What's it mean when a girl asks if you're gay?

FairShake

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Hobbs said:
I'm not gay, I have nothing against gay guys or girls.

A few times lately, in the last 2-3 months i've got out with friends and talked up some girls and I've been asked if I was gay or even got a 'your not gay?'
Every time I've asked why they would ask that they say 'because you're really good looking' ..WTF?

I'd say i'm average looking. I'm lean/fit I have a photo of me in the fitness section on this site.
I think I might dress a bit better than most guys.
I have a low voice, I dont talk with a lisp or wave my hands around or anything, So i'm trying to figure what is up.

Anyone have experience with this, or a good way to react afterwards?
When a girl asks me I drop my game and focus on where she'd got that from.
They don't say it in a snobby way or anything, they say it as if they're in awe but it's just ****ing annoying!
It could be they are just fvcking with you. Girls like to do that. A good time to fvck with them back.

"I wasn't gay until I met you." or "I was until I met you."

Or "Yes. Want to change my natural born instincts?"

It could be that you aren't showing them attention. If a single guy isn't showing a girl attention the girl will start to get thrown off. And that will bring the insulting rationalizations. Consider it part of the mystery and a sign that, at the very least, she is curious about you.

From your photo I don't think you're gay though (Jimbo's hilarious post to the contrary).
 

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BigJimbo said:
http://i.imgur.com/OdmIK.jpg
You do look very feminine and GAY. The real problem is that you look like a prick. The type of gay boy that even gay men avoid. I wouldn't hire you to work at Starbucks, let alone take my bags up to my room. And if you did take my bags to my room I wouldn't tip you. Get a man's haircut, put a shirt on, and make some money when you grow up. End.
Sounds like someones jealous.
Must suck to not be able to take your shirt off 'big'jimbo
I don't really know where you've come up with this bringing bags up to a room scenario, but it's pretty weird, do you usually look for guys to carry your bags for you up to your room? Do you tip them with your mouth? "just the tip"?
Or is it that your some lard-ass that has to use an obese-scooter to carry his hyper-obese body around?
Regardless, you don't know me, and side note I probably make more at my job than you do.
None of what you said was any sort of constructive-criticism.
 

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BigJimbo said:
http://i.imgur.com/OdmIK.jpg
You do look very feminine and GAY. The real problem is that you look like a prick. The type of gay boy that even gay men avoid. I wouldn't hire you to work at Starbucks, let alone take my bags up to my room. And if you did take my bags to my room I wouldn't tip you. Get a man's haircut, put a shirt on, and make some money when you grow up. End.
How is any of what you said relevant???
His photo was posted in the fitness section, of course his shirt was off.
It's **** like this that made me leave this site in the first place.
Jimbo, don't think for a second that your blatant insecurity doesn't show through in your post.

OP, you probably have girls thinking your gay because your compared to slobs like Jimbo.
 
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