whats wrong with me

[gdi]

For Almost a year now it seems whenever im intrested in a girl i pursue her but then once i know she likes me all intrest is lost and i just sorta stop talking to her. I dunno what kind of advice you could give me on this but any is apperciated.

 

[GaryUranga]

get a better challenge

 

[gdi]

I dunno ive gone after girls older, younger, varsity cheerleaders, girls i meet outside of school and its real fun. Its just the second i know they like me all the intrest i had for them goes away.

 

[Precursor]

wow u must be really good then

 

[BBX]

or gay


people usally have the total opposite problem, your lucky.

 

[gdi]

Not even I just use some advice I have gotten from this forum and my father. Sorta his tips which are really dated mixed with stuff from the site work pretty well. I read this somewhere most likely this site that said the first time a girl sees you she right then and there makes the decision if she would sleep with you. My dad said it’s all up to them(being women) which is semi true, the idea that if a girl likes you she'll let you know and even the smoothest moves won't get her. I personally see that as more of a bonus, if they like you it makes things ton easier, all i do is be charming funny around every girl and it just becomes habit, this does lead to some ugos liking you but I just ignore them or let them down gently. The DJ stuff works great for hooking up and I guess i should just be happy with that but i want something more real as ***** made as it sounds i want a real relationship.

 

[ascalon]

people usally have the total opposite problem, your lucky.

He is not lucky man! I think it's always better to cry for something you have never had than something you have but can't use.In this case our buddy has the charisma but can't use it in a proper way.I had (and partly still have) the same problem and i hope that my advice will help .

The girls that like me usually don't know me,they just pass by and say "WOW! What a cute and calm guy" , they see only the cover.In your case (i think )you are prepared to see only the cover too,when you read it you feel satisfied and you are not interested anymore. I hardly believe that the girl that can change this situation is a very close friend of yours,a girl you care about and a girl that knows you.

 

[gdi]

ascalon so your saying the girl im looking for isn't someone i know? thanks for the advice you've given already and any that is to follow