Whats Her problem

[HotDog]

Ok I already posted this but was in a huge hurry so I posted under another username.


So I finally called this girl back. She was real nice to me we had what I thought was a good convo Hell she even put her daughter on to say Hi to me. Then in mid sentence she says hold on let me answer this other call. I am 10000 percent sure she did not get another call, then she tells me to call back in 15 minutes. I call back and she does not answer the phone???


I know everybody will say Next but I want to understand this. Like what exactly is the point I basicly asked her friend if I could still call she says Call Her and now this???? I am so depressed u wouldn't believe it. So is there any chance I will hear from her again?? I am at a loss here....

Please Please Help me understand this!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[dietzcoi]

Man have some pride and get the f@ck out of this drama!!

WTF!

I was involved with similiar drama with a girl I worked with a few years ago, while I was seriously AFC.

Looking back I am completely disgusted. You will be too.

She does not want you, I saw it from your first thread even though some of these guys thought she did.

Fatty is making up ****, she is the attention wh0re and enjoys being some kind of drama queen go-between

Man you are AFC and she is running for the hills to escape you!!

STOP IT NOW.

NEXT!!!

Dietzcoi

 

[HotDog]

Man you are AFC and she is running for the hills to escape you!!

How did I act AFC to her???? I am not getting it, when she was around I would read the DJ Bible making sure what to do Like for example some guys at work would tell her she is so hot etc and I just stood there and laughed at them I neg hit her etc. Now I am not sure where u get she is running for the hills from, however I am not going to call her ever ever again.

She does not want you, I saw it from your first thread even though some of these guys thought she did.

I have no idea how she didn't want me she must be the best actress in the world then. I call her yesterday I hear it in her voice when she hears its me she has the High Pitch squeak when she said my name. I would assume that if she didn't want to talk to me she would of said I am busy and got right off the phone or hung up on me or something other then sounding all cheerful talking to me then all of a sudden decide that she doesn't want to talk to me.......... All the things to make me think she likes me are
1. Told me she was Crazy for me.
2. Would always invite me to parties go to bars etc.
3. Ate lunch at work with me everyday
4. Always wanted to eat food from her and would feed me food
5. always coming to my office to see me. I would be outside smoking and she would show up outside whenever I was out there
6. watching me when I was not looking
7. Kino me
8. doing things for me
9. taking care of me
10. She asked for my number and gave me hers without me asking.
11. etc etc etc
12. Said if something got started between us she would not put an end to it.


I am not going to talk to her ever again. I am very very hurt by this. I really cared for her. Now this thread is getting many views but nobody wants to help me,please help. I HAVE to understand what happened!!!!!!!!!!!!! I will always wonder and wonder what she did. Now the only thing I could come up with is That she has a boyfriend who supports her and I can't because I have a dead end part time job and maybe she realizes she can't be with me due to the fact i can't support her she even asked me yesterday if I was ever going to get a better job, maybe I am grasping at straws here. I am going to read re-read and read again the DJ bible I don't want to get hurt like this again. Another thing is I never contacted her at all until yesterday. So she quits leaves and I never try to contact her but she contacted me gave me her number and told me to call sometime then I call and get this WTF

Please Help !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[HotDog]

Anybody ????????????

 

[HotDog]

Originally posted by GigaloDJ
Hey HotDog, WTF is your problem??

I was the first person to reply in your thread and i gave you the answer. You didn't have to keep posting about her.

NEXT!!!

If you go after her anymore, you're an AFC...

Oh yeah she is NEXTed for sure. My problem is what did she do to me it is making me sick she showed all those signs I posted. I just HAVE to understand this for next time I am really hurt by this and I just want somebody to explain it to me. Thanks

 

[usdaprime]

HotDog I am far from an expert but I will try to give you my 2 cents. I see what your going through, it has happen to me too everybody wants to scream Next but nobody will step up and help you out. They will give you advice then if they are wrong forget about them pointing out that fact, or going into any detail to help you understand.

I think maybe this girl was hurt by you not calling after all that time, and she said the HEck with you. She may have moved on I mean really would you wait around for as many months as you made her wait for a girl? I know I sure would not. I am a little confused as to why she would have acted all nice to you then pulled that shet with you. BY the way why in this world did you wait to call her all this time? How long has she been with her current boyfriend? If he has to support her do you really want for her to leave him only for you to step up and support her yourself? If you can't then how did you plan on being with her? I don't know like I said I am far from being a DJ but this sounds weird to me. Is she mentally stable? I do think you should move on.

