What's your experience of girls with large Tattoos?

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I’ve found that nowadays it’s mainstreamed. I’ve known emotionally stable chicks with tattoos. But most women, tats or not, are BSC these days anyway.

I don’t know that tats are that much of a marker anymore. Again guys here will mostly say they’re the worst blah blah blah.

Then again, I find the guys with the most rigid stances online usually are just parroting something they think will raise their value online, and rarely are what they represent them selves to be.
This is my stance, tattoos are pretty normalized like that of jewelry. Today's crazy women trying to get attention typically resort to wacky haircuts and piercings in odd places. Some of the chillest and friendliest women I have known have had a tattoo of some sort, albeit they were of the subtle variety.
 

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The only gals that I have had contact with that have large tattoos have been sex workers. That said, I remember meeting a gal via OLD, and she had a tattoo on her arm that looked like one on a skinny sailor. She was pretty hot otherwise, but I just couldn't see myself with a gal like that - I didn't even want to stick it in in case I knocked her up. :eek: I have also been with women that had a small, carefully concealed tattoo (i.e., in the bikini bottom zone), and that was OK.
 

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Years ago, I took home a girl from the bar (with no visible tats) and discovered she had a large back piece. That ink was the most memorable thing about her.

Most other women who I have been with have had some sort of small tattoo. It is very common these days, especially among younger women.

I also recall seeing a woman in an airport a while ago... I thought she was decently attractive until she took off her sweatshirt and her neck tats became visible. Instant turnoff.
 
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Luckily I haven't had too many experiences or relationships with girls who have had several large tattoos.

The only two occasions I had dealings with Tattooed chicks, both of them where to some degree fvking unstable or bat shyte crazy!!

I am not talking about girls with a little random tattoo of maybe something sentimental to her. I'm talking about full on thigh tattoo or full on sleeve, or several large tattoos etc.

What's your experience of Tattooed girls?
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The only gals that I have had contact with that have large tattoos have been sex workers. I have also been with women that had a small, carefully concealed tattoo (i.e., in the bikini bottom zone), and that was OK.
Plenty of women who are not sex workers have large tattoos.

Among Millennial (1981-1996 births) and Gen Z (1997-2005 births) adults, tattooing is very common. There are plenty of Millennials women with half sleeve or full sleeve tattoos on their arms and they aren't sex workers.
 

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Really the only thing you can discern from this is a woman with large tats has a high tolerance of pain and is not afraid of needles. In addition, she is not afraid to commit to something she cannot change. Take from that what you will. I don't have tats mostly because the idea of putting something on my body that I can't change bothers me the same way I wouldn't wear the same suit day in and day out. I guess if I ever got one, it would be on my back so I don't have to look at it every day.

I don't find large tats particularly attractive, but it isn't a complete turn off. I've dated women with large tats... I really don't think they are that much different than any other woman. All women have at least some amount of damage... but fvck... so do I. You can't drive a car without getting dings and dents.
 
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I don't find large tats particularly attractive, but it isn't a complete turn off. I've dated women with large tats... I really don't think they are that much different than any other woman. All women have at least some amount of damage... but fvck... so do I. You can't drive a car without getting dings and dents.
That's how I look at it too.
Many damaged women see me as a challenge, because I have developed a condition referred to a 'delayed emotional affect', which basically that I don't display emotions the moment I have them, but later (or not at all), so manipulative women find it difficult to 'play' me. And that amuses me. Plus getting my trouser snake petted.
 

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From my war stories out in the field and around the block since a young buck, MOST women with larger tats are not LTR material. Some are chill and can definitely strike up a smooth sailing conversation. But I dress them down quickly. A carousel of cluster b tendencies if you observe them a bit closer. Recreational use only. Tats cheapen the purity of a women. They low key know this. they internalize it and they start believing it themselves. They like the exposure of such devaluation.
A clean woman that paves her own way rather than following the herd is more up my alley.
 
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Really the only thing you can discern from this is a woman with large tats has a high tolerance of pain and is not afraid of needles. In addition, she is not afraid to commit to something she cannot change. Take from that what you will. I don't have tats mostly because the idea of putting something on my body that I can't change bothers me the same way I wouldn't wear the same suit day in and day out. I guess if I ever got one, it would be on my back so I don't have to look at it every day.

I don't find large tats particularly attractive, but it isn't a complete turn off. I've dated women with large tats... I really don't think they are that much different than any other woman. All women have at least some amount of damage... but fvck... so do I. You can't drive a car without getting dings and dents.
All women got first or second degree of traumas, even us, but women with excessive ink expose those traumas like a badge of honor.
 

