What's a good reply to "You are luck I'm giving you my #"

[Naughty Ninja]

Well I used your reply (before the edit) and she just replied this:



Her bit about Messenger is BS, because she already added me and she never comes online.

Tell her you've installed it and your Yahoo IM is "I've already got your number toots!"

 

[Bluntmaster]

Tell her you've installed it and your Yahoo IM is "I've already got your number toots!"

WTF? I'm not using that.

 

[Naughty Ninja]

Are you talking to this girl on P.O.F? MAybe I misread the thread. Did you get her number first? And is she afterwards talking about you adding Yahoo Im?

 

[Scars]

The whole "..i like that." only confirms that she is getting a kick out of toying with you. Any ****y/funny lines she would had easily dodged because they are expected. To her, you are just another guy trying to hit on her. She is running you through a punch of hoops, and has probably heard it all. I don't think the standardized formula will work with this chick, because she is expecting it. You said this girl has been short from the get go right? I just don't think this girl has a sense of humor to begin with. I do believe it's still salvageable, she did offer you to text her. You pretty much have to do a power move involving getting a strong emotional reaction out of her. Essentially, a massive push/pull. This girl seems like you could be as rude as you want to her, but she would still keep reply back because she is enjoying it. Use it to your advantage. Right now you need to change her emotional state. Go from severely pissing her off to suddenly becoming sexual. Throw a baby, or babe at her. It will catch her by surprise. This girl wants you to serve her sh!t right back to her. She probably has some deep seeded post traumatic problems. Probably was abused, or neglected and needs a severe a$$h0le to get her juices going. These are essentially the types of girls that you get into the hugest argument with then you throw them up against a wall and start making out with them. They dig sh!t like that.

That's just my perspective. But then again it seems like my advice has been steering you wrong.

In any case.. good luck. I'm going to bed.

-Scars

 

[Bluntmaster]

Are you talking to this girl on P.O.F? MAybe I misread the thread. Did you get her number first? And is she afterwards talking about you adding Yahoo Im?

No, I met her on craigslist. She asked if I want to chat. I gave her my email and she added me to yahoo, but she has never been on it like she says. She has only told me the area she lives and where she works. That's all I know about her.

The whole "..i like that." only confirms that she is getting a kick out of toying with you. Any ****y/funny lines she would had easily dodged because they are expected. To her, you are just another guy trying to hit on her. She is running you through a punch of hoops, and has probably heard it all. I don't think the standardized formula will work with this chick, because she is expecting it. You said this girl has been short from the get go right? I just don't think this girl has a sense of humor to begin with. I do believe it's still salvageable, she did offer you to text her. You pretty much have to do a power move involving getting a strong emotional reaction out of her. Essentially, a massive push/pull. This girl seems like you could be as rude as you want to her, but she would still keep reply back because she is enjoying it. Use it to your advantage. Right now you need to change her emotional state. Go from severely pissing her off to suddenly becoming sexual. Throw a baby, or babe at her. It will catch her by surprise. This girl wants you to serve her sh!t right back to her. She probably has some deep seeded post traumatic problems. Probably was abused, or neglected and needs a severe a$$h0le to get her juices going. These are essentially the types of girls that you get into the hugest argument with then you throw them up against a wall and start making out with them. They dig sh!t like that.

That's just my perspective. But then again it seems like my advice has been steering you wrong.

In any case.. good luck. I'm going to bed.

-Scars

Very Interesting. Please type me up something good to say tomorrow, I suck at this stuff. Twice now she has told me to text her but I haven't done it.

 

[Naughty Ninja]

The whole "..i like that." only confirms that she is getting a kick out of toying with you. Any ****y/funny lines she would had easily dodged because they are expected. To her, you are just another guy trying to hit on her. She is running you through a punch of hoops, and has probably heard it all. I don't think the standardized formula will work with this chick, because she is expecting it. You said this girl has been short from the get go right? I just don't think this girl has a sense of humor to begin with. I do believe it's still salvageable, she did offer you to text her. You pretty much have to do a power move involving getting a strong emotional reaction out of her. Essentially, a massive push/pull. This girl seems like you could be as rude as you want to her, but she would still keep reply back because she is enjoying it. Use it to your advantage. Right now you need to change her emotional state. Go from severely pissing her off to suddenly becoming sexual. Throw a baby, or babe at her. It will catch her by surprise. This girl wants you to serve her sh!t right back to her. She probably has some deep seeded post traumatic problems. Probably was abused, or neglected and needs a severe a$$h0le to get her juices going. These are essentially the types of girls that you get into the hugest argument with then you throw them up against a wall and start making out with them. They dig sh!t like that.

