Okay but when she tells me shes confused and I act like I dont care shes going to think im an ******* only wanting to get laid from her , right ? Im trying to establish a real relationship with her , shes told me shes wished for a boyfriend like me. I dont know If I should keep waiting around for her to keep pressing me to be commited to her ( which is what I want ) Or if i should just tell her I want to be commited. I was also reading some of the articles a while back and I remember one that said the guy should never be the one to ask for that, So Im not sure. Im 22 years old and I could say with confidence that women find me attractive and intresting but when it comes to relationships I suck. The longest serious relationship I have kept is only 6 months. What do you guys think ?