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All women got first or second degree of traumas, even us, but women with excessive ink expose those traumas like a badge of honor.
Good point. What does it say about men that get big tatoos?

Serious question. I do agree that women who get these are advertising something... what are men advertising?

I go to the gym three times a week, and in about 50-50 cases men that are serious about lifting have big tats.

I believe a lot of this is just because others are doing this. I've been around for a long time, and I've seen trends come and go, some of these trends are silly as fvck. I remember a time when very very few men had beards... well I was in an Investor meeting a couple of days ago and I was the ONLY man in the meeting without a beard. In the 80's men tried to look like Romans, in the 90's men tried to look as sloppy has possible with IMO the silly trend of wearing suit jackets with jeans with razor stubble. Today... men want to look like Vikings (tats and beards).

I have an old friend, he was into motor biking and had been in a biker club since leaving high school... he's one of my favorite human beings. He hasn't changed in 40 years. A month ago we got together for lunch he has sleeve tats, and beard and long hair and was laughing that now he is considered stylish, when 20 years ago people were afraid of him. He also laughed at me... saying I hadn't changed either (I never wear jewelry, just a watch my grandfather gave me), short hair, no beard, and a suit I bought in London in the early 90s (which LOL the style is coming back).

Humans are social creatures and heard animals... we tend to reflect society. This is a trend... trends change.... Right now having obnoxious tats are popular, so people are doing it, and tatoo artists are making bank... in a few years dermatologists will be making bank removing them.
 

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Good point. What does it say about men that get big tatoos?

Serious question. I do agree that women who get these are advertising something... what are men advertising?

I go to the gym three times a week, and in about 50-50 cases men that are serious about lifting have big tats.

I believe a lot of this is just because others are doing this. I've been around for a long time, and I've seen trends come and go, some of these trends are silly as fvck. I remember a time when very very few men had beards... well I was in an Investor meeting a couple of days ago and I was the ONLY man in the meeting without a beard. In the 80's men tried to look like Romans, in the 90's men tried to look as sloppy has possible with IMO the silly trend of wearing suit jackets with jeans with razor stubble. Today... men want to look like Vikings (tats and beards).

I have an old friend, he was into motor biking and had been in a biker club since leaving high school... he's one of my favorite human beings. He hasn't changed in 40 years. A month ago we got together for lunch he has sleeve tats, and beard and long hair and was laughing that now he is considered stylish, when 20 years ago people were afraid of him. He also laughed at me... saying I hadn't changed either (I never wear jewelry, just a watch my grandfather gave me), short hair, no beard, and a suit I bought in London in the early 90s (which LOL the style is coming back).

Humans are social creatures and heard animals... we tend to reflect society. This is a trend... trends change.... Right now having obnoxious tats are popular, so people are doing it, and tatoo artists are making bank... in a few years dermatologists will be making bank removing them.
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Luckily I haven't had too many experiences or relationships with girls who have had several large tattoos.

The only two occasions I had dealings with Tattooed chicks, both of them where to some degree fvking unstable or bat shyte crazy!!

I am not talking about girls with a little random tattoo of maybe something sentimental to her. I'm talking about full on thigh tattoo or full on sleeve, or several large tattoos etc.

What's your experience of Tattooed girls?
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Serious question. I do agree that women who get these are advertising something... what are men advertising?
Similar to what I wrote about women with large back tattoos - men who want attention for their tattoos are more likely to take sleeve tattoos. My forearm tattoos don't attract that much attention.
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I only walk around without a shirt in my home, but not outside except for the swimming pool. I don't go to gyms, but my friends in the dojo where I train Japanese swordsmanship briefly see my bare back in the changing room. My tattoos are personal reminders, not to flash for street cred.

I think those people with large back tattoos show a lot of pain management and commitment, which I both count as positive traits.
 

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Tattoos are a form of self-expression, same as what clothes you wear. I honestly don't have any problems with them at all. But what people tattoo on their bodies does send a message.

I've thought about getting one... but I don't know what I would get, maybe and American flag, or something related to my Army service, my daughter's names... or some philosophical statement from Kant.. my alma mater university logo... maybe a Batman logo (I've loved Batman even as a kid). I don't know pretty run of the mill stuff things I care about.

I think most women get these because that have something to say about themselves, and now it's more socially acceptable so lots are doing it. I know a few women that have large tats that practice in my yoga studio... they are perfectly normal women, and most of the tats actually look pretty cool.
 

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I don't like bumper stickers on a Corvette and I don't date girls with tats. Not my deal.
I have a Lexus and I'll never put bumper stickers on there!

Excess tattoos turn me off. I don't even get hard.
 
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