there.
Idk how many dycks shes been ran through or whatever.
Will never know...but ive known her for 2 years.
Super close with her church going family...not that it means much.
Pvzzy looks and feels not ran through...i know that...
She knows im with her only...eventhough i do get hit on a lot lately cuz of the clean eating...
Im actively trying to get her pregnant...shes a cute fun size sex doll super sexy and fun. Doesnt ask for anything. Prevents arguments by apologizing right away before things get heated.
Shes a girl....i thought she was just saying it to try to strong arm me...didnt even make a blip to me.
I just thought i'd get a glimpse of what the advice would be.
Someone wrote that she was just asking for reassurance or making sure i was on the same page still...yea it was less classy...but how do you do it in a classy way.

At the restaurant the table was wobbly. I folded up napkins to stick under one of the table legs...got down on one knee and she thought i was gonna propose and got all giddy and laughed with me about it when she realized what i was doing.
So yea...im committed...i want to just have her...not a roster.
She confessed that im her whole package...like an honest let my guards down show him my heart and declaration of love and admiration.
She'll always be guarding what she wants.
The day i lose my legs will really decide if she loves me lol

 

[soulforge]

Absolutely. They always have others dude on tap. I had this former/present older plate over at my place the other day and she left her cell downstairs charging while she was in the bathroom upstairs. Her phone vibrated loud.
I leaned over and it was a notification from a dude wanting to start a chat. And that was with the phone locked now I can only imagine how many d!ck conversations were behind the passcode.
When she came downstairs I just casually said “I think your phone made a noise”
Like water off a duck’s back I continued to do my thing. She went down the food chain.
They all got options.

They all have options. I tend to avoid girls for LTR who have social media addiction.

Recreational use only.

 

[soulforge]

See this is where i personally see the shoe on both sides of the foot. Women have sex lives, they always have, nothing is going to change human behavior. General consensus around here seems to be that men shouldn’t commit to women who had a moderate amount of sex before they met them.

I don't really care if they have a sex life.

However I am fully aware, the more sex they have had, the lower their ability to pair bond with YOU and higher the probability of her dumping your azz, instead of working through relationship problems that are inevitably going to come.

This doesn't mean we shouldn't date them, this simply means be prepared for the worst, have other options, don't marry her and do not move in with her.

Biology is biology, we simply need to adapt.

 

[_sideways_]

I don't really care if they have a sex life.

However I am fully aware, the more sex they have had, the lower their ability to pair bond with YOU and higher the probability of her dumping your azz, instead of working through relationship problems that are inevitably going to come.

This doesn't mean we shouldn't date them, this simply means be prepared for the worst, have other options, don't marry her and do not move in with her.

Biology is biology, we simply need to adapt.

Dont marry her and do not move in with her.
Ok...that sounds fine.
So be alone...live alone and thats it.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Like after sex she was like ..."i just want your loyalty because thats what im bringing"

She views you as a Simp that will work with.

 

[member162951]

Someone wrote that she was just asking for reassurance or making sure i was on the same page still...yea it was less classy...but how do you do it in a classy way.

Bolded - that was my first thought as well. And it was great she asked, that's what you want, isn't it? A loyal girl who's not sleeping around with others and who's seeking reassurance that you're not either? There's everything good about that, I see nothing negative.

Not sure if there is a 'classier" way of asking.

"Does this mean you're my boyfriend now?" Lol

"I'm not f*cking anyone else and don't want to, are you?"

Best to not overthink it and enjoy the journey. Stay positive, it all sounds good @_sideways_ .

 

[_sideways_]

She views you as a Simp that will work with.

How do you come up with that?
I dont feel like a simp.
Ive taken her out to eat twice. I dont throw money at her.
I dont constantly text or call.
She takes a taxi or bus to come see me. I literally just have to open my front door and we end up on the floor.

I think she sees i have options.
Or she sees me as a simp because i say sweet emotional words....come on...every guy fakes that

 

[member162951]

She confessed that im her whole package...like an honest let my guards down show him my heart and declaration of love and admiration.
She'll always be guarding what she wants.
The day i lose my legs will really decide if she loves me lol

Again, this is exactly what you want! She sounds like a keeper @_sideways_ truly.

