whats going on?

[S.Y.L]

Recently, I just could not give a **** about anything. I am about to grad, couldn't really care, still never had a real girlfriend, I couldn't care, and just **** happens, but again, I don't care.

I don't know why girls aren't that attracted to me. I work out every day, play in a band, have been asked to be a model, dress nicely, and I can drive now as well. And its not like I am the typical nice guy either. I'm not nice at all, a lot of people just say I'm a jerk lol.

Only thing I can see is that, I am not the most popular person at school. Everyone knows me, and I talk to everybody, but I don't really hang out with everyone, go to parties, etc. Is this much of a drawback though.

I don't really talk to that many girls either. Why? I really don't know that many to be honest. How do I get to know more girls who I don't share classes with, or don't have any friends in common.


Somebody explain, please.

 

[YogurtSlinger]

I'm not nice at all, a lot of people just say I'm a jerk

Here is your answer.

 

[Donnie Darko]

I don't really talk to that many girls either. Why? I really don't know that many to be honest. How do I get to know more girls who I don't share classes with, or don't have any friends in common.


Somebody explain, please.

You get to know more girls by seizing each and every opportunity to approach and talk to them. Try saying hi to more girls. Ask them how is it going? Start off easy with more girls that are in your classes or activities like the band so you gain more confidence talking to them. Ask them questions...like what did you think of "......" the school dance, basketball team, the band uniform...i don;t know anything. Follow up your initial conversations with girls from time to time....simply say "hey, what's going on?"...then ask a follow up question or for their opinion. You are only going to get better at it and get to know more girls by trial and error. Your failures will be your experience that will lead you to your eventual success because only regret of not trying is worse than any rejection that you will face.

 

[S.Y.L]

By band I mean rock band lol, not like trumpets and ****