That's just my perspective. But then again it seems like my advice has been steering you wrong.

In any case.. good luck. I'm going to bed.

-Scars

that's what I'm talking about. A girl on the net gets wise with me I throw it right back and don't care if I get her number. If Bluntmaster got it already why would you even entertain Yahoo IM? I'd just tell her my response and let her enjoy it! "My Yahoo IM is I'vealreadygotyournumberandyouLOVEittoots!"

You've got to push her buttons back. Who cares what some broad on the net thinks?

 

[RMM]

"Hopefully you'll be lucky enough for me to use it."

That's the first thing that came to mind. Can probably use a bit more spice.

EDIT: Note to self, read the whole thread before posting next time. kyokon already got that one, heh.

 

[seagull]

"well if you are lucky, I might even use it"

Winner.

And to the OP, she may be flirting/teasing you so I wouldn't throw the number away. Of course, it depends on how she says that.

 

[kingsam]

What i usually do is I pick and choose what I respond to.. no need to give a reaction to everything a person says even a women.. just continue on your train of thought and dont worry...

+1

no reactive, not even responding is probably best to this

"yeh, anyway....."

 

[Darth]

What i usually do is I pick and choose what I respond to.. no need to give a reaction to everything a person says even a women.. just continue on your train of thought and dont worry...

Agreed.

 

[Razor Sharp]

I've dealt with this many times, mostly because I get off on approaching girls who are admittedly out of my league looks-wise. I've tried being c*cky, neg-hitting and all the typical PUA sh*t. By far the response that has worked the best is to completely re-frame it so we are on equal footing and she admires my perspective.

Your typical c*cky response will just put you into a one-up dynamic where she is framed as an adversary. That can be fun but I don't find it particularly effective in terms of closing the deal.

The real trick to putting women into their place is not playing the game on their terms, switching up the context in ways they did not expect and using THAT to lead the tone of the interaction. Think about it, does a general let himself be challenged by a soldier? The very thought is laughable. Furthermore, a soldier wont respect a superior who stoops to his level.

Personally I get MUCH better results from girls who look up to me, than the ones who think they can out-fox me.

HER: You are lucky I'm (giving you my number / talking to you / letting you take me out)

ME: I suppose that's one way of looking at it. Personally I prefer to think of us as both being fortunate. Destiny has brought us together for some unknown purpose and I find that more exciting than just blind luck. Years ago our parents met, fell in love and had us in completely different parts of town (country/world) and yet here we are making a connection. That's pretty amazing when you think about it.

HER: I'll say (Doggie-dinner bowl look)

 

[BananaSmile]

id just say

"im always lucky" and then wink or smile

 

[Atom Smasher]

"You'll be lucky if I call you".

 

[Maxfarsigth]

HB: You are lucky to have my #
Max: Hey! The only lucky person around might be you if I happen to call you.

Hummmm.... In spanish sounds more C&F......

 

[5string]

"well if you are lucky, I might even use it"

Yep, or, "if you're really lucky, I might call you".

 

[DanelMadr]

What's a good reply if a girl says "You are lucky to have my #" and then gives you the #.

Why? You rich or something?

...and I would erase 7 points in my mind, because I obviously deal with arrogant and stupid girl who don't know how to behave.
RED FLAG

 

[DanelMadr]

id just say

"im always lucky" and then wink or smile

That's good.

I would add.....and walk away. Turn the corner and throw the # away, because she is not any good.

 

[kingsam]

I've dealt with this many times, mostly because I get off on approaching girls who are admittedly out of my league looks-wise. I've tried being c*cky, neg-hitting and all the typical PUA sh*t. By far the response that has worked the best is to completely re-frame it so we are on equal footing and she admires my perspective.

exactly the route that RSD has... look them up you may like

 

[Bluntmaster]

Come on guys, you are slacking hardcore. Where is my reply to her latest reply?

She said:

...i like that. email is not the best way for casual communication. Yahoo messanger is not that hard at all. you just need install and easy to use. you will find convenience. i hope to see you there or you can txt me.

Come on let's hear some ideas. I still haven't texted her or IM'd her.

 

[Alle_Gory]

Come on let's hear some ideas. I still haven't texted her or IM'd her.

We're slacking? This is YOUR problem.