Alright so this is a long post so bare with me! I had been dating this girl for 5 months and everything seemed pretty good and then I made the mistake one day of giving a friend (who was a girl) more trust than her. This friend came to me and said she thought my girl was cheating blah blah blah and I harassed my girl for answers! I told her she was F-ing up and it was hard to trust her (she had previously texted guys prior to the relationship and when we got together she nvr cut it off until I found out). Two weeks later I think everything is going well and then her mom sends her a huge text. I seen the msg but couldn't see what it really said. She then said she had to go and she would be back, so I sat in a recliner just watching TV and she comes back and says "we need to talk". She then said she was unhappy blah blah blah and that she wants to break up, so initially I kind of wanted to laugh and just leave, but after a few minutes I realized I didn't want to lose her and then I broke down crying!!!!! - BIG MISTAKE!!!! I had a crap day and it was my B-day party with her so it made me feel like a complete sack of crap! She then she said she needed time so I hugged her and left and then I just couldn't resist talking to her so I sent her at least 8 long msgs begging for her to talk to me - BIG MISTAKE!!!! She never responded and then out of the blue she texts me saying "Im sorry I know this isn't what you want to hear but 'm done with this relationship we need to move on", so what do I do? I drive to her house - HUGE MISTAKE and apologize to her and her mother for not trusting her! Neither one of them cared go figure! The next day I send one final msg saying I was done with her ect and she finally replied with something completely irrelevant but she started talking to me. Slowly but surely she started to talk to me and we reminisced over all the good times we had and we talked about random things, but I kept trying to win her back and asking her for a second chance! She said she would be my friend blah blah blah who cares right? I told her I would give her space and give her time to think things through like I should have done the day we broke up. Now my question to you guys is, I'm pretty sure I'm already to late and she's made up her mind, but I don't want to be her friend I want to be her BF! I'm under the assumption that she's going to reply telling me she wants to be friends (I know how she thinks) and how should I reply to this? I was thinking of responding by saying something like "sorry I can't be friends with you, then explain how she was in the wrong and not me (pin blame on her), then tell her she lost me and I have to move on!" I now realize you can't beg them back they just don't care, so my question is should I respond like that, or what is my chance for success? I'm pretty sure I already ruined it by begging/acting desperate, but I know now I need to finish it by acting like I just don't care and have moved on and especially since I'm giving her time to clear her head.
