What qualifies a passport bro?
I met my wife who was here studying. Her family are wealthier than mine are.
A few comments here about not doing the work, well, I earn great money. Could be more athletic, but I did and could date plenty of women here.
I got more bang for my buck with foreign women and always have. Better quality, more attractive. The women I was dating in this culture were difficult. I was late 30s and wanted kids, I couldn’t hang around.
In the west, due to mass migration which is mostly male, and those women coming are usually attached to a man, our dating market is distorted. Women here, white women, have the massive thirst of men coming here (many of which I believe came here to fulfil a dream of dating white girls) and plus all of us. so no, I don’t want to put the work in. A guy with no obvious defects, good career etc shouldn’t have to date women massively below him because demographics have made him less valuable. Other places have the opposite issue - men leaving. So you’re merely matching supply with the demand.
I have a demanding career, I’m not particularly interested in adding a rigid existence of gym and having to dedicate my life to what is a pretty normal and achievable thing - finding a wife or GF. It shouldn’t be that hard.
So while one side if “I didn’t want to do the work” I think the other side is “you’re a mug for having to dedicate your life and all your time to attracting a woman”. Especially when you consider how spoiled and trashy a good percentage of women here have been made.
All I have to deal with is some people thinking it’s a social taboo but I don’t care. My life is easier - not without some issues but compared to the BS my friends have to deal with, life is good.
Going abroad to offer a woman marriage is a poor strategy but there’s nothing wrong with living there and seeing what happens. Basically western men are over there because their men are here. Western women are terrible wife material but an enormous ego boost to men outside so they are more than welcome to pick up our trash and we can find some decent women there. No one loses.
Nature usually kills a lot of men off in wars so having higher levels of men is rare historically but that’s what’s happened in the west and why western men have it so incredibly hard in the dating market.
in many ways it’s the ultimate FU to feminism. Like it or not. If you’re dedicating your life in attracting women as your primary goal, you’re still being controlled. It’s no different to the bimbo getting a boob job. Going and seeing how things are abroad is helpful. You would be amazed how ridiculously hard the bar is set here and how poorly men are treated here and how easy life is there. WE are living the distortion, and it’s not something we should have to put up with.
Females here know this full well hence they consistently shame men who do it.