It's pretty stupid to ask this question and then call half the respondents liars.
I spent approximately three hours today ****ing. It seemed like more, but it may have been less, I wasn't timing it. I have a cd player that takes five cds and I generally finish around the second or third one. But todays hours were divided into three sex sessions, interspersed with occasional foreplay.
Do i sound like I'm boasting? Ok, then let me admit it was once VERY different. Back when I first started having sex, with a condom, I lasted a fair ten minutes. Occasionally less.
The when I started dating hotter women and the condom came off (as it does in LTRs) I found that I would often come after just a few strokes. Or worse, sometimes with the condom. Double-plus ungood.
This is how I went from a two-minute flash-in-the-pan to my current Sir ****alot status - and why it's not always as good as you'd think.
First, in desperation, I tried the condoms that numb your ****, and the spry too - and they worked! The only problem was that once my gf kept complaining that her mouth was really numb, and I had to explain about the condom.
The I read about the method that many swear by - stopping yourself as soon as you feel yourself approaching the point-of-no-return, wait (and tell the chick not to move either, they find this a turn on). Once the feeling subsides, start again slowly, or better go eat her or something, until you again reach that 'plateau' stage where you can safely bang away without fear of coming. The more often you do this, the longer your plateau state will get. And your confidence and control will snowball as you get better.
Another thing I learnt is that mindless humping is not the be and end all of sex, though it is pretty imperitive at some point. What with all the sucking, knot-making, dirty talk, there is no need to be constantly thrusting your way towards the pop-shot. The older I got (I'm actually 36, but everything else I post is true and field-tested) the easier it became to hold back, which now means I often find it very hard to come, even with really hot chicks. I enjoy sex without coming just as much.
I am lucky enough to have a giant penis, they run in the family (you should see my moms!) so I can get a lot of results just by slowly pushing it right in. Even with an average sized penis, I strongly recommend SLOWING DOWN and make every inch count. A little dirty, whispered 'What's that? You want more?' talk at this point will ease your passage.
Even so, if you want to be the best **** your woman's ever had you must master the art of being able to bang away like a barn door in a storm for a good half hour at least. Once you have learnt this, times of two, three or even 12 hour sessions are possible.
You must hit your learn how to distance yourself from what your penis is doing. Think of football teams or Jesus if you like, but thinking about how you could squeeze her nipples really hard is a more productive idea.
Pound away, but be concentrating not on the pleasure (you'll be feeling it , don't worry) but on how you are stroking her leg, when to dig in a nail and scratch her thigh, how to breathe in her ear at just the right moment, what to bite next. etc.
The time will fly by.
