What's considered a "player"?

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So I had dinner w/my friends the other day. I just moved to Seattle, I used to come from a small town, I haven't really dated since I moved here, but i used to date a lot of girls in my old town, I'd never chase any girls (too busy with other things back then). They would chase me, and ask me out. So i dated them, but only for about a month... then i'd loose interest and move on. I didn't use them for sex in any way, they just couldn't keep me interested.

After telling my friends this, they got mad and said "i was playing with girls hearts and only players do that."

I don't consider it playing a girl if didn't **** and chuck.

thoughts?
I'm just curious on what you'd view as a player.
 

sexy_kuta

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i believe a real player has a girl in a LTR and keeps her

thats a true ma fukin playa
 

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talkin within us to me player is some one who got game, and can convey personality easily to a group of poeple.

to girls player, is the guy who ****s alot of chix and usually lies to them...
 

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a player is a guy has multiple girl relationships at a time.

like a guy with 2-3 girlfriends is a player..
 

Don't always be the one putting yourself out for her. Don't always be the one putting all the effort and work into the relationship. Let her, and expect her, to treat you as well as you treat her, and to improve the quality of your life.

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Originally posted by Hunterchilla
a player is a guy has multiple girl relationships at a time.

like a guy with 2-3 girlfriends is a player..
That's just standard.
 

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it takes a true player to keep a girl for a long time..

if you had no game.. how the hell would u keep a girl? she would cut u off and go for more

cheating and lieing to a girl in a LTR is just stupid and makes you look like an idiot..
 

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Originally posted by Mr. Unique
We dont use the term player here.
I guess you really ARE unique...
 

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A player, to me, is anyone who has CHOICE with women...whether that be the choice of a LTR or the choice of a new chick each night.
 

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player is someone who plays with girls hearts... he flirts with them but doesnt get any further.. hes misleads them just to for fun.
 
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