Bolded - well we hope it doesn't come down to that but as far as compliance tests go, it's right up there with the best of them.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I don't really care if they have a sex life.

However I am fully aware, the more sex they have had, the lower their ability to pair bond with YOU and higher the probability of her dumping your azz, instead of working through relationship problems that are inevitably going to come.

This doesn't mean we shouldn't date them, this simply means be prepared for the worst, have other options, don't marry her and do not move in with her.

Biology is biology, we simply need to adapt.

People on this board get way too caught up in this psychobabble nonsense they read, IMO

 

[_sideways_]

Bolded - that was my first thought as well. And it was great she asked, that's what you want, isn't it? A loyal girl who's not sleeping around with others and who's seeking reassurance that you're not either? There's everything good about that, I see nothing negative.

Not sure if there is a 'classier" way of asking. "Does this mean you're my boyfriend now?" Lol "I'm not f*cking anyone else and don't want to, are you?"

Best to not overthink it and enjoy the journey. Stay positive, it all sounds good @_sideways_ .

Yea...
I really just made a thread to get a conversation going.
The relationship is going fine. Shes in love...
I bring up stuff from the past that she did wrong and shes genuinely sorry and feels bad. And i see it in her...like she feels remorse and is scared of losing me.
That must feel kinda bad to be walking around with some dude you love and still have a gnawing feeling that he can just walk away if he thinks thats best.

Thats what sucks for me too.
I have the cash home health looks experience....time!!
Like legit...im not buying bugattis but its like im living in an all inclusive resort.
Just worrying about my workouts. Dont drink or smoke.
And i dont want a stressed out gf.

But she has asked what i do with my time. Think she thinks im going out with girls cuz all the free time and money.

 

[_sideways_]

Ima throw you a rec. You need to learn how to get better at recognizing manipulative behavior and learn to work your way around it to avoid death by a thousand cuts from any female. Even the every day passive aggressive soft manipulation. women are masters in manipulation and deception.
If she ain’t a virgin then she told that line to like the other 5-10 dudes who she deliberately let blow her back out without repentance mercy.
My sage advice to you would be to ignore it and instead let her work for it with grunt work.

Everything with a grain of salt. I get that.
It just sounds weird to always say that so and so said that before to the 10 dudes prior who came in or around her.
This girl been with 2 dudes...as far as i heard. Cant ever know for real.

 

[Giovanni SouthSide]

They all have options. I tend to avoid girls for LTR who have social media addiction.

Recreational use only.

I have been avoiding them all my life my boy.
It’s just a disappointment that these females be living double identities. Hard to filter out the real and pure. Most are polluted with the psychotic attention seeking trend.
They are one woman in physical form with you and another different creature on social media.
Im running a good ol’ fashioned trust no b!tch phase right now. I’m only spending on what I’m comfortable losing.

 

[soulforge]

I have been avoiding them all my life my boy.
It’s just a disappointment that these females be living double identities. Hard to filter out the real and pure. Most are polluted with the attention seeking trend.
They are one woman in physical form with you and another different creature on social media.
Im running a good ol’ fashioned trust no b!tch phase right now. I’m only spending what I’m comfortable losing.

I didn't know or realise how much social media addiction is a problem, until I dated a girl with a social media addiction, my last relationship.

Never again. They are like fvking crack addicts with that smart phone.

 

[soulforge]

How do you come up with that?
I dont feel like a simp.
Ive taken her out to eat twice. I dont throw money at her.
I dont constantly text or call.
She takes a taxi or bus to come see me. I literally just have to open my front door and we end up on the floor.

I think she sees i have options.
Or she sees me as a simp because i say sweet emotional words....come on...every guy fakes that

Don't worry about what some of the chumps say on here.

Half of them haven't had sex in 12 months.

They probably live in mom's basement and come on SS to try out Alpha the Alpha.

If you asked them to post a pic on SS they likely look like a obese dork who plays video games all day.

