What's wrong with this chick?

[lizardking82]

At best, she woulda been ****buddy material. She has probably been dissapointed a lot, does not really like men and is looking for a provider. She;s bitter, woulda hat a lot of fights with her for sure and godforbid you did sth slightly against her will LOL this is the type of woman you don't wanna mess with because you can find yourself locked up in a cell charged on fake rape accusations.

 

[marmel75]

These type of women are the "waste of time" in most cases. They end up having completely un-realistic expectations for guys and as soon as you say something even remotely they don't agree with they will drop you like a bad habit. Could be something completely unimportant they will focus on. It's no wonder SHE is single, and will likely continue to be because guys have to be able to check so many boxes eventually she might as well go look for a needle in a haystack.

 

[AlphaNate]

Yeah, I agree with you guys. The takeaway for me is that my ego got in the way of a possible lay. Am I better off? Probably. But it's a waste of time if I don't learn something.

 

[Reykhel]

Hmm, I didn't look at it like that. My ego did get involved, and it usually doesn't. How did this chick push my buttons so easily??

Thanks man.

She pushed your buttons so easily because:
1. You come across as inexperienced (you sound like you want everything to be "fair"..)
2. You don't have well defined boundaries

In my opinion, she came across as assertive not bytchy. And you came across as very wishy washy.....

You could have gone along with the flow......"ah cool I can't stand smokers either..." ......."....eh thank god I'm an atheist so....."

.....you're simply letting know that your preferences match here........these are a form of boundaries.....knowing what and what you don't want.........if someone told her that they were a non smoker before and then when she arranged to meet them and then found out that they were in fact a smoker.....it would be pretty annoying and feel like you've had your time and energy wasted......hence she's being assertive about it now.....

Like maturity will attract like maturity: in other words, someone with well defined boundaries will be more attracted to someone with well defined boundaries.......

 

[RangerMIke]

She understands her nature, she knows that she has no control of her emotions and screens out men that do not meet her criteria because she understands that if she meets someone who can push her buttons, she could lose control and spin her wheels on a dude that will not work for her.

You as a man are coming from a mindset that you want to date to have fun, which is correct. Women date to make emotional connections, the dating isn't what she sees as wasting time.... to her wasting time is falling for a guy that is not going to work for her, and she will waste months if not years. The older women get the more like this they become. Don't take it personal, it has nothing to do with you.

What she doesn't understand is that if she finds a guy that will go along with all this she will lose interest in him fast, because he is not acting like a man. In the future just don't waste any time on chicks like this. You were trying to debate this chick with rational arguments. Arguing with chicks is a waste of time, they don't know what they really want. Just keep acting like a man and only date women who are interested in you.

 

[wifehunter]

Garbage in, garbage out.

 

[devilkingx2]

can you imagine going on a date with a woman that bitchy and overly serious about everything?

especially since she's dumb enough to think searching for a serious relationship online is a good idea and fickle enough to just dump guys for basically no reason lol