Peace Out

 

[MVPlaya]

Whats YOUR Problem?

Originally posted by HotDog
Oh yeah she is NEXTed for sure. My problem is what did she do to me it is making me sick she showed all those signs I posted. I just HAVE to understand this for next time I am really hurt by this and I just want somebody to explain it to me. Thanks

"I just HAVE to understand this for next time I am really hurt by this and I just want somebody to explain it to me."

WHO GIVES A FLYING F_CK WHAT SHE THOUGHT? Seriously, the DJ bible is about getting mucho chicks, not oneitis, so stay off her!!!! Now, listen up, you do not "have to understand this"... maybe she had PMS, her dad died, she hates guys who nickname themselves HotDog, she broke a nail, her favorite stylist permed her hair wrong, mad about Britney and Justin, just wanted to attention wh0re, her favorite show got cancelled, shoes she bought went on sale the next day.

There could be a million reasons and I wouldn't give a ƒuck about a single one of them. Women are different... so figuring HER out won't help you for the other 3 billion women out there. And what the hell does I am hurt mean? That is as AFC as it gets. Ok, you tried, b*tch said no, move on. If you were hurt it was only because you formed an attachment with her prematurely, why would you give a damn about what some random person thinks? You wouldn't, so why about her? She's just another hoe. So NeXt her. And don't give us this bullsh*t about "I'll next her but I am soooooooooooo hurt and I just want to be loved" crap. Just say, bye. And don' look back. In time everything will make sense to you and you understand that somethings don't have to... and never will... make sense.

BTW., about your title, the issue at hand is not "What's Her Problem?" but "What's YOUR problem?"

 

[Carpy]

I'm going to express my opinion on this subject.


The girl was diagnosed with cancer. I dont know what that means to you, but to me cancer is a BAD thing. Now when a person gets diagnosed with cancer, life changes rapidly. Things that were important are no longer important at the moment(IE, some AFC trying to DJ her). Now you say in the 3 months after being diagnosed with cancer, you talked to her once and she had to call you? I would have at least made a call and said "how is everything, are you ok?" If you dont have the balls to call, you could have sent a get well card.
The girl is probably pissed you showed little or no thought for the fact she had/has cancer. Why would anyone want a relationship with a person they knew who couldnt at least mail a card at a time like that? It would not have been AFC to make a quick call or send a card in a time like that, it would have been the right thing to do for a person you know! No need to go overboard, just a quick call or a card is all.





"she says because she is dealing with her cancer and some other problems."

That quote is your answer. Get your head out of your @ss and think about it.


I've known 4 people in my life so far that got cancer. Two are no longer here, 1 had it removed and its been gone so far, and one its back for the 3rd time in 5 years. I can guarantee you that each of those people had more on their minds than dating someone at the time.
This opinion is based on what you wrote, and you seem to have very little thought for the fact she has cancer.

You said you and holly were friends for about 8 months before you fell for her. Then later you say

"I do in fact care about her cancer. I did ask Fatty is Holly had her surgery to have it removed and she said ""Yeah A LONGGGGGG time ago"" so I don't know if she was annoyed that I asked or if she wondered why it took me so long to ask. I know this is stupid but I actually care for Holly we was friends first"

You had to ask the fat girl if your friend had her surgery? You couldnt call and ask Holly, who you say is a friend, if she had her surgery yourself? Uh, i dont know about you, but if i had cancer and a friend of mine didnt at least make one call to see how i was, i'd write that person out of my life forever.
THINK ABOUT IT.
------------------------------------------------------

 

[HotDog]

WHO GIVES A FLYING F_CK WHAT SHE THOUGHT

I DO

Girls can play games and play with your emotions. Don't ever let it get to you.

Point taken Thanks Gigalodj

The girl is probably pissed you showed little or no thought for the fact she had/has cancer.

I sure did and do still care. I tested that Fat Biatch and I asked her what Holly's phone number was again because I forgot it "which I didn't forget" I told her I was going to call to see how she is doing with her cancer and fatty said in a quite voice "Oh you forgot it huh then she told me the number. I took her quiteness as a hint not to call her. Well maybe that why Holly talked to me the other day for a few minutes I would assume that if she didn't want to talk to me she would of said I am busy or hung up on me. So maybe she stayed on the phone to see if I would mention her cancer and when I didn't she got pissed and gave me that call me back line??????????????


Thanks Guys Maybe now I can try to get some new woman.