Trust me dude, some of the jokers on here will put YOU down, just to feel good about themselves, because they are basement dwelling trolls.

Quite a few guys join SS to live out a fake Fantasy of being some Alpha who is good with girls, but in reality they probably Jerkin off to pornhvb 24/7

 

[BoomToTheMoonAlice]

Don't worry about what some of the chumps say on here.

Half of them haven't had sex in 12 months.

They probably live in mom's basement and come on SS to try out Alpha the Alpha.

If you asked them to post a pic on SS they likely look like a obese dork who plays video games all day.

Trust me dude, some of the jokers on here will put YOU down, just to feel good about themselves, because they are basement dwelling trolls.

Quite a few guys join SS to live out a fake Fantasy of being some Alpha who is good with girls, but in reality they probably Jerkin off to pornhvb 24/7

I think there's a lot of people here with mental illness. I've spoken to at least two in the DMs who have admitted to being schizophrenic (this is way out of league) I've only met one person in my life with schizophrenia and they scared the sh1t out of me... I met one guy on here around 2005 who tried to rob me. I won't go into it further but be careful who you meet on these boards, dude seemed completely normal from the get go. I'd bet money he died of aids or something similar. Had better luck with guys off the rooshvforum but seriously regretted introducing one or two of them to my students. I was too trusting when I was young and thought we were all in the same boat or we were a team or something, this is definitely not the case, beware! Some people have ZERO game and ZERO social awareness. They may really embarass you infront of others so be careful sarging. Had one dude I was winging with (in a group)... well we walked into a bookstore here and I started to talk to this blonde chick, and I got a rejection. No big deal. The dude proceeds to whisper very loudly "Maybe she was MOLESTED" (emphasis on the last word). It was the cringiest, creepiest, and most embarrassing situation I'd been in, she looked at me, I looked at her and.... I just didn't know what to say. He was always talking about d1ck size and gang bangs and weird sh1t. I met another dude who was autistic (back then I had no idea what that meant). We shared some hobbies but he was very clingy and interjected with inane talking points at all the wrong times.

GIRL: Hi

ME: Hey so where are you from, you look Asian.

HIM: There are computer stores in ASIA, I bet you have a computer from a computer store there, they have them in Shenzhen! The computer stores are big, that's what my friend tells me.

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The more time I spend here, the more I start to realize that this 'pick-up scene' attracts a weird bunch of misfits. I met one guy off YT comments, he was quite cool and let me and the missus stay at his house. We were having one of those late-night discussions and he admitted to trying to dice up his siblings. This is very different from 2001 in Canadian lairs. It was really just a bunch of guys my age trying to get over our social anxiety and a couple of gurus praying on rich or desperate losers. The MGTOWs are a much more intense bunch. They take incel sh1t to another level.

Crap sorry, not trying to de-rail the thread, just responding to Soul Forge.

Yeah take what people here say with a grain of salt. Pics or it didn't happen. I can be mean, but this is how I act in real life... and its why I have to keep my mouth shut in a room full of lefties. I keep coming back to the scene because the PUA/Right wing areas are the only places I can speak candidly without some ****head getting offended. I'm noticing as we're getting older, the unmarried dudes are going loopy.

I think 'Enjoy the decline' was just a coping mechanism for lazy losers.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Yea...
I really just made a thread to get a conversation going.
The relationship is going fine. Shes in love...
I bring up stuff from the past that she did wrong and shes genuinely sorry and feels bad. And i see it in her...like she feels remorse and is scared of losing me.
That must feel kinda bad to be walking around with some dude you love and still have a gnawing feeling that he can just walk away if he thinks thats best.

Thats what sucks for me too.
I have the cash home health looks experience....time!!
Like legit...im not buying bugattis but its like im living in an all inclusive resort.
Just worrying about my workouts. Dont drink or smoke.
And i dont want a stressed out gf.

But she has asked what i do with my time. Think she thinks im going out with girls cuz all the free time and money.

A women's default state is insecure.

 

[Bigpapa]

A women's default state is insecure.

No matter how good looking she is