What's a H#?

[saigonheadache]

I never really liked referring to girls as hors because aren't they all human that need sex? so why call a girl a hor? But recently I told a girl that seemed like an angel that I love her (I know Idon't need to hear it again) and in response she told me that we were just fu#king and it didn't mean anything to her and that now she's back with her ex and I really felt that we have smthng going on. So is this an example of a hor? but i still can't be mad at her cause I let this happen to myself. Well where is the love does it exist, cause this type of ish happened to me for the 3rd time

 

[Raptured Phoenix]

Originally posted by saigonheadache
Well where is the love

I think an essential part of being...a satisfied person, not just a successful DJ, is realizing that LOVE come from within.

 

[00Kevin]

Originally posted by saigonheadache
I never really liked referring to girls as hors because aren't they all human that need sex? so why call a girl a hor? But recently I told a girl that seemed like an angel that I love her (I know Idon't need to hear it again) and in response she told me that we were just fu#king and it didn't mean anything to her and that now she's back with her ex and I really felt that we have smthng going on. So is this an example of a hor? but i still can't be mad at her cause I let this happen to myself. Well where is the love does it exist, cause this type of ish happened to me for the 3rd time

not hor

its.


HOE!

 

[saigonheadache]

Re: Re: What's a H#?

Originally posted by 00Kevin
not hor

its.


HOE!

Whatever, that's not the point tho. The point is what are my lessons from this?

 

[00Kevin]

ok.. well the first lesson is never to tell a girl first that you love her. I know this might sound imature, but it really is the truth.


You really have to respect this girl for telling you flat out that she doesn't feel the same way.

There is a chance however that her point of view could change but it all depends on how old she is.

1. I suggest that you avoid kissing her. Do her if you must but avoid kissing her. Tell her that you only kiss girls you have feelings for. Do this once and I can guarantee that you will have total control of the situation.

2. Also, date more women. Increase your numbers.

3. Finding love is really a numbers game. Don't let yourself fall in love unless you are damn sure she feels the same way.
Try dating a fat girl or a girl that is a few steps below your standards. You will see how quickly she will fall in love with you and how easy it is to tell.

 

[jakeyboy]

you have to accept it but sex is simply a physical act, it requires no affection on the woman's part. look at prostitutes. she was merely amusing herself with you

so remember the next time you be in bed with a fine lady, dont let her know how you "feel", just think of it as a physical act, no more, unless she says so. just enjoy it for its superficial value

i thought i was special to my ex, a conservative woman... who stripteased for me and made wild love to me. and she dumped me the following month over some stupid misunderstanding.

these physical things never mean much to them. especially non virgins. its like their bodies have been cheapened therefore now they dont care who touches their body, they're immune to real affection

and yeah, never ever tell her you love her, wait for her to do it, then you know its real.

 

[AFK Protector]

NO, THERE IS NO RULE FOR WHEN, OR WHETHER OR NOT, YOU TELL A GIRL YOU LOVE HER.

That's crazy talk dude. If you really feel it, truly feel it, wait a day, and if you still feel it, go ahead. But don't do it too frequently. As for her not liking you, respect that as previous posters have said, and move on. Use her as a pvssy and nothing else.

 

[( . )( . )]

A chick who was honest with you and upfront about her sexuality a "ho"?

she seems like a perfectly normal woman to me except maybe a bit more honest than most.

more power to her.

 

[saigonheadache]

Originally posted by ( . )( . )
A chick who was honest with you and upfront about her sexuality a "ho"?

she seems like a perfectly normal woman to me except maybe a bit more honest than most.

more power to her.

Not quite, she didn't tell me upfront while we were fu$king otherwise I would've never fell in love with her. On the contrary we seemed to understand each other very well. I have to mention one interesting thing tho, when I confessed to her she said "You can't do this to me, you cannot be in love with me, you don't even really know me" WTF like I put her in a bad position or something and I'm guilty of that? I talked to her for 4 months. So is this some senseless chick BS or is there a meaning behind it?

 

[NewMan]

Meaning is - You've got one-i-tis for this chick.

Classic case.

You'd better stop being relient on women for your happiness.

What is all this talk about love.

Your walking around blindly.

You will get hurt unless you tighten up your feelings.

Again.

Stop falling in love with women - learn to read their signs. let them make the furst move. Hold your emotions back.

 

[( . )( . )]

Originally posted by saigonheadache
Not quite, she didn't tell me upfront while we were fu$king otherwise I would've never fell in love with her. On the contrary we seemed to understand each other very well.

not very well by the sounds of things if your throwing words like "" in love"" around and other assorted romantic comedy catch phrases when talking about this b1tch.

try cutting back on this idea of "falling in love" and just have fun with these chicks (they have with you) and learn from your last 3 lessons.

 

[saigonheadache]

Originally posted by NewMan
Meaning is - You've got one-i-tis for this chick.

Classic case.

You'd better stop being relient on women for your happiness.

What is all this talk about love.

Your walking around blindly.

You will get hurt unless you tighten up your feelings.

Again.

Stop falling in love with women - learn to read their signs. let them make the furst move. Hold your emotions back.

Thanx guys for your input it really helps guys who are hurt. NewMan I see what you sayn but where does this need to love a woman come from, why does it always breed inside me. It's like controlling it is lying to yourself. Is it bad social programming on my behalf or something. I always hope that one day I will meet this one, I mean I would give a lot to get rid of this hope and need but where does it come from?

 

[Dukester]

hey bud, sounds like you rely toooooo much on women. i had that problem, i was a huge AFC. I needed a girl to make me happy, and even then i wasnt 100%. happiness comes from w/in. love doesnt make happy. happy makes love.
when you are happy, love comes natural, and easier. take ya time man, and let love come to you- as long as you are happy from w/in, i mean truly happy. none of that fake sh!t