What's the point of having sex?

[Luke Skywalker]

If they all slept with the same man and no one used condoms this is possible. It does not reflect on society as a whole. If your friends went to a party and made out with a girl with open leprosy and catch it, that does not make the whole world a leper.

True, there is this once city in the east-coast of Canada where EVERY women on there has AIDS, and they caught it from a guy who slept with everyone there. Guess not many guys pass by that town and this one got lucky.

 

[NickBe]

Every single woman the married, the non-married, 14 through to 100, disabled, retarded you are telling me everyone has aids?

That is statistically impossible.

But in your world anything is possible.

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

Hors have Aids and STDs. Find yourself a virgin.

 

[rocky_mtn]

don't bang hos if you're worried about std's. Use a condom. There's risks in everything. You could die in a car accident today. If you speed and don't wear your seat belt you are more likely to have problems. Same thing with sex.

when you find a woman that you want for yourself, go to your doctor or clinic and both get tested and make sure your clean and clear. then get her on the pill.

it's somewhat pathetic how people justify denying themselves the most beutiful things in life.

 

[belividere]

Then there is this thing that if you have sex, a piece of your soul goes to another person forever, and you lose a piece of yourself. Thus, your being is divided by the amount of people you have sex with. For example, if one has sex with 100 people, that means you are divided 100 times.

Isn't that like what people experience after having sex or something?

It may feel 'good', but don't you lose something. Let's say sex is the highest form of intimacy or revelation of yourself to someone that you reserve to someone who you really love, and you have sex with another woman - now for the sake of arguement it could be 1 or it could be 100 - it doesn't make a difference because the 'at least one' arguement is enough to start a slippery slope, so 1 girl or 10000 girls doesn't make a difference if you are really dividing a soul - it's just a question to the extent of divided souls.

So is this true, are you the same self after you have sex, or do you think you are a devil-possessed person afterwards that has like sold off a part of you to another girl or multiple girls, and feel lost?

Well --- maybe you would feel less 'spiritual' after sex since it's unholy - that would suck, I mean, wouldn't you like to square off with God, I mean, you never know when you are doing to die anyway - then you wont be ready to meet God with a lifestyle that has sex in it, right?

Wouldn't you be trading a piece of your "soul" with the other person then making it a two way street? So the girl would have to give me part of her soul as I'm giving her part of mine?

Dont be scared of sex. There are worse bugs you can catch from taking a train, playing in the dirt, using a public bathroom, or even sitting in your house typing on your computer.

 

[prachanter]

STD's like shingles? Shingles isn't an STD. After one gets over chicken pox, the virus remains in the body, and weakened immune system due to illness and old age can cause a second outbreak, called shingles. About 10% or more of people get shingles at one time in their life.

In general people who wait 'til they're married get divorced less often and don't have to work as hard at fidelity than those who don't wait. Do understand, that while the risk of getting HIV for a male is relatively low, Hepatitis B is 100 times more contagious than HIV, and is fairly prevalent in universities. Luckily there's a vaccine for Hepatitis B. In the U.S., these days, 20% of HIV positive males got it heterosexually, the other 80% from gays and drugs. In other contries, heterosexual activity is the most common mode of transportation in men, and the U.S. will probably catch up.

 

[backbreaker]

damn man...... i actually learned something

 

[theunflushables]

My question is, would you buy a car without test driving it? So how could you marry someone without having sex with them first? I mean what if you're totally incompatable?

 

[Luke Skywalker]

My question is, would you buy a car without test driving it? So how could you marry someone without having sex with them first? I mean what if you're totally incompatable?

That's a very bad example because I can reply to that and say, why buy the cow if you can get the milk? Do you see that these are two incompatable concepts? There is no such thing as sexual incompatablity - a penis insert into a vagina and go a back and forth - basic, what issue of compatability is there in that? Anyone can learn how to have sex and be good at it. This sexual compatablity idea is overrated.

 

[ThunderMaverick]

That's a very bad example because I can reply to that and say, why buy the cow if you can get the milk? Do you see that these are two incompatable concepts? There is no such thing as sexual incompatablity - a penis insert into a vagina and go a back and forth - basic, what issue of compatability is there in that? Anyone can learn how to have sex and be good at it. This sexual compatablity idea is overrated.

This comment is spot on, Luke. I think you make sexual chemistry through trust. It doesn't just happen. You have better sex with someone you trust and care about IMO.

I didn't care about my ex when I started banging her. I didn't give a sh!t how she felt and it didn't bother me sticking myself inside and outside of her for a couple of month. It's only when I personally let her in my heart BY CHOICE that I created a "soul tie". That's just me though.

