What's the point of dealing with chics you don't want to phuck/don't wanna phuck you?

[Tha Realnezz]

I don't understand it.

Maybe it's me.

I've always been under the impression that "there's plenty or more fish"...

So it sorta baffles me why guys get into chics and waste time and feelings on women that aren't gonna give them any at the end of the night/or at least any any time soon...


It's a total waste of time.

That is the ultimate goal..

I've been getting chics since 11 years of age and never in my life have i really persisted on a chic that just didn't want me.

Sexually,i've had teases and aw's play with my mind but nothing more than that..

I'd rather lower my standards and go out and have a nice time with an average chic that's into me and attracted to me than with a chic that doesn't even want me to come to her home,or get sexual with her?????

What is the point of me being with her if I can't phuck her?I'd rather be out with the guys then,b1tch..

Everything else comes with the vagina,not the other way around.I don't care how cool,or funny a chic is or how she has similar hobbies and goals,and how unique and special and blah and blah,...okay?

If I can't have sex with her what is the whole point then?To be freinds...:nono:

What is the point and what is the reason behind that?:I just suppose men want what they can't have/have unrealistic physical standards because of the media..so they MUST have THAT CHIC...lol,it's a two-way street daddy,she's has to like you back...lmao....

 

[Jay Jay]

This may be a new concept to a lot of men who have never had a healthy relationship with a woman but

drum roll.

Some girls are great fun to hang with. Some girls make loyal friends.

Some girls will bring joy to your life EVEN IF YOU ARE NOT BANGING THEM!!!

JJ

 

[Wyldfire]

It's good to spend time with women you aren't interested in and who aren't interested in you because it makes you more comfortable around women. The more comfortable you are around women the easier it will be for you to approach and talk to the ones you are interested in. It's VERY helpful to have female friends as long as you aren't pining away after them. If you make friends with them SOLELY for being friends it's actually VERY helpful to your confidence and comfort level in dealing with all women.

 

[Last Man Standing]

This may be a new concept to a lot of men who have never had a healthy relationship with a woman but

drum roll.

Some girls are great fun to hang with. Some girls make loyal friends.

Some girls will bring joy to your life EVEN IF YOU ARE NOT BANGING THEM!!!

JJ

I have yet to meet a man who has said such in my lifetime!!!! Your assertion is pure conjecture!!!!

 

[Tha Realnezz]

It's good to spend time with women you aren't interested in and who aren't interested in you because it makes you more comfortable around women. The more comfortable you are around women the easier it will be for you to approach and talk to the ones you are interested in. It's VERY helpful to have female friends as long as you aren't pining away after them. If you make friends with them SOLELY for being friends it's actually VERY helpful to your confidence and comfort level in dealing with all women.

That's for guys who lack confidence..i don't have that problem..

 

[Ojete]

I don't understand it.

Maybe it's me.

I've always been under the impression that "there's plenty or more fish"...

So it sorta baffles me why guys get into chics and waste time and feelings on women that aren't gonna give them any at the end of the night/or at least any any time soon...


It's a total waste of time.

That is the ultimate goal..

I've been getting chics since 11 years of age and never in my life have i really persisted on a chic that just didn't want me.

Sexually,i've had teases and aw's play with my mind but nothing more than that..

I'd rather lower my standards and go out and have a nice time with an average chic that's into me and attracted to me than with a chic that doesn't even want me to come to her home,or get sexual with her?????

What is the point of me being with her if I can't phuck her?I'd rather be out with the guys then,b1tch..

Everything else comes with the vagina,not the other way around.I don't care how cool,or funny a chic is or how she has similar hobbies and goals,and how unique and special and blah and blah,...okay?

If I can't have sex with her what is the whole point then?To be freinds...:nono:

What is the point and what is the reason behind that?:I just suppose men want what they can't have/have unrealistic physical standards because of the media..so they MUST have THAT CHIC...lol,it's a two-way street daddy,she's has to like you back...lmao....

That's what I always tell my friends...

We agree 100% mate

 

[Fred Da Head]

Pretty much every girl I've been friends with had hot friends, and being friends with those girls allowed me to meet their hot friends and I already had social proof and, if need be, my friends could put in a good word, making it easier to get the hot friends.

That, and some girls are actually fun to hang out with.

 

[Tha Realnezz]

^That's not true.

Most hot chics have no freinds.Sh1t most hot guys don't have many freinds either just lovers,relatives and accuaintances..

The few hot chics I know that get along with other females have dog-looking freinds who hate on men constantly.

I only hang with chis I phuck,phucked,want to phuck.There is no other point.

Girls are too flaky to be trusted..

 

[Raikojo17]

^^ and why cant a girl you're fvcking or have fvcked put in a good word for you? more than likely she'll be telling her friends about you so they will be more open to you because they want in.
female friends help, but they are not really necessary.
but yes, some females are actually cool and fun to be around without me being attracted to them. they make great buddies.

 

[st_99]

agreed, no point in being friends with a HB. I don't think it helps you in any way, only hurts you. The only thing you learn is how to be friendly (aka, AFC).. not what you should be doing with chics. And social proof? When other girls find out you're just friends I'm thinking it makes you look more like a dweeb. I had a chic LJBF me after a brief sexual relationship... I just completely blew her off, yeah, because I want to hear about this guy she met the other night.. HAHAHAHAHA..Next! Hang out with your boys, have sex with chics..simple.

