What's with all the gay bashing?

[Roly]

Learn the Art of Self Acceptance and Learn to love yourself unconditionally. " You can never be better than your own self esteem; that is how you feel about yourself in relation to others, based of self acceptance."

Lately, I've been seeing a lot of gay bashing in these boards. Yes I can relate to all the bashers in here because I too share your views about how unnatural homosexuality is and how overly femminize society has gotten. But guys, we need to understand that we are all unique individuals and that not everybody will share our same views and concepts to how to live our lives and that it is practically a waste of time, and energy if we get angry, bitter. feel guilty and feel shame towards somethings in life that we cannot understand. Yes, we need to learn and accept that there are somethings in life that we just cannot understand.

You cannot change people, you can only accept them with great love. Trying to change people to believe your views is just a plain waste of energy and you're ass will go crazy believe me because your going to be too judgemental and critical about life.

I'd like to believe that homosexuals/ gays/ metros are here to teach us tolerance, acceptance and loving people for who they are as a humanbeing. Learn acceptance and tolerance, it will improve the quality of your life.

 

[Visceral]

The problem that I, and I think most people in the world, have with gays is when they act like I actually care who they sleep with and that I want to hear all about it.

 

[Flogger]

I think lashing out at anybody is a sign of weakness.

(Unless, of course, they've seriously threatened you.)

 

[tristan22]

Gay people don't bother me, unless they hit on me--then i have a problem

 

[2pac]

gay people are ****ing stupid!!

 

[Interpol]

Originally posted by 2pac
gay people are ****ing stupid!!

What an intelligent, thought-provoking, well-articulated argument!

 

[ShizamDaMan]

Originally posted by Interpol
What an intelligent, thought-provoking, well-articulated argument!

I agree, it's definitely time to start discriminating and stop using common sense to realise homosexuals, erm, I mean faggots are evil evil beings!

 

[spider_007]

-first of all, NO MAN FEELS COMFORATABLE AROUND A GAY GUY. The fact is; if we "accidently" saw guy porn, we would be absolutly discusted. If you don't think you would be, why don't you download some and find out. It's just something about just knowing a gay person that makes a MAN feel uncomforatable. NO DON'T GIVE ME THAT SOCAIL CRAP; we should all accept eachother. RETARDS are born retards, and you don't feel comforatable around them eather.......gayness is un-natrual and so are retarded physically disfigured people. It's just the fact of life. And no MAN will ever feel totally comforatable around eather. LIFE ISN'T FAIR, LIVE WITH IT.

 

[diplomatic_lies]

What about lesbians?

 

[Climax]

wtf.

It disgusts me how offensive you are being towards gay people.... and for what? SOMETHING THEY ARENT EVEN AT FAULT FOR! ... You think that gays (most of them at least) WANT to be gay? Well, the answer is NO! They cant help it, and for us "normal" people to speak sh!t about them and calling them retards is just immature and petty. Now would some of you please GROW THE F*CK up!


Laterz...

 

[familyguyfan]

Re: wtf.

Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
It disgusts me how offensive you are being towards gay people.... and for what? SOMETHING THEY ARENT EVEN AT FAULT FOR! ... You think that gays (most of them at least) WANT to be gay? Well, the answer is NO! They cant help it, and for us "normal" people to speak sh!t about them and calling them retards is just immature and petty. Now would some of you please GROW THE F*CK up!


Laterz...

I agree. I mean, I'm not a huge fan of gays, but I definitely don't think people should be discriminating towards them, particularly because it's not their fault. Most of them are the way they are because of some trauma in their early childhood. So they've been put through enough crap and shouldn't have to deal with all the sh*t they get.

I will say though that I really don't like the overly feminine gays. However, this isn't because they are homosexual, I wouldn't like an overly feminine heterosexual either. It's just weird. I wouldn't ever make fun of or be cruel to one to their face, but I wouldn't hang out with one either.

 

[Phoenix_of_the_ashes]

I have no problem with gay people and Id like to point out, that this homofobia is pretty typical for america.

 

[Phoenix_of_the_ashes]

@ all you guys who consider it unnatural, please tell me:

1) what is natural?

2) what is unnatural about homosexuality?

3) if homosexuality is unnatural, then it must be man made, yes or no?

 

[spider_007]

Originally posted by Phoenix_of_the_ashes
@ all you guys who consider it unnatural, please tell me:

1) what is natural?

2) what is unnatural about homosexuality?

3) if homosexuality is unnatural, then it must be man made, yes or no?

1) natural is; the way things are "ment to be". the way nature intended it to be. Natural DOES NOT INCLUDE natures little mistakes; Retards, people born with disabilities... gay people....

2) Just the same whay some genes got twiked for whatever reason (people with physical disability that ware born with it) gays also got some genes messed up that made them they way they are, It's just a natures mistake. A freak occurence. One in a thousand. it isn't the way nature intended. Therefor, all the gays should be treated for their desise (hormone replacement therapy) just like you would treat and help a retard......

