What's the best way to nuke a woman's hamster?

Spaz

Banned
Joined
Jan 14, 2018
Messages
8,433
Reaction score
6,929
Glassguy,

I've been on here a few years . I'd say the main couple of problems are:
#1. Trying to raise a females interest level.
#2. Pedastalling "hot girls"
#3. Trying to get an ex back

We need to be fvcking the bytches that we can and not overanalyzing things.
#4. "BPD" women.
 

Glassguy

Moderator
Joined
Apr 25, 2016
Messages
4,703
Reaction score
8,652
Age
47
Glassguy,

I've been on here a few years . I'd say the main couple of problems are:
#1. Trying to raise a females interest level.
#2. Pedastalling "hot girls"
#3. Trying to get an ex back

We need to be fvcking the bytches that we can and not overanalyzing things.
I agree. Women with a high interest level will make it easy to get them out on a date and eventually fvck them. Plain and simple. If they are not making it easy, they need a "next". Spin more plates, fill up your rotation based on the available time you have to see chicks and go from there. If you next one by stopping communication, and she comes back around, put her back into your rotation but on the bottom of the list.

If a woman doesnt make it easy in the beginning, she isnt going to make it any easier after you finally chase her around and get her out.

Ex's should stay exes. There is a reason it didnt work. Most of the time when guys get an ex back things go right back to the same way if not worse and you just waste more of your life on some flakey bytch.
 
Last edited:

mrgoodstuff

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 27, 2015
Messages
17,885
Reaction score
12,121
Location
DFW, TX
I agree. Women with a high interest level will make it easy to get them out on a date and eventually fvck them. Plain and simple. If they are not making it easy, they need a "next". Spin more plates, fill up your rotation based on the available time you have to see chicks and go from there. If you next one by stopping communication, and she comes back around, put her back into your rotation but on the bottom of the list.

If a woman doesnt make it easy in the beginning, she isnt going to make it any easier after you finally chase her around and get her out.

Ex's should stay exes. There is a reason it didnt work. Most of the time when guys get an ex back things go right back to the same way if not worse and you just waste more of your life on some flakey bytch.
They say a bytch or assh0le will try to come back to see if your still stupid.
 

EyeBRollin

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 18, 2015
Messages
10,697
Reaction score
8,642
Age
35
There was a woman I was trying to hook up with a while ago. She was playing hard to get so I decided to next her.

Now she's chasing after me. Constantly blowing up my phone, sending me pictures, asking when can we meet up etc. I am currently seeing someone else and have no interest in her anymore.

Do I tell her I am seeing someone else or let her see me with the new woman?
Either hook up with her or ignore her completely. No need to waste time.
 

Glassguy

Moderator
Joined
Apr 25, 2016
Messages
4,703
Reaction score
8,652
Age
47
El Payaso is a calm, cool, well educated poster when it comes to women as apparent in his responses and thought processes.

That being said, the wisest of people still try to gain others opinions from time to time. We should all be trying to always improve not only with women but all areas of life and that's part of the process.

Most millionaires aren't geniuses but are smart enough to surround themselves with people who can contribute just as much as they do to their own personal success.
 

MatureDJ

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 30, 2006
Messages
11,295
Reaction score
4,664
When a woman is into a guy, she doesn't play hard to get, she's responsive. This woman wasn't responsive, you were not her top choice and her coming around now is likely her attempt to use you as a fall back between her preferred choices.

So don't be the fall back. Let her know that you are with someone and just leave it at that. No point in ruining a current thing you have going for revenge/ validation sex with a woman who rejected you before and is likely wanting an ego boost from a guy who she knew was interested, while she continues looking for her preferred choice.

This is how women build orbiters and back up plans.

Don't give her the satisfaction :)
This might be the best advice I have ever read @ SoSuave.
 