 

[Tha Realnezz]

^If you say so then fine.

From my experience you shouldn't walk to the cornerstore with a chic you don't like..

 

[darwinian_sympathiser]

It's good to spend time with women you aren't interested in and who aren't interested in you because it makes you more comfortable around women. The more comfortable you are around women the easier it will be for you to approach and talk to the ones you are interested in. It's VERY helpful to have female friends as long as you aren't pining away after them. If you make friends with them SOLELY for being friends it's actually VERY helpful to your confidence and comfort level in dealing with all women.

You see there's a particular problem with this: for example how I can get friendly with a woman I'm not sexually interested in? Would they be so dumb not to suspect an ulterior motive? And I agree with The Realnezz that only men who lack confident/experienced guys do this, but there are some who generally like having female friends. And there are certain females who can make great friends. But the problem is that if I got out of my way to be friends with a female to get comfortable with women in general it would just feel false, you just can't do it for the sake of that reason alone. I'm only speaking from personal experience.

I use to have a friend who grew up as the only male in the family. He had loads of female friends, saw him with a group of females nearly all the time around college. Anyway, he tells me that one of his females friends started to develop feelings for him. It was subtle but he noticed it. He wasn't interested in her and she took it very badly.

Most hot chics have no freinds.Sh1t most hot guys don't have many freinds either just lovers,relatives and accuaintances..

The few hot chics I know that get along with other females have dog-looking freinds who hate on men constantly.

terribly, terribly true. And it doesn't take much imagination to wonder why . . .

 

[STR8UP]

This may be a new concept to a lot of men who have never had a healthy relationship with a woman but

drum roll.

Some girls are great fun to hang with. Some girls make loyal friends.

Some girls will bring joy to your life EVEN IF YOU ARE NOT BANGING THEM!!!

JJ

Yep, that's the key. To have a HEALTHY platonic (or even semi-platonic) relationship with female friends.

I'll argue this till I'm blue in the face and some guys will never get it. I'm sure some guys are wired to be INCAPABLE of having friendships with the opposite sex. But for me it's pure gold.

Today I got invited to go out for Cinco de Mayo by two different groups of girls, and another group that will probably be mostly girls. I'm don't pine for any of these women. Matter of fact at least a couple of them have a thing for me. They always bring around new friends, and I am instantly qualified by my social proof in the group. Half the battle is already won. No downside whatsoever.

What's the point?

Lots of fun times and a steady stream of new chicks handed to you on a silver platter. Hmmmm.....no brainer.

 

[frisco]

Quality women social network, one quality women can lead to countless opportunities to other women. So why not social network yourself and pursue nothing but a girl who is a friend relationship. You can also practice your game while hanging out with them. The more women you have in your life the more you'll attract.

Conclusion- If shes actually a cool chick then just play cool and go for some of her hot friends.

 

[BacardiGuy]

Quality women social network, one quality women can lead to countless opportunities to other women. So why not social network yourself and pursue nothing but a girl who is a friend relationship. You can also practice your game while hanging out with them. The more women you have in your life the more you'll attract.

Conclusion- If shes actually a cool chick then just play cool and go for some of her hot friends.

I became friends with a hot girl I met at and she consistently sets me up with her friends. I'll call her to chill and next thing I know she's turning herself into a third wheel by showing up with a horny friend. I guess she pimps me out... that's fantastic.

 

[~attrACTION~]

Yeah, it's just you. I agree, women are cool sometimes. There are some chicks who are really laugh out loud funny and I like hanging around them because of that. But hey, whatever floats your penis.

 

[typical]

It's good to spend time with women you aren't interested in and who aren't interested in you because it makes you more comfortable around women. The more comfortable you are around women the easier it will be for you to approach and talk to the ones you are interested in. It's VERY helpful to have female friends as long as you aren't pining away after them. If you make friends with them SOLELY for being friends it's actually VERY helpful to your confidence and comfort level in dealing with all women.

Sorry wyld but more often then not alot of girls are plain boring aye, I'd rather either be nailing them or be with my guy mates who know how to have a good time doing whatever we want.

 

[Tha Realnezz]

I dunno women that are cool are often hoesish or have hoeish qualities.That's why we think they're cool..either that or they get clingy after awhile since she think you're "cool" too..

I just can't deal with women I don't want to bang unless they're related to me ofcourse.

 

[Bizzaro]

For me, it aint to difficult to have a woman as a friend.

it has many ups, like she introducing me to many more females and so I get more to choose from. I just don't have to tell her about my intimate and personal life so she never ends up screwing me up and i end up being frustrated like you mate.

Its obvious some girl screwed you over. or probably got close to it.


but in all else, if i get interested into her as more than a friend, i don't think theres anything she could do to stop me from creating the necessary feelings in her for me.

 

[Raikojo17]

^^ so where do ya'll find all these girls that hook you up with there friends? i find it hard to get these cuz most girls i befriend end up liking me. how do you get them to not like you?