3) No. Like I said. It's a freak occurance. Somewhere during the developement of the fedis, something went wrong........It's not the way nature intended it to be..... if it did, we'd all be gay.....

 

[Luveno]

Originally posted by spider_007
1) natural is; the way things are "ment to be". the way nature intended it to be. Natural DOES NOT INCLUDE natures little mistakes; Retards, people born with disabilities... gay people....

Definition: Nature: Present in or produced by nature.

Last time I checked, gay people had to be born, and birth is a natural phenomenon, so that's about as natural as you get.

You state that just because someone isn't born with what most people are born with makes them unnatural? Are blondes unnatural? What about a black man in a primarily white community? An albino? Your logic is grossly prejudiced.

2) Just the same whay some genes got twiked for whatever reason (people with physical disability that ware born with it) gays also got some genes messed up that made them they way they are, It's just a natures mistake. A freak occurence. One in a thousand. it isn't the way nature intended. Therefor, all the gays should be treated for their desise (hormone replacement therapy) just like you would treat and help a retard......

The difference between a "retard" and a homosexual man is that a homosexual man can function in society just fine without assistance, whereas a mentally disabled person may need professional help to live life.
Additionally, although we are becoming closer to explaining the genetic and neurological basis for homosexuality, it is not a disease, the same way having blonde hair(which is way less probable than having dark hair) is not a disease.

3) No. Like I said. It's a freak occurance. Somewhere during the developement of the fedis, something went wrong........It's not the way nature intended it to be..... if it did, we'd all be gay.....

It's spelled fetus, and perhaps could be explained in the future by development or genetics at that level. However, there are no conclusive facts illustrating your point as of yet. Perhaps homosexuality is a form of choice, rebellion, unrelated to an underlying biological cause? You don't know that, and neither do I, so stop stating obvious assumptions as fact.

 

[spider_007]

I was gona argue with you, but then I figure; what's the use.

go take your fag ass somewhere else.

 

[simon]

Originally posted by spider_007
I was gona argue with you, but then I figure; what's the use.

go take your fag ass somewhere else.

You were going to argue, then you realised 'Oh ****, I have no real argument. I'm a bit of a ****. Shame on me.'

 

[comic_relief]

spider,

your totally right. They are unnatural so we should just take away there rights because they are different then us. Next, lets only let them live in parts of cities and ship all of the them off to those parts of the cities. Then we can finally send them to these camps where they work all day long because of something that they cannot help. Then we can finally get rid of them and all of us homophobic men can jump and dance up and down... How about that? Oh wait, we could do this but we would be copying someone from a little European country. He killed six million jews and eleven million people in concentration camps. He had the same views that you have and the jews couldn't help it either. They were just born that way also. So does this mean that we should kill them off too? I mean they must be "Unnatural" also.

Put yourself in the shoes of a homosexual and feel if you would like this to happen to you. Do you want to be treated differently? Do you feel just because of how you live that you should be treated badly?

You need to gain a vast understanding of the world. Homosexuals aren't going around saying "Hmmm... Men.... *eyes shifting at all the guys* Ooooo that one!!!" No no no NO. They don't do that and I realized that homosexuals are not somebody to be hated (this is coming from a very narrowminded fundementalist christain). The one homosexual male gave a female with a physical sight impairment the chance to play a sports game (she never got a chance to do this!) and you have no idea the difference that it made on this girl.

So guys, go out in the world and realize that homosexuals are not bad like I once thought they are. So what, they are different. Big friggen deal. Your different then me. Does that mean that I can hate on you like this? I didn't think so...

Also "Retards"... I have to go play some baseball but I will get back to this in a little while.

P.S. I can just sit and talk with a homosexual or "Retard" without a care in the world.

 

[Climax]

errr.....

Originally posted by spider_007
I was gona argue with you, but then I figure; what's the use.

go take your fag ass somewhere else.

More like you realised that you don’t have an argument and decided to call him names instead?

If you are ABLE argue what Luveno said, then please do, I'm curious to see what kinda smartass argument you will put up.

P.S.: If you were born attracted to men (and u are a man), and you couldn’t help but be attracted to other men, would you like it if people like me and others would not want to have anything to do with you, call you names, and try and avoid you? and for what? being born somewhat "different" ? What makes a gay person any less of a person than a normal person? I have gay friends, I have no problem spending time with them and being their friend. I see them as just another one of my friends, and if you would be willing to put the FACT that that person is gay, and just see him as another person, then there wont be a problem. My gay friends know that i am not gay, and they respect that, and alike, they treat me, and SEE me as a friend, and nothing more.

Don’t punish people for things they aren’t responsible for, don’t make them feel like **** just because they were born different, its not their fault.


Laterz...

 

[Porky]

Guys,

as much as I agree with aequitas and comic, you're destroying this thread almost as much as spider is.

Roly's making a good point. He's not opening an argument about whether or not homosexuality is wrong, he's just saying that we should be comfortable enough with ourselves not to hate other people. don't ruin the point he's making.