Whats up sexy

[killerasp]

Is there more to than just the simple "hello"?

I was doing some sarging with my DJ friends from the board the other week and it has dawned on me, of the "girl" friends they say, they didnt use, "hey, whats up" line. They were always using something like, "Hey whats up sexy" instead of the usual. They say, by saying "hey whats up" is putting yourself in the friendzone. Whihc kinda makes sense.

How many of you guys also do this. It seems that i can do it also, but to only new girls that ive met and use the C&F from the start.

 

[Ashlee Angel]

I personally don't think it puts you in the friendzone.

Because I never say what's up sexy to a girl unless I am in a realtionship with her.

When I first meet a girl I want her to wonder about me.


Thinking stuff like this

Why did he approach me?

Does he think I'm cute?

Stuff like that so I don't see the problem with using " What's up".

 

[killerasp]

Good point. I guess its your actions afterwords that make the difference.

 

[xblitz44x]

Yeah it has nothing to do with how you address her. Even if you say "Hey what's up friend?" it won't matter. What's going through her mind can't be altered by that. If a hot ass chick walked up to you and said "Hey what's up?" instead of "Hey whats up sexy?" would you feel like she should be your friend? I don't think so. You'd still want to throw it in her.

-Blitz

 

[Industry]

Calling her a "sexy girl" does a few things..

1) It shows that you have mad confidence b/c you put your ass on the line to call her so.

2) It lets her know that you aren't afraid of your sexuality.

3) If said right... she'll think you're just a fun playful guy.


I do this all the time when I go out... I don't say "What's up sexy girl." Leave out the "whats up" part and just go for it. You won't be like most other guys in the bar trying to pick her up w/ the famous opener.

 

[HeyPretty]

Personally, I like it.

Not because it's flirty, or compliementary.

It just shows that he's comfortable. I like people who are natural- at ease with themselves.

It's like a chick saying, "What's up boys" a'la Marilyn Monroe, or "Sure thing Hot-stuff" and winking when she says later to her mates.

It's all how you say it though.

Try not to leer, drool, or have spinach in your teeth. Girl or guy.

 

[silverdog]

I think its a cool thing to say

 

[killerasp]

Originally posted by Industry
Calling her a "sexy girl" does a few things..

1) It shows that you have mad confidence b/c you put your ass on the line to call her so.

2) It lets her know that you aren't afraid of your sexuality.

3) If said right... she'll think you're just a fun playful guy.


I do this all the time when I go out... I don't say "What's up sexy girl." Leave out the "whats up" part and just go for it. You won't be like most other guys in the bar trying to pick her up w/ the famous opener.

So you just go to a girl and just say, "sexy girl"? how does that work out?

 

[Starman]

Industry hit the nail on the head..

by adding keywords like "Baby" "sexy" "babydoll" "Babygirl" it shows you are interested and original

I know those terms sound silly and unconventional..but Ive heard chicks say they MELT as soon as they hear some guy call them that

or say "Hey there.._____" isntead of whats up

 

[wheelin&dealin]

Originally posted by Starman
I know those terms sound silly and unconventional..but Ive heard chicks say they MELT as soon as they hear some guy call them that

Are you trying to take advice from women?

...because that is frowned upon.

 

[Starman]

taking relationship advice from women is backwards on this forum..

taking advice from women based on what turns them on isnt..who else are you going to ask about what turns women on? men?

 

[killerasp]

Originally posted by Starman
taking relationship advice from women is backwards on this forum..

taking advice from women based on what turns them on isnt..who else are you going to ask about what turns women on? men?

very true. i was talking to a close "girl" friend of mine and she pointed out that the C&F stuff ive was trying out was kinda creepy. this is back when i was starting to try out that C&F. Now that ive hanged around more DJ's, ive gotten the hang of it. So id say talking to a girl is important. They can help give insight on somethings we would never otherwise notice.