What's the Best Way to Meet High Quality Women?

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I feel like with each failed relationship I've had in my 20s, I've become more cynical with regards to women, I realise that most women are completely unsuitable for a healthy long term relationship that leads to Marriage.

Meeting women, getting to know them, and ultimately getting married required time and opportunity. This is not the same as setting goals such as buying a house, getting education, etcetera, because these can be done anytime.

Unfortunately i never put in the effort to cultivate a strong social circle when i was in Highscool and University.

I'm in my mid 20's and it is getting harder to meet women, compounded by the fact that Covid-19 restrictions makes it difficult to meet new people and getting into organisations/events. I'm just wondering what people like me can do in these conditions?
 

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It’s a numbers game. You need maximum volume.

Mid 20s dude you are too young to worry about marriage. In today’s age, you have to be well established (30+) and ready financially to take on a wife. Women look at you differently in your 30s than in your 20s.

Continue meeting hves online, through social events, church, or activity meet ups. Use every available opportunity. Cast a wide net and try to sleep with all of them. The ones that want to be your girlfriend will make it clear they want to lock you down.

Also, be a consistent, system dater. Keep your approach the same for all women. That’s how you know each woman’s behavior is based on her own personality, not things you did.
 

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Mid 20s dude you are too young to worry about marriage. In today’s age, you have to be well established (30+) and ready financially to take on a wife. Women look at you differently in your 30s than in your 20s.
if we already met the right woman during our early 20's why wait? Overthinking things and waiting until we are financially and mentally ready will lead to nowhere. There will never be an absolutely perfect time. Either we do it now and work through it, or lose the opportunity.



Also, be a consistent, system dater. Keep your approach the same for all women. That’s how you know each woman’s behavior is based on her own personality, not things you did.
Great advice here, i will be taking this on board
 

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if we already met the right woman during our early 20's why wait? Overthinking things and waiting until we are financially and mentally ready will lead to nowhere. There will never be an absolutely perfect time. Either we do it now and work through it, or lose the opportunity.
If you meet the right woman early go for it!
 

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No perfect time but early 30s is good advice. Being up to 10 years older than your woman is a good thing as long as you ve used the time wisely. Over 10 not so much. At 35 you LL be in your 50s when your kid is at college. So knocking up a 22 YO when you're 32 is as good as it gets. Women don't age as well as men you LL want that 10 years
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I feel like with each failed relationship I've had in my 20s, I've become more cynical with regards to women, I realise that most women are completely unsuitable for a healthy long term relationship that leads to Marriage.

Meeting women, getting to know them, and ultimately getting married required time and opportunity. This is not the same as setting goals such as buying a house, getting education, etcetera, because these can be done anytime.

Unfortunately i never put in the effort to cultivate a strong social circle when i was in Highscool and University.

I'm in my mid 20's and it is getting harder to meet women, compounded by the fact that Covid-19 restrictions makes it difficult to meet new people and getting into organisations/events. I'm just wondering what people like me can do in these conditions?
Meditate. Go into nature. Double down on your purpose and path in life. Pursue wealth, health, lifestyle. Get deezd. Get the bag. If and when you arrive you will still want legacy.

As for women, most belong to the streets. Enjoy the decline. Adopt stoicism. Read meditations by Marcus A. The caliber is not worthy of cleaning your toilet let alone marriage and mother of your child. If you want the following you better source more and go where what you desire exists.
 

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I feel like with each failed relationship I've had in my 20s, I've become more cynical with regards to women, I realise that most women are completely unsuitable for a healthy long term relationship that leads to Marriage.

Meeting women, getting to know them, and ultimately getting married required time and opportunity. This is not the same as setting goals such as buying a house, getting education, etcetera, because these can be done anytime.

Unfortunately i never put in the effort to cultivate a strong social circle when i was in Highscool and University.

I'm in my mid 20's and it is getting harder to meet women, compounded by the fact that Covid-19 restrictions makes it difficult to meet new people and getting into organisations/events. I'm just wondering what people like me can do in these conditions?
what exact skill, hobby, or activity are you good at that women find intresting?
 

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Hi Zimbabwe,This damned pestilence has crippled all our social lives,you must forgive yourself for not having cultivated a meaningful social network,getting an education and finding a career is much more valuable than gallivanting around....You shouldn't be chasing marriage at your age,everyone needs to sow their wild Oats at some time,now is your time for enjoying life a bit...If you can't find Chicky Babes in Sydney which I have lost contact with,try trolling up to Newcastle,I can guarantee that you wont have to chase them,they will chase you...I was in the Workers Club up there for a Friday night social evening and my young Son was literally swamped by attractive Ladies...I am an Old Guy but if so inclined could have picked something up.
 

Peace and Quiet

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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Hi op. In my tewnties I met a few girls worth keeping around. Some in school, some trhough social circle, and some online. In my 30 I have only met one.
 
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