It started to happen to me when I was in the military. Women would ask about me in front of me. It sounds funny. Like a woman would ask a guy next to me “who’s he? What’s his name?” And the guy would be like “uhhhhh. Why don’t you ask him yourself? He’s standing 5 feet away from you.” And then the woman would try to make eye contact with me but she would look as if she was trying to stare into the sun.
I was always perplexed by this behavior. I thought maybe it was because I was socially awkward. Then one day I was standing next to a bouncer friend of mines outside a bar in San Francisco. A woman walked up to us and asked if the place was happening that night. The bouncer said “well my friend is here so of course it is”. He was referring to me. And she said “what’s his name?” And I was like wtf??? I’m standing right here, lmao. And my bouncer friend said “why dont you ask him?” And she looked stunned and said “well......he’s obviously a beautiful guy. He doesn’t need me to boost his ego.” And then she ran into the bar, lol.
Just this past weekend I attended a Labor Day weekend social gathering and the same thing happened. A woman kept asking about me to a friend of mines while I was literally sitting right next to her, lol.
Ive realized now that the greatest compliment is women being completely intimidated by your presence. There’s attraction. There’s admiration. And then there’s complete intimidation where the idea of you and her interacting is beyond her capacity to handle.
This does not mean I am super dominant, however. Not all women are intimidated by me. Only women in my.......wavelength. To women in my wavelength, it looks like serendipity. Like I just appeared out of their fantasies. So they are in a state of shock and awe. They managed to let go of romantic expectations and then I suddenly show up and their minds can’t believe it.
That’s how real romance works. A woman who is truly attracted to you Is completely intimidated by you. You blow her fuse. And she has a hard time composing herself around you. Making eye contact with you is like looking at the sun for her. That’s the electric sexual and romantic energy needed to spark an epic romance.
This is often the case. Women will take one look at me and assume I'm a heart and back breaking monster. Sometimes they'll go very much out of their way to make sure they don't have a chance of flirting with me. That doesn't stop them from melting in my arms and jumping in my bed with minimal charm.
Sometimes it feels like a disadvantage. A girl is so intimidated that she's paranoid about losing herself and making sluutty mistakes so she's extra defensive and avoids me at all costs. But in reality this just means she's not confident enough in herself to enjoy me.
One time at a new office a fit mid 20s joined and sat on the other side of the giant room from me(probably 100 people in the room). I didn't think she was that hot but some of the other guys were creaming their pants over her so I made a bet that I could lay her. I casually asked her out on some lunch walks and on a walk eventually said something like 'I want to kiss you but I don't want any drama at work..' to which she replied that she was worried about the same. I planted a kiss on her anyway and she tackled me to the ground, rolling around with me in the grass. We started fuucking each other's brains out every day at lunch, she was actually pretty hot with her clothes off. She confessed how she sat on the other side of the room so that she wouldn't be distracted by me, and about all these little tricks she did to make sure she wasn't getting wet at work and distracting herself.
When women are scared that they won't be able to control themselves around me it's cute. When they take active measures to reduce the chance of spontaneous flirting/fuucking I'm flattered. As if they are so prone to losing it around me that they have to plan ways to avoid me, for the sake of their panties. Talk about feeling godly.