MoreThanSmooth

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 8, 2017
Messages
1,021
Reaction score
794
Age
33
I was expecting this thead to be asking for some sort of elaborate sex tips until I vaguely worked out WTF "nuking the hamster means".
 

ohrein

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 30, 2016
Messages
1,074
Reaction score
1,223
Age
39
If your not getting none take what you can get till you can get what you want.
I prefer not to be a slave to my biological urges. I'll pass on the yeast and do something productive with my time, thanks.
 

mrgoodstuff

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 27, 2015
Messages
17,885
Reaction score
12,121
Location
DFW, TX
I prefer not to be a slave to my biological urges. I'll pass on the yeast and do something productive with my time, thanks.
3, 6 or more months go by there will be some losses man. Women don't like to fvck someone who isn't fvcking. It's not being a slave to your urges. It's knowing what you need as a man and whats good for your psyche. you can bone a friend a couple times a week without being a slave to your urges.
 

ohrein

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 30, 2016
Messages
1,074
Reaction score
1,223
Age
39
3, 6 or more months go by there will be some losses man. Women don't like to fvck someone who isn't fvcking. It's not being a slave to your urges. It's knowing what you need as a man and whats good for your psyche. you can bone a friend a couple times a week without being a slave to your urges.
I'm a recovered alcoholic and I view sex like alcohol. I enjoy it but I don't need it. I can go without either indefinitely if it's what is best for me. I don't believe sex is good for your psyche, necessarily. It releases the same chemical ****tail that drugs do. Although I'm sure there's research proving me wrong on that one.

I didn't notice an overall increase in mood after the sex with my girlfriend became regular. Obviously the immediate and hours after you feel great but that's not a good reason to chase sex recklessly.
 

mrgoodstuff

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 27, 2015
Messages
17,885
Reaction score
12,121
Location
DFW, TX
I'm a recovered alcoholic and I view sex like alcohol. I enjoy it but I don't need it. I can go without either indefinitely if it's what is best for me. I don't believe sex is good for your psyche, necessarily. It releases the same chemical ****tail that drugs do. Although I'm sure there's research proving me wrong on that one.

I didn't notice an overall increase in mood after the sex with my girlfriend became regular. Obviously the immediate and hours after you feel great but that's not a good reason to chase sex recklessly.
Do you believe we are all wired differently? Some of you are wired to prefer to be alone, not want to be close to someone. With me it's a definite and long lasting mood improvement. I'm more impervious to stressful situations. My confidence higher. Part of my MALE IMAGE is that of being a SEXUAL male, so you just can't kill that without hurting my image some.
 

mrgoodstuff

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 27, 2015
Messages
17,885
Reaction score
12,121
Location
DFW, TX
And I learned that SEX and the easy access to it affects your subconscious and people can see it. They are more attracted and charmed by a sexually active man. Versus a stressed, sex starved man. That's not attractive. But then again some men are not passionate lovers as part of their image and sex was all about domination and that's it, almost equivilent to masturbation to those types. they can fill that domination need from wrestling with men. A man like me is going to be AMPLIFIED inside of a feminine woman. It is not a DISTRACTION to you rlife unless your being stupid behind it. It greases my wheels and allows my creativity and heat to rise and hold at a higher height. That's ME and I"m okay with it.
 

ohrein

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 30, 2016
Messages
1,074
Reaction score
1,223
Age
39
Versus a stressed
Stress is the trigger for any addiction. Just because an addiction isn't a problem yet, doesn't mean you're not harboring a mild one. People use all sorts of things to self medicate their stress, whether it's eating, alcohol, drugs and even sex. If you're relying on something chemical to deal with your stress, you're not mentally healthy in my opinion. That's not an insult, just an opinion.

Do you believe we are all wired differently?
In some ways yes, in other ways no. I have a high sex drive when I am with a woman, particularly one I like. But sex is like eating. You can be healthy about it or you can use it as a tool to self medicate, at worst it can be harmful.

It greases my wheels and allows my creativity and heat to rise and hold at a higher height. That's ME and I"m okay with it.
Yeah, I'm not saying don't do it. I don't think you have a problem at all, I'm just saying be aware of your drives. Control them or they control you.

And I learned that SEX and the easy access to it affects your subconscious and people can see it. They are more attracted and charmed by a sexually active man.
I think it's less the physical sex itself and more the lack of caring. But I'm open to being wrong on that because it is a phenomena I have experienced. But since I'm not desperate for sex, I don't have trouble running game even if I have gone without for a while. There's not a super noticeable difference to me. I'm a Buddhist and practice CBT so I'm very calm and stress free most of the time, regardless of what is going on around me.
 
Top