I met a girl last Saturday at a close (female) friend’s birthday. I noticed her when I first got to the party, which started at my friend’s house, but was at a private room in a club later. I did not speak to the girl at the house, but don’t think I made a bad impression because of this at all, because I was talking to friends, both male and female in the house, and occupied the whole time. A while after we got to the club, I noticed this girl again, and went over to her, and asked her “Hi, are you ----” (… being the name of a friend of the friend whose birthday it was, whom I had never met, but our families did business together, so thought it would be appropriate to introduce myself, because from what my friend had told me, this girl resembled ---. At this stage romance was not on the agenda at all.) However, it turned out that this was not the same girl, she replied, “No, --- is that one over there” at this stage my eyes got a proper look at the girl with which I was talking, and realized that she was very attractive, and I’d more or less done the hard part. So I continued, I said “Oh, okay, so what’s your name” to which she responded, “---.” At that time I did not have a clue what she had said, (she is half Iranian half Indian, myself being ¾ Indian, ¼ English), she then said “Nice to meet you”, and extended her hand to me, I extended my hand, and said, “Pleasure, I’m ---(my name).” We shook hands, and she then looked into my eyes and smiled. At the time I was smoking a cigar, and she said to me, “I know girls don’t normally ask” there was then a pause, at this stage I got a little excited… I guess I was jumping to stupid conclusions, after I said “yes”, to my relative disappointment, all she said was “but can I have some of your cigar?” to which I laughed, in a somewhat mocking manner, and handed my cigar to her. She took a puff and handed it back. We continued chatting, about where she was from, what she did etc. during which she took a few more drags from my cigar, then we parted ways, when a friend of hers (female) called her over, before she left she gave me a kiss on the cheek and a hug. After about an hour, we met again, she asked me if I had any cigarettes, which I did not, but said I would get some, went and scrounged a few from a friend, and went back over to the girl, chatted a bit more, asked for her number, which she put into my phone, and after this I left the party.
On Monday, I spoke to my friend whose birthday it was, to find out a bit more about this girl. On Tuesday evening I rang the girl, a bit of casual banter, and proposed dinner, to which she responded, “Sure, that sounds great” I proposed the Saturday, to which she said she could not, because she said she had a lot of work for an exam, which she had mentioned earlier in the call. So I proposed the following Friday (the one coming). She said to me “Sure, but you will have to call me to remind me, because I’ll forget”. I then ended the call in a positive manner, as if she had given an outright yes, “Okay, excellent, I’ll give you a call closer the time! Bye” is how I concluded the call.
I’ve not called her since, but have spoken to my friend whose birthday it was, and she has said that the girl is interested.
I’m wondering, when should I call her again, because I cannot remember what day she said the exam was, and also I assume that this is a test, but as I did not give her a specific time when I would call, and its been almost a week now, I assume I am doing alright in that respect? If I leave it too late, she may make other plans.??
On Monday, I spoke to my friend whose birthday it was, to find out a bit more about this girl. On Tuesday evening I rang the girl, a bit of casual banter, and proposed dinner, to which she responded, “Sure, that sounds great” I proposed the Saturday, to which she said she could not, because she said she had a lot of work for an exam, which she had mentioned earlier in the call. So I proposed the following Friday (the one coming). She said to me “Sure, but you will have to call me to remind me, because I’ll forget”. I then ended the call in a positive manner, as if she had given an outright yes, “Okay, excellent, I’ll give you a call closer the time! Bye” is how I concluded the call.
I’ve not called her since, but have spoken to my friend whose birthday it was, and she has said that the girl is interested.
I’m wondering, when should I call her again, because I cannot remember what day she said the exam was, and also I assume that this is a test, but as I did not give her a specific time when I would call, and its been almost a week now, I assume I am doing alright in that respect? If I leave it too late, she may make other plans.??