Luke I agree with you that sex should be that very last thing you give a person you care about...but sometimes life goes a little slower than you want it to, and once in a while you push on the gas. =3

 

[Max Power]

Disagree

Some girls are dead phucks period ... got nothing to do with trust.

 

[Mandiblard]

The only real point is to make a baby

 

[rakishness]

Males can not live without sex that is why priests that try it end up molesting children. It is unnatural...

WOW

 

[theunflushables]

That's a very bad example because I can reply to that and say, why buy the cow if you can get the milk? Do you see that these are two incompatable concepts? There is no such thing as sexual incompatablity - a penis insert into a vagina and go a back and forth - basic, what issue of compatability is there in that? Anyone can learn how to have sex and be good at it. This sexual compatablity idea is overrated.

hmmm...issues of compatability...what could possibly go wrong? A girl I once dated told me about how her friend was all against sex before marriage. Turns out she gets married to this guy, on the wedding night finds out his c0ck is HUGE! So much so that her being a virgin could not handle it, and sex each time was incredibly painful. After a year their marriage was on the rocks. I never found out what happened with that though.

And I agree with Max Power, some girls suck in bed. And its not a trust thing either, ask my ex girlfriend. She trusts me with her life, however we did not have chemistry in the bedroom and that was the downfall of our relationship. Now if I had married her without having sex first that would have cost a lot of money in divorce fees.

 

[theunflushables]

That's a very bad example because I can reply to that and say, why buy the cow if you can get the milk?

And doesnt that statement equate to why get married when you can just fvck?

 

[Luke Skywalker]

And doesnt that statement equate to why get married when you can just fvck?

Exactly. So it's not the same as a test drive. A person test driving has an intent to buy if the test drive goes well.

Anyway, what type of examples did you pull up in the above post? Bedroom chemistry and monster c0cks and divorce fees...you messing with my head...I'll have to talk to my cousin again.

 

[WaterTiger]

...I'll have to talk to my cousin again.

Your cousin is a virgin too! He has NO point of reference!

Talking to a virgin about sex is like trying to discuss rocket science with a stockbroker! He knows what a rocket looks like, and where it's supposed to go, but he has no idea how it functions.

And I don't think your Mom is a good source either...Hep C from kissing?????

I understand you come from a deeply religious background and that's just fine. But if you aren't looking to have sex (The theme of your most famous post) then why are you here? Why don't you just ask the Pastor/Priest/Leader of your church to find a nice virgin girl for you and just marry her????

You sound like you are terrified to touch a woman for fear of damn near everything. Dude! Lighten up!

 

[Luke Skywalker]

Why don't you just ask the Pastor/Priest/Leader of your church to find a nice virgin girl for you and just marry her????

Nobody wants to marry me nor am I ready to get married. It's not that important anyway.

You sound like you are terrified to touch a woman for fear of damn near everything. Dude! Lighten up!

Suppose a woman start crying that I've sexually assaulted her from touching her, or may get offended and freak out. It's a bit of a psychological cage, but except for my (ex?)-gf, I never had ANY positive experiences touching a girl, and I'd only trust a prostitute because at least you know sexual touching is ok with one of them since you are paying for it or maybe with a casual hook-up where stuff like that can be communicated, it's sad to say, but it's the pattern of thinking where normal girls are legal and career risks.

 

[NickBe]

He implied before that his cousin is in school, he is talking to a school kid about sex. You have to be kidding me man, the guy only found out he had a penis a year ago.

Luke you have some screwed up logic. Suppose you got hit buy a car when crossing the road? Does this mean you cant cross roads anymore. If women feels uncomfortable when you touch them it has nothing to do with them it is all you and that doesn't surprise me. With the way you view sex you make me uncomfortable.

You make me ****ing cringe when I read what you say. No wonder when a girl is sitting next to you, you wipe the sweat of your forehead then with chattering teeth and closed eyes you move you trembling hand to her leg she feels uncomfortable.

I have slept with about 70 women and not one has cried rape and none of my friends have had any girl cry rape. You are paranoid, and honestly you show symptoms of OCD I am not kidding now I real suggest you see a psychiatrist.

Girl do not just cry rape for no reason, stop being paranoid and making excuses for your failures.

 

[Snowyk]

Here I am kind of hoping that this is all some sort of joke. But it appears that Skywalker is serious.

Wow.

Just wow.

As for why have sex? If you want to have any meaningful relationship with someone, you need to know every part of them. That includes having sex with them. As for the comment that sexual compatibility is a myth... well, only someone who has never had sex would say that. Sorry.

Man up. That's your solution.